Pluto square both moon and mercury - Discussions, questions

dani_mae1 I had pluto square moon as a transit recently and it spurned a time period of depression for me. I’m not sure how it truly works. I was just looking back through my journal of transits and thoughts and that’s what was going on during that entry. Thankfully it has passed, mostly because I was aware what was happening and was able to dissect it utilizing astrology and therapy tools.

IIyyaarr13 » dani_mae1 My most exact aspect in my last life was Gemini Pluto right hand tri-octile Moon!
Eighth house Gemini Rahu gave me the false illusion that no one had my level of intensity!

pixel Thank you... but my.question was about these aspects in relationships, not natal aspects...

dani_mae1 » pixel Oh I’m so sorry about the misunderstanding.

I HAVE experienced a pluto square mercury in a relationship. I felt as though I was the one always communicating to a wall. It wasn’t impossible, just required extra efforts in communication and we often paused for clarification before getting into an argument. Yes, it was very frustrating.

pixel » dani_mae1 Don´t be sorry, I think my post wasn´t enough clear about what I was looking for.

I´m the one who has to apologize... and thank you for your answer !!!


(I added a specification in the post)

fishscales So the Pluto of one partner is squaring the moon-Mercury opposition of the other?

pixel » fishscales That´s it.

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This one is good to avoid at all costs in relationships.
It creates an emotional void between the partners, neediness and emotional manipulation. This can very easily go back and forth between the Moon person and Pluto person.
It is especially bad if one or both partners have Moon/Pluto contacts, even soft ones, in their individual charts.
It is indeed a very transformational aspect, if, and only IF the Pluto person works on integrating their Pluto issues, as well as the Moon person is aware of their emotional baggage.
The connection can run its course fast with this one or it can keep both partners in a very dysfunctional co dependency on an emotional level.
Not easy to get passed it to evolve the relationship further. It is very draining.

pixel » Olenna Thank you Olenna.

Did you lived such aspects ?

Astro-Seek.com » pixel System message: Post has been written by user Olenna, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Yes, i have some experience with it personally and from doing relationship readings for others.
I wanted to mention if Mercury is involved in the square also, it works a bit the same but on a mental plane. The best word to describe this would be gaslighting. Manipulation on a mental level, to make you feel like you`re crazy.

pixel » Olenna Being already crazy, this will be the top of the cake !

Astro-Seek.com » pixel System message: Post has been written by user Olenna, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Oh no.
Are you the Moon/Mercury person? That`s rough, but it also brings up all of your shadows to look at and heal. If you`re aware of what`s going on, you can use it to your advantage.
Good luck to you.

pixel » Olenna Thank you, Olenna.

fishscales » pixel The moon/Mercury opposition person probably has a disconnect between their emotions and their mind... Or how they communicate...the two things have trouble operating together, it´s either/or...

The Pluto person will challenge that disconnect in a deep, unearthing type of way... They could be the catalyst towards solving the opposition, much like the squaring planet plays the lynch pin role in a natal t-square ... However...take heed of what Olenna is saying...it all depends on the level of consciousness here... We´re talking about Pluto...a planet that is usually not dealt with well, despite all the glamorous talk of "transformation" etc... A moon/Pluto square in a synastry is hard enough without adding Mercury into the mix...

Yes, there could be potential for transformation here... But overall, I´d say this is a very challenging aspect, that will induce some pain...the question is whether that pain will wind up being constructive or destructive...

pixel » fishscales I experienced this aspect with someone before : it was devastating to me...I hardly barely get over it... that´s why I´m scared.

pixel » pixel Human relationships are so complicated... more if one has sensitive nature.