Will I ever get married - Discussions, questions

Crowleys Disciple From what I can see in your chart marriage will come soon and you will have kids... I think a friend told me once that a Gemini who has mainly planets concetrations in the southern hemisphere tend to marry later and have kids later in life.


im new to astrology so forgive me if my reading is totally off

Anamel Considering you have two planets in the 7th house of marriage, it looks like you will although you can experience setbacks. Saturn is a slow-moving, older planet so as the above commenter said, I think it also represents getting married later in life. Pluto being there can also represent a very committed and deep marriage that lasts until death, or one that can go through a lot of transformations and challenges.

Gemini25 » Anamel So I have Saturn and Pluto in 7th house?

Gemini25 » Crowleys Disciple Are you able to tell how soon?
Thank you

Anamel » Gemini25 Yep! Two pretty heavy planets to have. Certainly not a bad thing though. After all, they´re both slow-moving so it could represent having a very strong marriage in your later years that lasts for the rest of your life. A very serious commitment. That would be the positive way to look at it.

Astro-Seek.com » Anamel System message: Post has been written by user MarvinReal, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I agree. That´s a good analysis.

Gemini25 » Anamel I feel so cursed though. I want to be in love with someone and it´s not happening. I´m 35 yrs old and very depressed about this aspect in my life.

Gemini25 » Crowleys Disciple Do you see how soon? This year? Next?

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I think if you were getting married it would have been in Saturn in Scorpio since normally the first marriage is around 29 years old an in the Saturn Return, or at least in Saturn in Sagittarius since it involves the 8th house.

Uranus in Gemini opposition Uranus in Sagittarius (Mid-life Crisis) may be when you would get married again. First your 2nd Nodal Return would have to happen, and you might meet them around that time in North Node Taurus.
You have the North Node in the 1st house, so this generally sometimes means the first part of your life is learning to be independent and focusing on yourself.

Which in the later years you will have someone come in from past life who may be some sort of soulmate to help evolve and grow, and you help them. You might be learning a lot of lessons in the North Node Gemini about the masculine, but it might not have to do with marriage but preparing you for the person in the later years.

Saturn in Aquarius Square Saturn in Scorpio and the Node in Taurus I think would be pretty tough for marriage right now because kind of pushes to change a lot and evolve.

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Pluto in the 7th house basically means you transform your partner. My partner has Pluto in the 7th as well and South Node. You most likely have a lot of wisdom, knowledge, and insight people need when they enter your life. So don´t really worry about that too much.

Gemini25 » goldenlion32 You say 29 but I´m 35 and was never engaged or married. So what age do you think it might happen?
I thought my North Node is in 12House? Is this in vedic you mean 1st?

Past life person? Hmm maybe I have already met him

Gemini25 » goldenlion32 Yes that is very true. Sometimes I do feel like I have met people that I needed to heal and once that happened they left my life.

ancient_astrology Ok, so you can get married but there are some issues in your chart that makes this challenging. So let me explain why and then ask you some questions.

The first thing is that you have Saturn in the 7th house. This usually means a late marriage. If your birth time is exactly right, then Saturn is helped by being in the bounds of Jupiter, so that´s good. Saturn in 7th house will usually mean getting married a bit later in life, or even marrying somewhat a bit older than you. In your case, it could very well be marrying someone involved with you at work. These are all possible scenarios. However, I must warn also of one thing. Saturn is here in a night chart, so he is the main malefic. Please beware of marrying someone who is authoritarian. The good news is that Saturn is conjunct the south node, so is weakened by that. In this case, a weakened malefic Saturn is a good thing.

The second thing problem is that Venus is in detriment in Aries. So she does not get a lot of support from her environment there, so getting marriage does not come easy for you, nor do relationships. And you must be mindful of a few things: one, do not put yourself into hostile relationships and do not mistake lust for love and do not be impetuous, just jump into relationships. Those are some potentials here....and I´m not saying that any of them comes true for you, but they are strong potentials. The Twelfth house is not a favorable house in general. It can lead to secret affairs that lead nowhere or relationships can turn into prisons. It does not need to be either, but this would be interesting to discuss. Venus is the ruler of your first house, so this story of Venus being located in the 12th and the implications of that loom large here. It´s sort of a central issue in your life. So maybe you should discuss Venus, your love life not having the proper conditions, the proper environment, and also Aries issues like violence and 12th house issues around feeling confined in relationships or them being secretive. Any or all of these issues could come up in regard to marriage.



The above said, Jupiter is helping your Venus, and Venus is in turn helping the Lord of your 7th house (Mars). So, that´s good. As Lord of the 7th house, Mars can tell us something about marriage. He´s in his own bound. He is also just coming out of the rays of the sun, so he is particularly powerful. He is not well-placed in the 2nd house because he cannot be seen by the ascendant, however, this Mars is strong enough to make me think that you will be married, and it could be a very good marriage IF you avoid some of the warnings listed above.


I don´t post much on this site, so if you would like me to do the zodiacal releasing on your lot of eros, let me know. You can give me your birth date here or message me. Your lot of eros would probably tell me a lot about timing.

Good luck. And let me know if you´re interested in me looking at your Zodiacal Releasing.

anit Вам нравятся женщины огненых знаков Овен и Лев. Вы хотите, чтобы женщины были сексуальными, но ваш Сатурн против. Вы поработайте над собой и скажите что сексуальность это хорошо

Astro-Seek.com » ancient_astrology System message: Post has been written by user MarvinReal, who already deleted profile on this website:
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That would be interesting to know using these methods.

ancient_astrology » MarvinReal I am not going to write much more about this chart here, until I hear from Gemini25.

However, in terms of profections, it is a 12th house profection years, so this is a year of endings. That Venus and Mars will be activated. There may be a relationship beginning or ending. If it is beginning, just be careful not to jump into thing too quickly and getting involved with the wrong person. In other words be mindful.

That said, I see something potentially big happening between June of 2021 and June of 2022. In Zodiacal Releasing, your Level 2 Lot of Eros will undergo what is known as a Loosening of the Bond. It will move into Pisces and there it will be conjunct the natal lot of fortune.

That´s all I am going to say on this, because I´ve come to learn that astrology should be more about asking questions than giving strict answers. If Gemini25 wants to reenter this conversation, then I am willing to discuss this more.

anit » MarvinReal У вас есть все данные чтобы притянуть в вашу жизнь девушку. до конца года, также вам нужно носить кольцо с изумрудом 10 карат. Носить на безымянном пальце постоянно. Оправа кольца любая. Вы встретите свою вторую половину))

Gemini25 » ancient_astrology Hello!

Thank you so much for this info. Yes if you can tell me more, timing wise and if maybe you can see what might my future spouse be like? Foreign?
My birthday date details
25.05.1985
04:00AM
Wejherowo Poland

Gemini25 » anit I´m sorry I dont speak Russian. Can you translate?

anit » Gemini25 По натальной карте у вас супруг Близнец . Ваша Луна в 4 доме и вам плохо в родном доме. Вам нужно поменять место жительство и тогда вы встретите свою любовь. Вам тоже нужно носить кольцо с аметистом и браслет с Лунным камнем

Gemini25 » ancient_astrology Oh I´m sorry just read this post. Wow thank you for your input.

Yes I am in contact with a Man that maybe things will happen but he lives abroad, so not sure how this will come about.

I hope what you see next year will be something good for my love life. I do desire a relationship and want to be a Mom already

anit » Gemini25 Я желаю вам всего наилучшего и не забывайте прорабатывать свой , быть более мягчее, нежнее в отношениях, забудьте о ревности. Удачи вам

Lib_8 Hi Gemini25,

I can relate to you to some extent. My Saturn is also conjunct Venus and I have been told can lead to difficult relationships and it’s actually a good thing I haven’t been married yet.

When I was in my 20s it would bother me a bit more because I could see all my family and friends getting hitched and having kids. That lead me to bad relationships and chasing love. It’s only now when I reached my 30s have I come to accept and be content at my situation.

Yes I do also hope to get married and try and have kids (I’m already 35 so my window for that is going down) but at the same time I’m content being single and independent too. If you read some of my older posts I have asked similar questions for me and I did try online dating too recently which didn’t lead to anything serious. So for now I’m content sitting back and focusing on living life to the fullest and on my friends and family.

I’m not naive I know that if I don’t find someone soon I may not be able to have kids. but in terms of finding someone I have hope and I know he will come whenever it’s meant to be. I just don’t know when and honestly I find it hard for anyone to pin point exactly.

Gemini25 » Lib_8 Omg that is exactly how I´m feeling. I never had a boyfriend before..ever. u was I´ll for quite some time with an eating disorder so never focused on men in teenage years because of this...early 20s as well, mid 20s met some Men but they only wanted to bed me and weren´t looking for anything single with me which made me sad. I DONT want to be the Woman they want to have sex with only, I am worth much more. I am still a virgin because I dont fully trust men and I dont want to go to bed with them unless I know something serious will happen.
Now I´m 35 and still no relationship. I am scared I will never be blessed with a partner, love and children. Not sure what is my karma, why God is still hiding me...of course I love and Thank God for the blessings in my life but I want more. I want a partner, to feel how it is to love someone else you know...romance.
Do you have Venus in 12house?

leorising » Gemini25 stay strong, you must marry just because you see your worth! God bless, you should tell all your friends about your virginity so they can spread the gossip and some serious man come to you! your treasure is worth a wedding, neither more nor less

you´ve waited too long, wait until the wedding night