13 signs you are in a Karmic Relationship

January 15, 2019 at 00:26 (UT/GMT)
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13 signs you are in a Karmic Relationship
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13 Signs You’re In What Is Known As A Karmic Relationship
Ba Mor, February 15th 2017


For my new-age junkie friends, and also for those of you who are new to Eastern Philosophy, almost every person goes through one or more karmic relationships during their lifetime. Karmic relationships are not meant to last, and they are usually the biggest life lessons in love.

Karmic relationships are different from twin flame and soulmate relationships. In a spiritual context, karmic relationships are viewed from the lens of personal growth. Here are some of the signs of a karmic relationship.

1. They repeat patterns. If you’re on and off in your relationship, that is major sign it’s a karmic one. If you seem to be experiencing the same kinds of relationship problems, that is also a big red flag. Such relationships repeat the same patterns and remain stagnant, because the only way you can grow from them is by letting go.

2. They are selfish. Karmic relationships do not respect healthy boundaries in their partners. They serve only their own self-interest and needs. They are the perfect template for forming abusive or co-dependent relationship complexes. While one person is very invested, the other person views it more as a convenience.

3. They are addictive. They are characterized by highs and lows of passionate intensity. One or both partners are more in love with the idea of love, based on superficial reasons such as good looks, popularity, social or professional status.

4. They are controlling. They are obsessive and all about ownership of your partner. The other person becomes the center of your universe, and the main source of your happiness. You put them on a pedestal, and are unable to see their flaws.

5. They feel destined. You think that you cannot live without this person, and feel like you both are somehow meant to be together. You cannot fathom why it keeps failing, and you keep trying and hoping to get it right. They are extremely hard to resist, and keep drawing you in, until you learn what you need to from it.

6. There is an instant connection. Such relationships are marked by an immediate attraction. This person feels perfect to you. It feels like you have known them before, and you become instantly attached to them.

7. They create dependency. You begin to feel consumed by the relationship, and it begins to occupy your thoughts all the time. You can’t help handing them all the power. You become mentally, physically and emotionally dependent on this person.

8. They bring out your worst fears. They bring to the surface all the things you are deathly afraid of. Fear of abandonment, fear of commitment, fear of rejection, fear of loss, fear of emotional engulfment, and all the skeletons hiding in your closet.

9. They are irrational. They hold a mirror to your worst vulnerabilities and ugly insecurities. You start acting unlike yourself, and do things that you wouldn’t normally do.

10. They reveal your dark side. They show you your most undesirable and difficult characteristics that you were previously unaware of. They painfully remind you how human you actually are.

11. They are tumultuous. Such relationships are incredibly volatile, erratic and unpredictable. The best thing you can do for yourself is to identify such a relationship, and learn to let it go for your own good.

12. They push your buttons. The main purpose of these relationships is for you to learn how to properly love yourself and others, such that you stop trying to control your circumstances, become the master of your own ego, and focus on working on yourself.

13. They do not last. This person is not your forever person, how much ever you want to hope, wish and believe in your fairytale ending. Contrary to what you see on television and media, such relationships are born out of conflict and end in conflict. They are extremely unhealthy, and usually do not last. TC mark

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January 15, 2019 at 04:03
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Thanks!
January 15, 2019 at 09:15
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I relate to this karmic aspect. The most common relationships I had were with women who were involved in occult, not only my knowledge grew, I also was spiritually healed. I become a better person thanks to these women, my flaws are known to me. I have many weaknesses, but I hope I can somehow become better. For now I am grateful to have known these wise women.
January 15, 2019 at 12:02
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There are people who are entering your life for a reason, others for a season, and some for a lifetime. Be open to all three, because all three can transform you and support your personal growth. Just don´t go trying to turn a seasonal girl into a forever girl. Once you realize that all of them were seasonal type, you´ll feel relieved and freed from the past.
January 15, 2019 at 12:41
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This really struck a chord. As I´m finally ok with leaving my previous marriage that nearly killed me. But, I learned a lot about myself. It did indeed bring out the darkest parts of me.
January 15, 2019 at 17:49
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There are people that have no idea that they are in a Karmic relationship and think they have a Twin flame relationship.

This article might open their eyes to the truth.

Without naming the party in question there is a perfect example of this self delusion on this very site!
January 25, 2019 at 06:07
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Thank you. This is very helpful.


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