Moon in aquarius in relatinships. - Discussions, questions

lnsabch I agree with the other poster, it is hard to tell how he would be without seeing the whole chart. The Moon is modified by aspects to it, and by the house it is in.

I have Aquarius Moon, and I know two men with Aquarius Moons. The only things that are the same for all three of us:
-We have a strange sense of humor
-We love technology and gadgets; we are huge geeks!
-We have problematic mothers

Etherealmind Jaided said : "this person has a hard time fully showing their interest."

Having Aqua Moon conjunct Uranus, it can also be my case sometimes but it´s not often because of shyness but mainly because I´m not sure about my real feelings for the person. It can be a bit unstable.

I hope it can help you !!

PS : it may also be my Aqua Moon opposite Leo Venus and Venus sqaure Mars emphasizing the problematic too

Starryeye » Jaided Mm, yes. I need to post the chart. Hope you can share some thoughts. 😊 The only thing i dont know hes ascendant.

Starryeye » lnsabch Yes true. I have uploaded hes chart. If you guys can give some insight it would be nice.i dont know if i did it right and if you can see it.

Starryeye » Jaided Oh and i forgot hes mercury is in gemini. But as i know hes not very chatty. He said hes ascendant might be scorpio in the begining. I didnt want to sound like a creep to know about hes birth chart. 😊

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Your sun is aversion with his moon, better to date someone else who has moon in your own sun´s triplicity. Cheers.

Etherealmind » as123 It can´t be just about that. Aquarius Moon and Pisces Sun don´t even create a square ... the whole synastry chart should be analyzed

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Hi, aversion aspect by sign is even worse than square. Hope it help.

Etherealmind » as123 What do you mean by aversion ? Can you explain ?

Maybe I´m learning smth I didn´t know before

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lnsabch » Starryeye No, sorry, I don´t see the chart! Maybe you can run the Astro-seek "Love Compatibility" horoscope and see how compatible you are.

Coole I´ve dated Scorpio boy with Aqua moon with Scorpio rising for almost 3 years.

having Air Moon-Sign myslef I have to tell you that air moons tend to ignore their feelings anyways or make feelings into more logical thoughts because usually when we were growing up, the thing that was needed from us the most as a kids was to grow up fast and help...especially if his Rising is Scorpio as well ....makes him to have Aquarius 4th house

Also growing up...the most important thing was usually education and also the way how parent gave us "love" was not through emotions, nor acts of service but valuable knowledge (also observation, I don´t have his full chart...but I do have Gem Mercury too )

Also....having Aquarius moon can be really challenging for person...because they tend to ignore their feelings more than other air-moons (I´d say - just observation) ..because they tend to think themselves that tehy are either above their feelings or they intelectualise them....when I wanted my ex bf to talk about our feelings he was not into the conversation. He would die for me....but talk about our feelings? That´s a NO baby

As an Aquarius moon my bf was: Super smart! Talked to strangers on the street all the time! He loved sharing memes ....deep disuccions and also he really had weird sense of humor that was somewhat charming...He was always nice and good at problem solving

Catch-22 Being an Aquarian Moon (BOTH sidereal AND tropical) I can relate to what you say.

I just hate long phonecalls, they make me nervous. When my sister calls, it´s always 45 min or longer and I just hate those calls. But even when my wife calls I try to keep it short. One of my early stage wooing tactics is cooking for that significant other. I always invited the lady very early at my home and made a diner that stick (in her memory, not on her ass). Now I´m with my wife for 17 years and I still like to cook for her.

My need for emotional wellbeing is looked after sometimes in strange ways. I also sometimes feel like an observer of my emotions, thinking like "wtf am I doing now?" and I like to stick to them, I guess this is the fixed sign quality...

Starryeye » lnsabch Oh well i still didnt figure out how you upload a chart here. I will try again. Yes i did compatibility chart and some were very good but some awfull like we had lot of oppositions i remember. But then i dont know much about intrepreting them. 😊

Etherealmind » as123 Thanks for the link :):) but I´m still not really convinced by this concept of aversion. In any case the observations I can make on my own chart, my personality and other people´s personality & chart don´t make me think that this concept is worse than a square.

любитель Hi. As the owner of the moon in Aquarius, I can say that such people are very reserved in emotional manifestations, stingy with feelings. To say that I love you is very, very difficult for me personally. It is easier to show love by actions. If a man with this moon position cares about you, then most likely he loves you. I don´t like phone calls. I don´t see the person, his emotions.

Whitefluffy » moonlike00 I agree. I have Aquarius Moon and my husband has Gemini Moon. We feel emotionally comfortable with each other and been together for 19 years.

As Aquarius Moon I also strongly dislike long phone conversations unless they are intellectually stimulating.

Starryeye » любитель Wow. Now i understand. Yes he is somewhat reserved in that area. But slowly i see he opens up. Thanks for the response. 😊

Starryeye » moonlike00 Yes i guess as a gemini moon i like my space as well.as an air sign i am go with the flow and whenever it takes you. 😊 Thanks for the response. Btw one question as a moon in aquarius yourself can you communicate e your feelings or is it difficult?

Starryeye » Catch-22 Thanks for the respond. I see what hes doing. 😊😁

любитель » Starryeye Patience, no need to put pressure on him. Get to know each other better as friends. Then the next step. Otherwise he will be scared and run away

Heavy Dreamer Having Aqua moon is a strange contradictory situation: needing to be needed but at the same time not needed in general lol
Not in a clingy way anyway. Helping and nurturing without being forced to be that way for some reason or rule or circumstances.

And another contradictory fact: long deep personal conversations that matter... only in-person one to one, with the specific persons we can open up. Thriving in online chats or messaging yes, but not for personal matters. Longing to be emotional in-person but at the same time can´t really express that (at least as expected) when the time comes and it´s awkward.
... and that´s somehow it became the stereotype of the "emotionally distant" moon.

Gemini positions should be helping on his expression tho.

IntoTheVoid I am also dating a Gemini with an Aquarius Moon - he´s loving in very strange ways but it´s cute. He has difficulty expressing emotions... which makes it difficult for me to know where we are at, being a Scorpio Moon... but I have to remember that we all have our own ways of showing affection, and I really like being around him because he makes me laugh and inspires me.

corra Im a gemini with aquarius moon,how can I help you?

Tina92 » Starryeye You should just have asked about what time he was born, then you wouldn’t have needed to ask about the planets.

Would say in general that its important for a Aquarius man to be born into a healthy family with good relations and boundaries, otherwise he could grow up to be a bit of a player. They fall in and out of love quickly.

But you really need the whole chart to see other aspects too. Maybe his moon isn’t that dominant.