Will he come back to me?

October 20, 2021 at 13:41 (UT/GMT)
(Pisces) gerdahagge
Will he come back to me?
I wanted to move out because we fight too much after 5 years. He says that if i move he will breakup for good. Does it really look like its definitely over now between us? I dont want to, but he does.

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October 20, 2021 at 14:59
(Libra) TUHIN
you know gerdahagge, the questions you have been asking here in this forum reflects more or less same as it resonates with my personal life too... I have been watching much of tarots and some good guidance was there and still but I follow what my heart says ... I would say ...follow what your heart says ... sometimes we are weak in the point of whom we love, may be more than our life.. but things does not go as we expect, right?
October 20, 2021 at 15:12
(Capricorn) Emanuel
This is too personal to give you an answer...
October 20, 2021 at 15:14
(Aquarius) Catch-22
"Are we meant to be or should we end it?"
"Is this a good time to break up?"
"Breaking up for good?"
And now: "Will he come back to me?"

That are 4 of the 5 subjects you started. It´s pretty clear what´s on your mind: your relationship. I once had also a difficult choice to make and I wanted to procrastinate the decision because "choosing is losing". This isn´t the truth: choices make things light in the head and provide solutions, good ones or bad ones, but they end the doubt and the massive energy drain.

Make a choice and stick to your decision and you will be amazed how light things become in your head.
October 20, 2021 at 17:20
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October 20, 2021 at 18:40
(Sagittarius) Psyle
Such questions are best answered with a horary chart. The first meeting chart and the composite chart also contain information about the future of a relationship.
October 21, 2021 at 11:11
(Pisces) gerdahagge
I dont think that this is an astrological site, but people here answer more psychological and from own experience. I dont know how to make it more astrological? like the transits and so on...
October 27, 2021 at 09:31
(Cancer) July
Check this out to see the progressed interaction - post the results and we can figure out
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October 28, 2021 at 15:20
(Pisces) gerdahagge » July
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Sun - Venus Combinations
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2● nVe-pSu square: 1.37

Progressed Sun is square natal Venus

This is a significant connection between you. It will have an impact upon the way you relate and interact with each other.

Close connections by any astrological or harmonic angle create an intensity, the outcome of which is that both people involved pay attention to each other. If the connection that creates the stir between them is a square aspect then the outcomes are diverse, but they depend very much on other factors in their mutual astrology.

Square aspects traditionally highlight a difference between the two planets involved and this can manifest in disagreement. More often in relationships it manifests in matters of closeness. Sun Venus squares are not in themselves significant of incompatibility, but they can keep people apart or remote from each other due to factors other than personal compatibility and desire to be together. Because of this your relationship may be made difficult or complex. When Shakespeare coined the phrase "Star Crossed Lovers" to refer to Romeo and Juliet, he could have been referring to the Sun-Venus square connection. It is generally influences outside the relationship that cause problems inside it. In the case of Romeo and Juliet, of course, the enmity of their families created problems for their relationship.

This is not a permanent dynamic of your relationship and will highlight a time in your relationship when much work has to be done before you can settle to a conventional routine. The progressed square aspect follows a pattern which sees it apply or develop, reach exactness and then separate. During the development phase, you are likely to be kept apart either physically or emotionally by some factor which might be beyond your control. This will come to a head at the point of exactness. During the separation phase of this aspect you will feel relief because the problems you experienced or envisaged have concluded and your path is cleared for a relationship to thrive and flourish. This aspect will not last more than about five years.

The Sun in relationship astrology symbolizes our ability to negotiate, Venus symbolizes the way that we make compromises. When the two planets are connected by a Square aspect, their may be a disparity in the demands made by the Sun person upon the Venus person. While this may be out of necessity and not intentional, it very often causes stress. Examples of how Sun Venus squares cause disparity and separation are as follows: one or both partners may already be in a relationship, there may be a geographical remoteness caused by one partner traveling or being forced by circumstance to work or live away from the other, or one of the partners may have children from a previous relationship or other responsibilities that requires them to divert their attention from their current relationship. Occasionally the Venus person will make demands of the Sun person, but this is most likely to be a response to the circumstances of the relationship rather than external demands placed upon them by their previous life-choices.

While the Sun and Venus in a square aspect is not a conventional relationship aspect, it will sometimes play a very positive role. It works as a very positive factor in relationships where one or both partners are working towards a difficult-to-reach goal which requires a lot of travel or concentration. In this respect a cloying partnership will not help them achieve their goal. Occasionally it helps in relationships where both partners are free spirits who need to spend time alone or traveling.

Sun Venus squares do highlight a difference in the two of you, while this is a marked difference it is probably not the only connection you share and may even enhance other astrological connections in a vibrant and exciting way. Because this is not a permanent connection, any differences are likely to be perceived rather than literal differences.

Couples who shared this aspect at the outset of their relationship include: Kenneth Branagh and Helena Bonham-Carter; Mickey Rooney and Ava Gardner, and Sonny and Cher.

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Progressed Sun is square progressed Venus

This is a significant connection between you. It will have an impact upon the way you relate and interact with each other.

Close connections by any astrological or harmonic angle create an intensity, the outcome of which is that both people involved pay attention to each other. If the connection that creates the stir between them is a square aspect then the outcomes are diverse, but they depend very much on other factors in their mutual astrology.

Square aspects traditionally highlight a difference between the two planets involved and this can manifest in disagreement. More often in relationships it manifests in matters of closeness. Sun Venus squares are not in themselves significant of incompatibility, but they can keep people apart or remote from each other due to factors other than personal compatibility and desire to be together. Because of this your relationship may be made difficult or complex. When Shakespeare coined the phrase "Star Crossed Lovers" to refer to Romeo and Juliet, he could have been referring to the Sun Venus square connection. It is generally influences outside the relationship that cause problems inside it. In the case of Romeo and Juliet, of course, the enmity of their families created problems for their relationship.

This is not a permanent dynamic of your relationship and will highlight a time in your relationship when much work has to be done before you can settle to a conventional routine. The progressed square aspect follows a pattern which sees it apply or develop, reach exactness and then separate. During the development phase, you are likely to be kept apart either physically or emotionally by some factor which might be beyond your control. This will come to a head at the point of exactness. During the separation phase of this aspect you will feel relief because the problems you experienced or envisaged have concluded and your path is cleared for a relationship to thrive and flourish. This particular aspect combination where both planets are progressing can occasionally last for an extended period, but it is much less of a problem, and often a positive connection during its separating phase.

The Sun in relationship astrology symbolizes our ability to negotiate, Venus symbolizes the way that we make compromises. When the two planets are connected by a Square aspect, their may be a disparity in the demands made by the Sun person upon the Venus person. While this may be out of necessity and not intentional, it very often causes stress. Examples of how Sun-Venus squares cause disparity and separation are as follows: one or both partners may already be in a relationship, there may be a geographical remoteness caused by one partner traveling or being forced by circumstance to work or live away from the other, or one of the partners may have children from a previous relationship or other responsibilities that requires them to divert their attention from their current relationship. Occasionally the Venus person will make demands of the Sun person, but this is most likely to be a response to the circumstances of the relationship rather than external demands placed upon them by their previous life-choices.

While the Sun and Venus in a square aspect is not a conventional relationship aspect, it will sometimes play a very positive role. It works as a very positive factor in relationships where one or both partners are working towards a difficult-to-reach goal which requires a lot of travel or concentration. IN this respect a cloying partnership will not help them achieve their goal. Occasionally it helps in relationships where both partners are free spirits who need to spend time alone or traveling.

Sun-Venus squares do highlight a difference in the two of you, while this is a marked difference it is probably not the only connection you share and may even enhance other astrological connections in a vibrant and exciting way. Because this is not a permanent connection, any differences are likely to be perceived rather than literal differences.

Some couples who shared this connection at the outset of their relationship include: Julia Roberts and Benjamin Bratt; Ringo Starr and Barbara Bach, and Amy Madigan and Ed Harris.

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Venus - Mars Combinations
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Progressed Venus is trine natal Mars

This connection is very significant in relationship astrology and is one of the main astrological reasons why you were drawn to each other.

This particular connection is most often found in relationships that can be described as passionate affairs of the heart. It combines two of the most powerful symbols of relationship in astrology, Mars, which symbolizes the way we assert our desires, our passionate natures and physical sexuality with Venus, which rules the manner in which we relate, the values with which we compare ourselves and others, and our romantic preferences. The angle of connection is of primary importance and in this case, this is via a harmonious and complimentary exchange resulting in heightened physical attraction. There is a lot of opportunity to combine your energies and achieve good things together.

This connection is not permanent, but it will play a very important role in the way that you relate to each other at the beginning of your relationship. Mars in this instance is static and Venus is in motion. Because of this, the connection can sometimes last for only a short period of time, but during this period you are likely to feel an intense attraction to each other.

In astrology, Mars represents the way that we assert what we want and Venus represents the way that we compromise, the trine aspect enables a harmonious transition of energy from one planet to another. Many relationships begin under this auspice, but it is probable that the emphasis in this relationship will be on physical proximity and physical attraction, relationships which are founded on physicality are sometimes less robust in the long term. It is useful, therefore, especially if you wish to enjoy a long relationship, to contemplate other aspects of your relationship and to find ways to divert some of the very potent energy you share into mutual appreciation of your inner selves rather than your outer selves.

Some people want physical relationships which they do not expect to last forever. This aspect ensures that as a couple you can enjoy each other to a very high degree, at least for a time. If you are committed to a long relationship then it is useful to see this connection as a window of opportunity; a period of heightened attraction when you were drawn to each other.

While this connection is applying, you will feel a greater intensity of attraction and limerence. This can sometimes take the form of excited expectation. This is an enjoyable time for most people. When the aspect becomes exact this period of time is when the relationship reaches a perfect point. After this point comes the aspect separation, this will often be accompanied by feelings of contentment or occasionally frustration. It is important to remember that progressed aspects reflect very closely the patterns of conventionality we find in relationships and the separation of a positive aspect is very often followed by the beginning of a new aspect.

Some couples who shared this connection at the outset of their relationships include: Courtney Love and Kurt Cobain; Billy Connolly and Pamela Stephenson, and Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath.

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Progressed Venus is trine progressed Venus

This connection is extremely significant in relationship astrology and is one of the main astrological reasons why you feel comfortable with each other.

Once a relationship with this active connection gets under way, there is every likelihood that the couple will feel that they are soul mates. The only problem is that sometimes the relationship might not get the chance to begin unless one of you makes the first move and this is a big stumbling block when Venus beholds Venus.

Venus is a passive planet and ideally needs another, more active planet, like the Sun or Mars to make the first move, so when Venus and Venus connect, and a relationship ensues, it sometimes takes a lot of hints from both parties and it often becomes a sublimely gentle and romantic affair. Where Mars and Venus talk passionately about their affair and the Sun and Venus talk creatively of their future, Venus and Venus go on a picnic, admire the view and recite poetic verses to one another (often literally, even if this is out of character).

Experiencing this connection is like living in the world of the pre-raphaelite brotherhood who imagined an idealistic and romantic time long ago. It imbues passionate, yet respectful feelings; of separated couples lying awake at night each wishing for the next day to come when they will see their lover again. When Venus and Venus connect by trine, then the outcome can be feelings of complete and utter love. The important ingredient which may be missing is the active pursuit of a relationship. Venus is a passive planet and the trine can be a complacent connection and this may create a passive situation where neither makes a move. This is the only down side with this connection.

If you are in a relationship with this aspect then it is possible that it will not be the only positive connection between you, but it will make a lot of difference in how you conduct your relationship, especially in the early days.

While this connection is not necessarily permanent, it can under some circumstances last for many years and on other occasions for as little as a year. It doesn´t really matter how long it lasts because its purpose is to open a window of opportunity during which time you can experience something valuable and magical, what you do next is up to you both.
Some couples who experienced this connection at the beginning of their relationship are: Helena Bonham-Carter and Tim Burton; Frank Sinatra and Barbara Marx, and Jamie-Lee Curtis and Chris Guest.
October 28, 2021 at 15:28
(Pisces) gerdahagge » July
Dear July,
Can you please try to help me?
Im in a real critical situation. Will we break up for good now on sunday 31 oct when i most probably move out?

I dont want to but i guess i will have to.

We met 19 August 2016 for the first time.
October 28, 2021 at 15:56
(Cancer) July » gerdahagge
You need to attached the graphs as pictures! I cannot see otherwise.
Save screenshots, then "upload image from computer"
November 12, 2021 at 09:05


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