Have you ever dated your Asc.? - Discussions, questions

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Hayjilly, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I’m married to a Gemini, which is also my Asc.

It’s fun, we enjoy a lot of the same things, have tons to talk about, and are really attracted to each other.

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Helen.Pahlavi, who already deleted profile on this website:
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No, I didn´t. But they are interesting.

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There was a period of time where I only attract Capricorn men or Sagittarius men with inner planets in Capricorn. Their planets always ended up in my 12th house... At first it was great, but then after awhile it was too much. It never truly manifested into anything special or concrete. There was always some vagueness surrounding the relationship. But, it was useful for my spiritual growth.

Luna Alba In summer I dated a Taurus, my rising. But with a strong Gemini influence and Scorpio Rising. And it felt.
I wasn´t really attracted to him, but he chase me so much and put so much effort that we finally became a couple.
He turned out to be a hunter. We split abruptly.
Interesting experiance, though. I hope I won´t regret it :))

Luna Alba » Astro Such a strong Cap influence...somehow like me, I have a Stellium in Cap.

What are your best matches, then? :)
As I have Leo Moon, I spotted that I´m really into fire signs.

it_lord » Luna Alba I have given up dating. If a girl wants me then she has to make the first move. Aries and Capricorn? I don´t know. Maybe, who knows? I think Capricorns respect the rules very much.

Astro-Seek.com » Luna Alba System message: Post has been written by user Astro, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Go with your Moon sign... The men don´t neccesaarily have to be leos, but they should have planets compatible with your Moon signs. Like Moon trine moon, Moon sextile Moon, or even a Conjunction if you don´t mind the emotional nature a conjunction brings.

I think a Sagittarius will be good for you, especially one with some inner planets in earth signs.

Luna Alba » Astro I think my best relation was with a Sagittarius. And he was a Taurus Rising as well :).
So yes, I have a thing for some fire :)

Luna Alba » Astro But you say that another Cap is too much for you...

What are your best matches, then? It´s interesting, with all that cap. Maybe a Taurus? Or Virgo? Personally I don´t really like Virgos. Too critical

Leo Moon Libra is my ascendant and I have been involved with a couple Libras and would again.

Of course my Aquarius Sun and every other unique aspect to myself plays its part.

Everyone is an individual. ( if they want to be !)

Plus I should add I just get involved with people in any capacity by my instinct and observations, not by astrology.

Later I may check out astrological aspects.

Astro-Seek.com » Luna Alba System message: Post has been written by user Astro, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I don´t like virgos either Is that weird Just kidding... maybe not... I think when you meet the right person you will know and all this astrological stuff will leave your mind.

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Mantzourana, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I can understand men with the sign of my Asc, they tend to like me, we get along well, BUT I don´t like their behavior, so it would be difficult for me to have a relationship with them.

N_thecat I have Ascendant and I like that sign, not only Leo Suns - Leo influence in charts (in other placements than Sun, or in aspects) is usually positive. But it doesn´t mean I see Leo as the best or most attractive

ram_goat » Mantzourana Yep. Someone with my ASC as their Sun and my Sun as their ASC..

moon opposite moon.

What I learned:

oppositions can be totally ok, if you are thoughtful and intelligent.

there´s always issues somewhere.. if you moons trine or whatever, then
you just have to look down the list at pluto and uranus issues or whatever.. just go down the list. there is always a trouble aspect somewhere.. somewhere.. if synastry gives in one place it takes in another. So you get along great, but there are deeper issues that lie deeper than personality.. goals & direction in life, ambitions, all that stuff. So it can work for a while but not work in the long term..
it all depends.

It´s not a bad aspect or even one of the worst. But you do have to keep moving down the list & down the line. Aspects between the outer planets then become the sticking points.. and much less malleable.. pluto signs, uranus signs.. generational stuff..deeper.. takes a much deeper level of understanding to cope & adjust and also involves things that play out across a lifetime, not just a few months, a few years or a few dates.

So pick your poison..

And your level of depth..

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user orkest, who already deleted profile on this website:
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My partner and I are both asc. I have always assign it to ascendant:

She told me about astrology. Do you really believe in this foolishness? - I asked. Now I´m here

She likes Mirelle Mathieu. I said I don´t really like her and this kind of music. Now I can´t stop to listen and watch one of her clips.

Every time we discuss something I or she have to contradict each other. We both know who really is right at the moment but won´t admit it. Later in time we tell ´hey you was right about this and that´.

I´m not sure if these examples are exactly ASC thing becouse we have too much in common from astrological point of view.

Anyway, my asc conjunct her in synastry.

nikkia Yes. Twice.
Two totally different experiences - although, both proposed marriage.

The first Sag was FUN and dangerous. Ten years older than me, it was exciting, whirlwind, never a dull moment. We were always laughing, living, doing ! Good times !!! But, I could not see living this ´party´ permanently. We stayed in touch for many years afterwards.

The second Sag was Dangerous and not nearly as fun. A triple back-belt, smart and successful and we got along very well, but there too many secrets and a few hang-ups that I couldn´t see abiding long-term. Had to go. We did not stay friends.
Amazing ring, though!

Eveleo My ascendant is leo, and I dated a leo male with a lot of water placements once, but it didn´t work out because of a powerstruggle and he felt threathened by my independence. No hard feelings, we just weren´t compatible. The love was passionate, but we didn´t have a solid fundation, so the fire burned out quickly.

Sadiralia My rising sign is scorpio and I´m a leo
I have three ex boyfriends scorpios
We made fireworks in bedroom but also in the life. ? there´s a Reason if they are ex. But I´m really attract to scorpios. I love and hate them

it_lord » Sadiralia Fire water, huh? But you´ve never dated a fire sign, have you? What do you think of them (Aries, Sagittarius, Leo)?

Jewel My first love. It was wonderful. Passionate. He taught me about love/how to love. We were young so it wasn´t meant to be more, but no regrets or ill feelings.
Capricorn

polareyezd No they´re too busy being hot as f**" for me to compete with . LoL no I just feel sorry for them I think...

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Yugen., who already deleted profile on this website:
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Never but meeting every day frοm necessity in my youth a Leo relative, was the most devastating experience in my life. He was a terrible abuser and a tyrant, a intervening egotist and the eternal judje for all. Α avoidance exemplar for me. Thanks God my Asc does not work, and we are not alike, not at all.

BrooklynnH I dated a Cancer briefly, (cancer being my ascendant) and I found it to be pretty difficult. Maybe its because I´m a heavy water sign as it is, but I found there to be much emotional confusion and even oversensitivity from both our parts.