Depressed and obsessed

September 30, 2019 at 15:34 (UT/GMT)
(Cancer) RainAvery
Depressed and obsessed
I hope this is the right place for this. I suffer from depression and I don´t think my heart is ready for the disappointments that come from dating so I´m trying to find out if this relationship has great potential or great heartbreak, if I should be patient or move on. I met this guy about 5 weeks ago, we´ve been hanging out every weekend. We have slept together twice and while I haven´t fallen "head over heels", I´m starting to really like him and can see a potential relationship the more time we spend together. The thing is, even though I am not head over heels...I think and dream about him ALL the time and I don´t know why because I don´t feel that strongly about him but for some reason I almost feel...obsessed? I can´t read him and I don´t know if he sees relationship potential or if he has no romantic interest at all. The easiest thing of course is to ask...but I just,I can´t. :/

He does not know his birth time but hopefully someone can look at our charts and atleast give me a little insight and I guess I can decide what to do with that information.

Thank you to anyone that can help.
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September 30, 2019 at 16:43
(Cancer) ZynCitrus
to make it simple - blue lines are good aspects, red one is challenge ...what do you think ?
And in general avoid people who put their planets in your 12 or will drain your energy, unless is Jupiter... maybe
September 30, 2019 at 16:53
(Cancer) RainAvery » ZynCitrus
Thank you for your response. I didn´t know that about the lines, so that is very useful information. I´ve heard that about 12th house, do you think because it´s his moon that he´s hiding his real emotions from me, as in perhaps he sees relationship potential but for whatever reason doesn´t want to say anything?
September 30, 2019 at 17:18
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32
Personally, when I have people in the 12th house, they´re usually quite healing to emotions, thoughts, and feelings. I suppose this probably is an individual experience.

I would probably say the Neptune and Uranus is probably why you´re having dreams. I usually have dreams about people when they´re planets land in my 12th, 4th, or 8th house.
September 30, 2019 at 17:24
(Cancer) ZynCitrus » goldenlion32
have you met someone with their saturn or pluton in your 12th?

Somehow every single topic is dark, they like to complain to me, even tho they don´t do that with everyone, like they feel I´ll listen... later I feel like wet towel - I´m heavy for myself to carry around

now I remembered 2 people with Mercury in my 12th - I find them so boring, so shallow, talking too much too quick... others see them as fun one Taurus one Aries both with mercury in Aries
October 2, 2019 at 15:57
(Scorpio) Lsinsocal
Personally, I like 8th and 12th house synastry. Anyone who tells you to avoid certain aspects or houses doesn´t really understand astrology. There are no "bad" houses. 12th house can be a spiritual connection and is hard for some to grasp so it gets a bad rep.

Your chart looks fine. I see Venus opposite Pluto which could be why you are feeling obsessed. Anyone who triggers 4th, 8th or 12th can give us this feeling. I need to know who is who to be more accurate.

Also, astrology aside, one thing I know from personal experience is men don´t waste time on women they don´t like. If he sees you every weekend or more, he´s probably at least interested physically. To find out if it goes deeper, you´ll have to give it time.
Showing any kind of obsession is likely to have the opposite outcome if you want a relationship with this person. You don´t need astrology to tell you that. We ultimately determine our own fate.
October 2, 2019 at 17:29
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32 » ZynCitrus
Yes I married a Saturn in Cancer. My grandparents were Cancer Pluto. I was a Nurse aide and worked for the Cancer Pluto Generation.

I would say Uranus in Cancer generation was more damaging than anything since they love breaking up families.

I loved the Cancer Pluto Generation. They were very nurturing and loving towards me.

I had friends who were Saturn in Cancer as well since I´m Saturn in Taurus.

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