October 13, 2021 at 05:10 (UT/GMT)
(Virgo) Aren Levi
Hey people,

what would you say is the placement you definetly would not want in your boyfriends/girlfriends chart ?
- it can be any planet in any dignity you feel as "deal-breaker"

I know it is not wise to see someone as one placement BUT, i think we all have some "red flags" we want to dodge when it comes to astrology charts of our potential partners.

Me personally - i think i wouldnt want a girlfriend/wife with anything connected to gemini energy :4:

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October 13, 2021 at 08:47
(Virgo) Etherealmind
Funny thread !

Well, if we ONLY talk about romantic relationships (so NOT about friendships neither others kinds of relationships) :

1) Aquarius Sun - they can really be my best friends but I can´t imagine dating on of them - they´re seem slightly superficial so not so serious in their loyalty and in their responsibilities in the relationship. In any case for me. They´re also a bit unstable in their interest toward you. It´s based on the Aquarius guys I´ve met till now.

2) Capricorn ASC - they´re fucking extra cold lol. They don´t really show their enjoyment and sensitivity in conversations. I need expressiveness. In friendship it´s still ok but in dating contexts no ... just no lol.

3) Cancer Sun - They can be good friends but they don´t have the kind of sensitiveness I like. I can feel almost "embarassed"/not at ease in the way they show their interest.

4) Mercury + ASC in Scorpio - In friendship I´m a bit more tolerant (I have an Aries friend with Scorpio ASC) but in relationship I won´t accept the way they answer/react sometimes lol.
October 13, 2021 at 13:32
(Leo) Anna239 » Etherealmind
I think that I agree with all of these! :22: (for the most part)

I find Aqua sun apathetic, disinterested and their partiallly vascillating but absolutist tendencies

Cancer suns most often are extremely volatile, touchy and distrustful (often seem obsessive I guess too..?)

And Scorpio mercuries also Super paranoid lol, judgemental and blunt, though that could be because some I met where also Sag suns (Scorpio + Sag is a problematic combination)

I like people with at least some mercury in their chart because they communicate so much better than other people
October 13, 2021 at 13:33
(Leo) Anna239
Anything indicating strong pessimism or distrust/paranoia

And I prefer people that communciate relatively directly

Also I can´t Stand some Aquarian characteristics
October 13, 2021 at 13:44
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Etherealmind
I love capri asc

when you can make someone as cold and distant as capricorns emotional and make them open up - youll see the gold inside them, .... But thats just my experience with those capri people :4:
October 13, 2021 at 13:45
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Anna239
What would you say is placement that screams pessimism and distrust ? ( what planet/sign/house )
October 13, 2021 at 13:54
(Virgo) Aren Levi » moonlike00
Gemini seems always fake to me,

too much speaking about nothing important

they usually do not like spiritual and deep conversations

they seem like "book worms" but not that cute type like virgos

they value general inteligence too much and forgetting about "street smarts"

getting confidence out of "inteligence" and knowledge they got

again - my experience with them
October 13, 2021 at 13:59
(Taurus) annee13x » Etherealmind
Im a cap rising and cancer moon and ITS HARD FOR ME
October 13, 2021 at 14:06
(Virgo) Aren Levi » annee13x
it is always not easy when someone has opposite energies connected to major placements in chart,
specially when ASC directs and creates map of life and Moon as emotions are opposite to that path.

but i believe it can be beneficial when you mature more.
October 13, 2021 at 14:06
(Leo) Anna239 » Aren Levi
Cancer sun/mercury in Scorpio/8th house placements
Also additional Sag placements I think are Bad because these people think that what they believe and "know" to be true is everything. And they are only direct when trying to convey what they believe/know rather than listening/or directly understanding people.

Though I have known some really unstable people of a very particular personality type who may have several intersecting issues that contribute as well
October 13, 2021 at 14:20
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Jaided
"I dont like to judge a sign"


now i relaized no sign or placement can make anyone evil or criminal

there has to be that "free will" somewhere dictating those inherit energies

sorry, completely out of topic what i just wrote, thanks - now i want to look for free will in charts :37:
October 13, 2021 at 14:31
(Aquarius) Catch-22 » Etherealmind
Hahaha, I just felt busted on that Aquarian part :76:
October 13, 2021 at 14:37
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Catch-22
now i checked your chart in hope i would tell you you are not aqua in sidereal,

but you are heavy aqua even in sidereal :61:

but thousand people, thousand tastes

aquas have STAR card in tarot, aquas are unique - no doubt about that
October 13, 2021 at 14:59
(Aquarius) Catch-22 » Aren Levi
That´s why I´m for sidereal, at least my Sun isn´t Aqua and that´s the first one most people look at. Who looks at Mars and Mercury? :37:
October 13, 2021 at 16:19
(Leo) cubic » Jaided
" I don´t like to judge a sign"

Yeah same here.

I have theoretically nothing to offer to a woman with Mars in Taurus for instance, since I have pretty much 0 Earth in my chart, and that Mars is going to be squaring a personal planet at any degree, since most of my chart is fixed signs.
October 13, 2021 at 18:44
(Capricorn) Emanuel
Red flags? Challenging natal or synastry aspects? Why not. Relationships are not easy.

So my answer is: i dont have any particular "red flag". Each aspect and position has it s uniqueness.
October 14, 2021 at 05:11
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Emanuel
Well it depends on your self worth

I would definetly not date someone that is not my type, which can be indicated by their natal placement.

Waste of time on both parties.
October 14, 2021 at 06:02
(Capricorn) Emanuel » Aren Levi
Actually this synastry thing before dating... It s not very good for multiple reasons. It adds a bias even before knowing that person, and that s not nice.
October 14, 2021 at 14:07
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Emanuel
Of course nobody should be decided just on charts, deffinetly not synastry

but do not take this post too seriously it is just "fun banter" towards some placements :3:
October 14, 2021 at 17:46
(Aquarius) Catch-22
I once was with a lady with Sun :179:, Moon :155: and ASC :175:. She was too hot to handle :61:
October 14, 2021 at 18:03
(Taurus) Silvi
For bad experiences before. Any Aries or Leo combination in their charts.

Me me me me me
October 14, 2021 at 18:30
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Catch-22
fire ladies :37:
October 14, 2021 at 18:31
(Virgo) Aren Levi » Silvi
what about sagg energies ?
October 14, 2021 at 18:42
(Taurus) Silvi » Aren Levi
Well my Juno is in Sag.... the only thing I don´t like about them is just those who tend to avoid troubles. But it works for me. I tend to date people with Sagitarian energies , not the Sun or Rising curiosly. :)
October 15, 2021 at 06:04
(Aquarius) Catch-22 » Aren Levi
I wonder if it would also be like the same with earth, water and air. Like a "dirty" lady :151: :172:, :152: :176: and ASC :180:. They must be grounded like hell. Or a watery lady, all psychology and emotions? Or airy, like a female Sheldon Cooper. :61:

Maybe that´s the turn off for me, too dominant in one element...
October 15, 2021 at 08:32
(Cancer) Coole
Gemini energy here haha :4: :79:

I´m not really fan of Mars in Air or Water signs
My fave are Mars in Cap/Aries or Sag... Leo not that much
very bad from my experience (Mars in Taurus or Libra, Pisces and Scorpio)

I don´t do well with Libra Suns...nor Aquarius Suns though I have my little thing for them and they make amazing friends that not many can replace ( :152: :181: )

Venus in Aquarius deff got the energy of a cold heartbreaker to me (in a male chart) - in a female chart it seems more settle and friendly to me
I love Venus in: Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn :79:
Least favorite: Leo Venus....sorry...

I don´t know about you guys...but I found Cap risings actually very hot and misunderstood
I really like rising of Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aries or Aquarius sometimes

Male with Cancer rising I don´t like that much...( maybe least favorite)

Over all: I´m not really into Leo stellium nor Libra.
Though I love Libra Mercury and Leo Moons..the rest is a No No.
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