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November 10, 2019 at 20:15 (UT/GMT)

What elements in the other person´s chart make us go wild/obsessed with them?
Hola! I know our own chart/psychology plays a major role -maybe a heavy Scorpionic influence, a Venus - Mars conjunction, a certain position of Pluto, lots of fire in chart...
But what about the person that makes us go wild? What are the ingredients that drive us crazy, according to astrology?
But what about the person that makes us go wild? What are the ingredients that drive us crazy, according to astrology?


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November 10, 2019 at 21:03

You can be right here, I see these things the same way - on first place Pluto influence and aspects between Venus and Mars (not only conjunction?), strong Scorpio traits in chart, fire elements at the end (I have doubts about it).

November 10, 2019 at 21:19

I was more interested in the triggers that exists on the other person´s chart that activate our obsession


November 10, 2019 at 21:30


November 10, 2019 at 21:32

erm just take most of the advice in here and switch "yours" for "theirs" and "theirs" for "yours"...
these aspects work both ways.

November 10, 2019 at 22:23

these aspects work both ways."
Exactly.On another example -I saw charts of people where the same aspect can make one person a bully and second victim of bullying...

November 10, 2019 at 22:28

a bit pedestrian, but not the worst site..
synastry house overlays also are seldom talked about in here..
I think of synastry house overlays as the deep long running dynamics
and the planet aspects largely (but not exclusively!) as personality stuff..
passing storms, things people can work through if they put the effort into it..
houses are a different level.

November 11, 2019 at 04:25

and the planet aspects largely (but not exclusively!) as personality stuff..
passing storms, things people can work through if they put the effort into it..
houses are a different level."
Agree with this...

November 11, 2019 at 04:38

I knew a girl whose Pluto was conjunct my ascendant
She was obsessed... I never really understood why... We had nothing in common...
8th house overlays... Particularly those involving the moon...can lead to obsession I think...
Sun, Mars, and Pluto 8th house overlays as well...
Moon in hard aspect to Pluto..maybe even in soft aspect...but I´d consider the soft aspects more "magnetic" than obsessive...though the conjunction could be both...
Then there´s sexual obsession...
Venus/Pluto aspects...those are a big one...
I would also look at any combination of aspects between Eros, Pluto, and BML for sexual obsession, a sexual attraction that defies reason/emotion, or is difficult/impossible to control
Venus/BML contacts too...

December 29, 2019 at 15:43

Venus/Pluto aspects
Mars/Moon aspects especially hard ones.
Lilith in 5th house of the partner.

December 29, 2019 at 19:58





Black moon lilith (lilith works for me very strongly) with










Also house overlays with 1st, 8th, sometimes 7th and in easy way 5th


December 30, 2019 at 17:51

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I think more square angles are obsessed, and especially angles that are square with the water element; venus cancer square pluto libra like

December 30, 2019 at 18:11





My wife and I have a Pluto/BML conjunction... Her Pluto, my BML..exact, at one degree Scorpio...
It is powerful...
To make things even saucier, her Eros is in on the conjunction too...

December 30, 2019 at 19:07

I was wondering why I was so hung up on my ex and found out why.
It´s True BML conjunct Pluto exact.
Freaked me out. We have other major aspects too but that one takes the cake.

December 30, 2019 at 19:31

December 30, 2019 at 20:24

I´ve also found that quincunx, and octiles are very important...
The True BML match was an honest mistake... but I´m glad I found it.
My point,
I use and experiment with everything.... because you never know what you might miss...
Ttyl

December 30, 2019 at 20:58

I dunno... I´m not hardcore about which Lilith to use, but I definitely think our conjunction has a very "exact" feel to it...

December 31, 2019 at 04:11

Me ♌️ and hubby ♉️. Pop astrology would say run for the hills.
We were attracted to each other from the get-go--I loved his charm, and his easy-going manner, and his sunny personality. I felt comfortable around him immediately...and normally it takes me awhile to warm up to people.
I didn´t get into astrology until the last couple months, and now I know why we go so good together. We both have Venus as our dominant planet, and my ♎️ moon was attracted to his ♎️ ascendant! What I think drew him to me was my Venus in Cancer in the first house-with ♉️ being a homebody and loving the sensual things, he (also a Venus person) probably subconsciously thought I could provide it--heck, it was right there in my first house and I couldn´t hide it.
It´s not to say our relationship is without problems--remember our suns square each other. Thankfully we´re both very stubborn and dedicated people (thanks to our fixed nature), and we´ve both grown a lot the almost 17 years we´ve been together.

December 31, 2019 at 04:42

I guess I´m writing because this is so interesting...my whole extended family never wanted us together, but we will celebrate 17 years this February.


December 31, 2019 at 06:06

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Whatever elements make people romantically or sexually obsessed certainly dont exist in my chart. Just consider my chart the combination of things every woman doesnt want, in a sexual manner. ??
(Venting frustration and making some humor of it. Trying to)
Knowing what creates a turnoff, will certainly help figure out what makes a turn on. By logical deduction. And my chart is the perfect example of infinite turn off. Or infinitely seen as a little brother of sorts. Make your studies?✌

December 31, 2019 at 06:15

Lots to see there.. very long term dynamics


December 31, 2019 at 11:05

Her moon is conjunct my Lilith.
Her Pluto is conjunct my Venus (exact aspect).
My sun in conjunct with her Pluto.
We also have Venus sextile and trine mars (exact aspects).
Her Neptune conjuncts my ascendant.
Her Venus conjuncts my ascendant.
Her Mars is in my 8th house.
Her Mars is sextile with my Pluto
My north node is in her 8th house.
My Jupiter is in her 12th house.
One really helpful person here pointed all of these aspects out and said it´s an obsession from both sides (also said it could be a twin flame idk)

much needed reality checks by elder astrologers here but please do so...

December 31, 2019 at 17:56

As for our 11th houses (synastry does not overlap)--mine is in Taurus (his sun), and his is in Leo (my sun).
Synastry is something new to me, but very interesting!

December 31, 2019 at 18:15

it fills in a lot of missing pieces when you look at it.
and you misspoke.. ALL your houses occupy a place on his chart,
and the same is true for all HIS houses..
if you do an astroseek synastry chart, the house overlays are
on the right hand side in a small chart about where the wheel
chart ends and the text description begins..
there is no planet on your chart that does not occupy a house on his chart, and vice versa, although sometimes you can have the same planet in the same house on eachother´s chart.

December 31, 2019 at 18:26



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