Single forever? - Discussions, questions

YRashawn You are a Taurus rising meaning you identify with material security and the tangible side of life, but prone towards being fixated in a particular mode of operation. When you ceased dating, you got used to being single and once Taurus is used to something, it is difficult to change. Venus, ruler of your chart is in fall in Virgo which can show a negative outlook on love based on humbing experiences. You have a difficult time assimilating love into your life and love may often feel like work. Venus is having her Joy in your 5th place which represents you saying you used to date a lot. Dating is pleasurable and a form of self-expression for you!
Sun in your 4th house makes you private. You thrive by being at home, in your own element where you can shine and be your unadulterated self, so this is one of the aspects represting you are being single and not having a problem with it. Also your North Node in Capricorn. You are required to spend much time alone throughout various points in your life for soul evolution and spiritual development.
Your Sun is in Leo, the sign of love and romance. Saturn oppsoing your sun is taking away from some of those leo qualities, but Your chart ruler is in the 5th place of love & romance, so you do have a strong need to be give and receive love. It would be advantageous for you to date more than one person at a time or be in a partnership that is uncongenial in some way. More of a friend than a lover whereby the two of you are committed sexual convenience, but where they are more of a companion. This is because Mars, ruler of the 7th place of partnerships is trine Uranus in the 9th house. This can also represent you partnering up with a man or masculine partner that lives a long distance away from you or is different from you culturally/religiously. You also have a need to be mentally stimulated due to the Virgo stellium and you could meet a potential love interest at work or in some sort of service orientation. I would suggest you date and put yourself out there because you posted this for a reason. You could start to take love more seriously once you´re 32. Leo needs love and sex for vitality!

LeoTaurus » YRashawn Thank you!!

Emanuel Also, Venus and Mars in Virgo, in 5th house.... Maybe you are to picky for your own good, to critical to your potential lover flaws.

LeoTaurus » Emanuel I hate to say that I agree, but your probably right anyways lol!! Thank you!!!!!

Astrooo Hello,

In a few words, your Sun Leo H4 leads your energies, Saturn Aquarius H10 feeds them (while slowing them down).
Your moon Pisces H11 acts as a receiving antenna for these energies.

you have all the tools to meet lots of people and consequently find fulfillment in your sentimental life.
However, like all of us, you have points to work on.
For you :
// relation to your body: be "proud" of it, you´re a lioness, you have to "show off" ^^
// image of the Father.
Do you want to meet a lover, a potential husband or a surrogate father?
note that your Sun (you) H4 is opposite Saturne (the father) H10

"GOOD NEWS"
Neptune, at home in Pisces, will pass over your moon which connects the energies of your chart
+ Jupiter, joy, will come to amplify your beautiful fish moon H11.

Point of attention:
Neptune, in its dark side, = confusion and passivity
Jupiter, in its dark side = Excess and egocentrism (especially with your Jupiter natal in Leo)

Now, it´s up to you

LeoTaurus » Astrooo Thank you so much!!

RichardBarossi You wont find the answer for that in your birth chart.

Nos sonhadores venus (love planet) in virgo and 5th is not so ideal i guess ....

virgo has tendency to leave emotions aside and 5th house is empowering that ... making everything in it (5th) more expressive/visible/lived out ....

+ lots of strong 4th house emphasis making you more happy at home ... homy enviroment ... not going out ...


its quite similar for me so i totally understand your pain about it

LeoTaurus » Nos sonhadores Thank you, good to know I´m not alone!!

prollygonnamakeit Mars conjuct venus be like

Astrocelestial Hello,

You have Mars, Venus, and Mercury in your 5th house of romance, pleasure, creativity, children, and all the things that bring joy to your life. I find this placement good for a romantic life. However, it seems something is not working perfectly for you.

The Virgo-Pisces axis is intercepted, which means that the planets positioned here are somehow locked. That can make you unaware of their potential and it can take you some time to be able to manifest them properly. As an example, Venus in the 5th house feels joyful and lovely. If intercepted, Venus can have a hard time expressing love.

I would look at the other planets triggering the intercepted planets. I think this can be a way to activate them. In your situation, the planets in your 9th house (higher education, long-distance travel, and life philosophy) are trining the intercepted planets.

Here you have another great aspect for romance - Venus-Neptune trine. It´s at 7 degrees orb, which doesn´t make it a strong aspect, but it still can help. The only negative side of it is that sometimes can make you have unrealistic ideals for your romance, which can bring some disappointment for not finding that ideal.

So, as I said, I think the planets in the 9th house can help you unlock the planets in the 5th house. Probably traveling and interacting with people from abroad can get you there. Your partner could be someone from another country. Even studying can help - going to university, enrolling in a course - you might find someone there. Your North Node is also in the 9th house, so exploring and traveling is something that helps you.

LeoTaurus » Astrocelestial Thank you for your insight 💖💖