The relationship between my Mother and I

September 17, 2023 at 20:12 (UT/GMT)
(Capricorn) Ellilunaa
The relationship between my Mother and I
Hello guys

I just found out my mother’s birth time! :62: so you know I had to immediately go and look at her rising sign. I made a thread on here before about our synastry, but now that I know her rising and moon sign, things are easier. And I want to do our synastry properly, since before I was unsure about stuff.

Last time someone’s response made me laugh, because they asked if we should be concerned about nuclear escalation LOL :95:

I don’t know the exact birth time which is sad, but she was born between 2-3am. So she’s either a late degree Capricorn rising or Aquarius. I’m having trouble figuring out which one she is, but she’s more likely Aquarius rising.

The thing is, at the same time I feel like it’s Capricorn. She has high cheekbones, and is very serious about her work. Also, Capricorn risings tend to get more beautiful as they age, and this is really true with my mother. She got a lot more prettier and youthful looking as she got older. But something is telling me that she’s an Aquarius rising. Idk :23:

Anyway here’s our chart, what do you see within our relationship? I want your opinions on it.

I always feel tension with her and I feel really detached from her. We have explosive arguments sometimes and she’s very dismissive about things and she just doesn’t understand me. Sometimes she really tries to though. I just don’t feel comfortable with her.

Sometimes I wish so badly that there was more harmony between us ..

Our suns and moons are squaring each other, so this is definitely part of the reason why we argue. And we both have moon-Mars conjunctions.. like mother like daughter Lol :85:
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September 18, 2023 at 05:23
HellenisticAstro
Bump.

I bump your thread for you Miss Eliluna, hope you will get your answer. And I´m glad you found out your mom birth time, you were talking about it last time.

I want to help you but I don´t know anything about synastry, I still trying to figure out what the heck with me and my husband synastry, lolol. All our planets Conjunct each others (I understand him, all our inner personal plants conjunct each others, we have each other signs), but then Square each others at the same time. Haha.
I´m with him 15 years, and we still haven´t kill each others yet, so it work somehow, haha.

I hope you find your answer about you and your mom synastry.

Good luck Miss. And love your mom. Your lucky you still have your parents with you, not everyone have that blessing, like me. I kill to have my parents alive back with me again.
September 18, 2023 at 10:58
(Sagittarius) risu
I also don´t know my mother´s exact birth time, but with the estimate time she also has a late Cap or Aquarius asc.

Very interesting to see since we both have 10th house moon.

I feel like my mother is Aquarius in Tropical and Cap in Sidereal.
September 18, 2023 at 12:23
sim
It is great that you are getting more details of your mother´s birth. I remember going through the same queries myself, trying to understand the love/hate relationship with my mother.

I often try to go from the general to the particular.

Your mum is the Pluto Libra/ Nept Sag ´generation´ (born 1971-1984) this means air and fire. The Nept sag is supposed to have an inspired, wise connotation.

You have Pluto in sag and Neptune in aquarius (fire and air). Correct me if I am wrong.

Just purely on a basic fundamental level, your mother and you may be more alike than it first seems. (Perhaps you can reflect how you might have acted in her circumstances).

When I was younger, I was terrified at the idea that I might be ´like my mother´ - I thought it meant that I would have the same sort of life she had. But later I realised that I inherited some of her toughness but my life of course differed. No war.

This is just a preliminary thought, don´t know whether it might help you to start putting together the puzzle.
September 18, 2023 at 12:46
(Capricorn) Ellilunaa » HellenisticAstro
“I´m with him 15 years, and we still haven´t kill each others yet, so it work somehow, haha. “

So cute hahah. :62: conjunctions are amazing and harmonious, so they balance out any squares. This is something that I looove love having with someone .

“ Good luck Miss. And love your mom. Your lucky you still have your parents with you, not everyone have that blessing, like me. I kill to have my parents alive back with me again.“

:74: :79: :68:🙏 of course… I do love her, it’s just these problems I have with her that make me feel very unsettled Sometimes… I still love her so much. But having a moon-Mars conjunction with a mother can be extremely hard. But I’m working through it.

Your parents’ souls are always with you and guiding you ..:)


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