In Mars conjunct Venus synastry, Mars person sees Venus person as soft attractive feminine? - Discus

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user 1davidsky, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I´ll link a short Youtube video with Jewell from Aspects in Astrology on this particular position in a synastry chart. It is good basically and one of those that is associated with a strong sexual connection. It is best if the Mars is the masculine energy and the Venus the feminine but either way. The thing is we have to take this in context with not only other positions in the synastry but especially with the individual chart aka person. For instance, if the Mars person has a Mars that is challenged and say aggressive to start with like an Aries Mars to make it extreme square to a Pluto and again as an example go a bit extreme then the woman´s Venus is say in Taurus or Libra and trine a sensitive Moon, could be that the Mars is abusive even. Really important to not take synastry positions in isolation will not give any helpful insight into how an actual relationship may pan out.
https://www.youtube.com/watch/…

Astro-Seek.com » 1davidsky System message: Post has been written by user MarvinReal, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Thank you 1davidsky for posting that video link. You are absolutely right that Venus-Mars aspect alone does not mean anything.

I also read all comments below the video and searched elsewhere, and some were very surprising contrary to popular beliefs how good it is. While majority say it is indeed a pleasant connection, some say otherwise. I just copied some surprising notes here I found about Venus-Mars synastry and composite, davison, draconic :

--- I had a recent ex where his mars conjuncted both my venus and mars, our suns conjuncted
and our moons. So both my venus and mars are virgo, but his venus was gemini.
So I never understood why but even though I found him physically attractive,
I couldn´t connect with his sexually where as he seemed more sexually attracted.
My libido dropped dramatically around him because he wasn´t very compromising and made
me feel trapped. In the end I had to get away from him.

--- My ex husband and I had this aspect. I never once found him attractive;
I only agreed to marry him because he was so in love with me.
My venus conjuncted his mars. We never had good sex either because he was very boring.

--- I had this conjunction where my ex´s Venus was conjunct my Mars. Initially, it was very hot,
however as time went on the "flow" started to feel a bit off, sexually
(perhaps because I was the Mars person). Great vid - thanks.

--- mars cnj venus/mars... very true about being flustered and awkward. we fought instead.. a lot :

--- It doesn´t always have to be sexual. With friends I feel like you would just have
a bigger appreciation for that particular person´s style/looks.

--- The Venus person is more hot and bothered than the Mars person?
I have Mars&Venus Conjunct in Gemini. I´ve been dating men with their Venus
conjunct my Mars/Venus. I find them very "soft"....I´m not hot & bothered at all...
I´m actually quite put off by the softness. I´m not sure how "gaps" are going to filled
in my case :(

--- Monique , I agree I felt the same. My ex Mars conjunct my Venus. He had a short temper
and was very aggressive, over protective. I never found him attractive and the sex wasn’t good.
He was also having sex outside of our relationship. It was over when I knew about it.
He was a mistake to me.

--- I had the Venus/Mars square in composite with my ex. We were together for 15 years
and the sexual attraction never died down, and probably never will. Although I didn´t
feel the same sexual tension with him, and we were strictly platonic friends for a year
before becoming a couple. I could not be just friends with the other guy though.
I don´t think we could last 5 minutes alone before getting it on. I definitely feel it!

--- Yes! If you see an exact Venus/Mars in the composite - it can be an indication that the
two will have a strong desire to have kids and co-parent.

--- I am venus he is mars and he has been chasing me on and off for 30 years...
Poor guy is infatuated with me. his 12-year-old self just has never moved on LOL.
He visually is obsessed, I just don´t get it, he doesn´t even know me that well.

--- This is so me and someone I know who I have this aspect with. Very afraid of me almost.
lol we have Venus conjunction Rahu too.

Astro-Seek.com » MarvinReal System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Thankz for the reply but i have read these comments before

Astro-Seek.com » MarvinReal System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Marvin u feel more attraction when ur mars conjunct someone´s venus or when your venus conjunct someone´s mars?

Astro-Seek.com » Rabia23 System message: Post has been written by user MarvinReal, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Hi Rabia23, user Aiax66 already replied (currently the last reply) on this exact question in the duplicate topic https://forum.astro-seek.com/topic/…

What personally I do find attractive is out of question and private. Certainly I don´t base it solely on attraction. If you want have broken heart after falling in love in some creep, then go for it and good luck. After few years or decades you maybe rewire a brain and change an attitude what to look for. Anyway, I wish you well.

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user David Evans, who already deleted profile on this website:
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There is a human aspect as well. Two people can chose to see the good in what they might not, and enjoy it just as much. Self love is of utmost importance, but each person, personality, experience, and perception, is not the only thing in this universe.

etherealcereal Hi there, my ex and I had this aspect and it was the best part of our relationship I´d say. My venus was conjuct his mars in taurus. Mars is our sexuality and actions. My femininity was "his type" I sought him out tho. We worked together and I was infuated with him and he had no clue. When we went to a work bonfire I was all over him, got sloppy drunk and took his jacket off with my teeth in front of all my co workers. Our sex life was great. Almost addictive. We dated for 4 years before I ended things because it felt like our relationship was one big overindulge. Hope this helps

Angelina Personally I find it more strong and intriguing when there are aspects between Sun-Pluto, Venus-Neptune, Sun- Neptune, Mars/Venus- ASC in synastry. Because Venus- Mars are nice, but kind of boring:))

Astro-Seek.com » Angelina System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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So as a mars person what u find attractive in mars person?

Astro-Seek.com » etherealcereal System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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So as a mars person what attracts him towards you?

Angelina » Rabia23 Those examples from my life were when I was not a Mars person. I was Venus, or ASC. So I can just say, that Mars person is very attractive for me as a man and kind of that´s it. Him sees me like very feminine and his type, he´s attracted to me. But for example Mars-ASC is more interesting aspect for me. Had it not once, so It´s based not on one example. It´s like a stronger attraction, ASC person is considered as a perfect one. And as I have mentioned it before, I like Sun-Pluto aspects even more. Those bring the strongest feelings for me personally. But it depends on what You are looking for in particular relationship.

Astro-Seek.com » Angelina System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I think venus person feels more attraction not mars person what u think?

Angelina » Rabia23 In Venus-Mars aspects I think it´s quite equal feelings.

Astro-Seek.com » Angelina System message: Post has been written by user Rabia23, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I like a man with his mars conjunct my venus, but i think he doesnot feel anything , we have alots of other venus aspects and moon aspects.

Angelina » Rabia23 Put Your synastry here. You´ll get more insights on it, maybe there are other factors in Your synastry.

Astro-Seek.com » Angelina System message: Post has been written by user MarvinReal, who already deleted profile on this website:
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aspect alone scenario: "Hey, you´re sexy babe!" <> "Thanks. Good bye!"

Angelina » MarvinReal yes