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Etherealmind Funny thread !

Well, if we ONLY talk about romantic relationships (so NOT about friendships neither others kinds of relationships) :

1) Aquarius Sun - they can really be my best friends but I can´t imagine dating on of them - they´re seem slightly superficial so not so serious in their loyalty and in their responsibilities in the relationship. In any case for me. They´re also a bit unstable in their interest toward you. It´s based on the Aquarius guys I´ve met till now.

2) Capricorn ASC - they´re fucking extra cold lol. They don´t really show their enjoyment and sensitivity in conversations. I need expressiveness. In friendship it´s still ok but in dating contexts no ... just no lol.

3) Cancer Sun - They can be good friends but they don´t have the kind of sensitiveness I like. I can feel almost "embarassed"/not at ease in the way they show their interest.

4) Mercury + ASC in Scorpio - In friendship I´m a bit more tolerant (I have an Aries friend with Scorpio ASC) but in relationship I won´t accept the way they answer/react sometimes lol.

Anna239 » Etherealmind I think that I agree with all of these! (for the most part)

I find Aqua sun apathetic, disinterested and their partiallly vascillating but absolutist tendencies

Cancer suns most often are extremely volatile, touchy and distrustful (often seem obsessive I guess too..?)

And Scorpio mercuries also Super paranoid lol, judgemental and blunt, though that could be because some I met where also Sag suns (Scorpio + Sag is a problematic combination)

I like people with at least some mercury in their chart because they communicate so much better than other people

Anna239 Anything indicating strong pessimism or distrust/paranoia

And I prefer people that communciate relatively directly

Also I can´t Stand some Aquarian characteristics

Aren Levi » Etherealmind I love capri asc

when you can make someone as cold and distant as capricorns emotional and make them open up - youll see the gold inside them, .... But thats just my experience with those capri people

Aren Levi » Anna239 What would you say is placement that screams pessimism and distrust ? ( what planet/sign/house )

Aren Levi » moonlike00 Gemini seems always fake to me,

too much speaking about nothing important

they usually do not like spiritual and deep conversations

they seem like "book worms" but not that cute type like virgos

they value general inteligence too much and forgetting about "street smarts"

getting confidence out of "inteligence" and knowledge they got

again - my experience with them

annee13x » Etherealmind Im a cap rising and cancer moon and ITS HARD FOR ME

Aren Levi » annee13x it is always not easy when someone has opposite energies connected to major placements in chart,
specially when ASC directs and creates map of life and Moon as emotions are opposite to that path.

but i believe it can be beneficial when you mature more.

Anna239 » Aren Levi Cancer sun/mercury in Scorpio/8th house placements
Also additional Sag placements I think are Bad because these people think that what they believe and "know" to be true is everything. And they are only direct when trying to convey what they believe/know rather than listening/or directly understanding people.

Though I have known some really unstable people of a very particular personality type who may have several intersecting issues that contribute as well

Aren Levi » Jaided "I dont like to judge a sign"

interesting,

now i relaized no sign or placement can make anyone evil or criminal

there has to be that "free will" somewhere dictating those inherit energies

sorry, completely out of topic what i just wrote, thanks - now i want to look for free will in charts

Catch-22 » Etherealmind Hahaha, I just felt busted on that Aquarian part

Aren Levi » Catch-22 now i checked your chart in hope i would tell you you are not aqua in sidereal,

but you are heavy aqua even in sidereal

but thousand people, thousand tastes

aquas have STAR card in tarot, aquas are unique - no doubt about that

Catch-22 » Aren Levi That´s why I´m for sidereal, at least my Sun isn´t Aqua and that´s the first one most people look at. Who looks at Mars and Mercury?

cubic » Jaided " I don´t like to judge a sign"

Yeah same here.

I have theoretically nothing to offer to a woman with Mars in Taurus for instance, since I have pretty much 0 Earth in my chart, and that Mars is going to be squaring a personal planet at any degree, since most of my chart is fixed signs.

Emanuel Red flags? Challenging natal or synastry aspects? Why not. Relationships are not easy.

So my answer is: i dont have any particular "red flag". Each aspect and position has it s uniqueness.

Aren Levi » Emanuel Well it depends on your self worth

I would definetly not date someone that is not my type, which can be indicated by their natal placement.

Waste of time on both parties.

Emanuel » Aren Levi Actually this synastry thing before dating... It s not very good for multiple reasons. It adds a bias even before knowing that person, and that s not nice.

Aren Levi » Emanuel Of course nobody should be decided just on charts, deffinetly not synastry

but do not take this post too seriously it is just "fun banter" towards some placements

Catch-22 I once was with a lady with Sun , Moon and ASC . She was too hot to handle

Silvi For bad experiences before. Any Aries or Leo combination in their charts.

Me me me me me

Aren Levi » Catch-22 fire ladies

Aren Levi » Silvi what about sagg energies ?

Silvi » Aren Levi Well my Juno is in Sag.... the only thing I don´t like about them is just those who tend to avoid troubles. But it works for me. I tend to date people with Sagitarian energies , not the Sun or Rising curiosly. :)

Catch-22 » Aren Levi I wonder if it would also be like the same with earth, water and air. Like a "dirty" lady , and ASC . They must be grounded like hell. Or a watery lady, all psychology and emotions? Or airy, like a female Sheldon Cooper.

Maybe that´s the turn off for me, too dominant in one element...

Coole Gemini energy here haha

I´m not really fan of Mars in Air or Water signs
My fave are Mars in Cap/Aries or Sag... Leo not that much
very bad from my experience (Mars in Taurus or Libra, Pisces and Scorpio)

I don´t do well with Libra Suns...nor Aquarius Suns though I have my little thing for them and they make amazing friends that not many can replace ( )

Venus in Aquarius deff got the energy of a cold heartbreaker to me (in a male chart) - in a female chart it seems more settle and friendly to me
I love Venus in: Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn
Least favorite: Leo Venus....sorry...

I don´t know about you guys...but I found Cap risings actually very hot and misunderstood
I really like rising of Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aries or Aquarius sometimes

Male with Cancer rising I don´t like that much...( maybe least favorite)

Over all: I´m not really into Leo stellium nor Libra.
Though I love Libra Mercury and Leo Moons..the rest is a No No.