HOW TO CONQUER VENUS IN VIRGO?

June 19, 2021 at 22:33 (UT/GMT)
(Virgo) astreo
HOW TO CONQUER VENUS IN VIRGO?
I like it, and I would like to see if someone gives me some advice to see how I do it HAHAHA

Who has Venus in Virgo who wants to give me advice, or someone who knows about this position? I think my Venus in Leo is VERY different. :(


SATURN CONJUNCTION MOON Karmic relationship?

In synastry Saturn conjuncts my Moon in Gemini.
This is very bad?
Would you give me the green light to try something?
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June 19, 2021 at 22:39
(Virgo) astreo
I think Venus in Virgo is going to make it a bit difficult for me, right?
June 19, 2021 at 22:44
(Virgo) astreo
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June 19, 2021 at 22:53
(Virgo) Turbo TJ
I have Venus at 29-36 Virgo and def agree this is a troubled spot for Venus. I am very self critical and find many flaws with myself I fear to share with others. A Venus Virgo person is very hard to love due to our lack of self love. Always looking to find flaws in our romance just to find a reason not to further explore the romance.


Good luck and you can always find a flaw in others to be picky about but I come to understand that when I find a perfect imperfection I like in my love I like to focus on the minor things I value of her over the many flaws I could find.
June 19, 2021 at 23:05
(Virgo) astreo » Turbo TJ
It is that I feel a lot of insecurity on her part, insecurity that I do not understand at all, my Venus in Leo is very safe, she only tells me that she is "afraid" and that she feels "insecure", but I can´t understand it.

Could you say that it is difficult for you to find passion in relationships?
Or to get very discouraged?
June 19, 2021 at 23:08
(Pisces) fishscales
I had a Venus in Virgo girlfriend before.

Basically, she came across as pretty prim and proper, but was incredibly horny, all of the time. Gotta admit, even as a younger guy, I had trouble keeping up with her sometimes. Sometimes you just wanna go to bed.

Qualification: She also had Venus conjunct Mars, as well as Lilith conjunct Jupiter.
June 19, 2021 at 23:11
(Virgo) Turbo TJ » astreo
I´d say the discouraged part for sure. I think I become very passionate in relationship but this could be Venus siting on the cardinal Libra point.

The discouraged part for sure. The insecure issue never goes away unfortunately. Even when im in a great relationship and have great rapport with the lover. I still feel like I´m not enough for them and they deserve better. Even though in all actuality I am the better that they deserve. Just one my downfalls due to anorexic Virgo Venus.
June 19, 2021 at 23:21
(Virgo) Etherealmind
Acuerdate algo hermano : Venus in Virgo needs TIME to start a relationship. They tend to think a lot before making a decision regarding relationships. If you ask them out, they will probably answer you smth like "Let me think about it, I need time to think about it." cause they really wanna make sure that they go out with the right person that´s where the perfectionist side of them appears. I feel like they can wait for a long time before starting a relationship cause they´re "serious" and loyal in relationships. They can be also slighty perfectionist and very observative on some criterias but not for "arrogant" reasons. Oh! and they´re slightly reserved/modest too!

In any case that´s what I could observe with people around me having Venus in Virgo.
June 19, 2021 at 23:32
(Capricorn) Emanuel
Don t mess with their perfectly ordered drawers lmao
June 20, 2021 at 01:22
(Taurus) Rosincvist
You know your Solar Progressions mean that at `10´ years old the natal :154: started being sorta kinda Virgoish!
June 20, 2021 at 07:34
(Virgo) LotusStar
My advice as a Venus in Virgo:

- Offer to help, she will always notice acts of kindness and concern towards her, no matter how small.

- Show off your smarts and sense of humor. Virgo Venus is attracted to wit and intelligence.

- Be patient. As an earth sign, it likes to commit to something that feels real and has true potential... She´s going to take her time to figure that out in her head before giving you the green light.

- Be direct. She is not the type to just assume you like her unless you make that clear.

We are kind of shy and a little insecure (because so focused on perfection and high standards, see every flaw), even if we don´t show it, and honestly I think half the time oblivious to flirting. So, being clear is important, without being over the top... Cos we don´t really like that either. Just sincere and meaningful gestures is the best way to go. But ultimately, be yourself. Because any person has to like you for who you really are.
June 20, 2021 at 12:30
(Scorpio) OS*
Saturn conjunct Moon. . . outch. I’d also be careful about Venus square to Mars/Chiron and Pluto.

I think there’s a misconception with Virgos being indecisive. I have never told a man “Let me think about it, I need time to think about it”. This is more Libra, Virgo don’t like wasting so if they’re “procrastinating is because they want it right (where the perfectionist comes in. . . )

**though, she does have a Libra moon, so that statement "needing time to think" might apply there. Just my thoughts about it.

They seem critical (nitpicky) but only because their main goal it to elevate their partner to success. They see what potentials they have and push them to bring it out. They just want the best for their partner. She also has a nice Mars in Leo ;))



What Fishscales said, if you know a Venus in Virgo on an intimate level, they are pretty hyper sexual, remembering that mercury is also very experimental. . . .


Wishing you the best of luck! :17:
June 20, 2021 at 19:01
(Virgo) LotusStar » OS*
Yes, as an earth sign, it´s very physically oriented when it comes to love and attraction. Though I thought I had a high sex drive until I met a Mars in Aries (opposite Pluto), Venus Taurus, Sagittarius in the 8th man... and yeah, not even close! :61:

Anyway, it´s not about finding perfection, just specific about what they like and don´t like and can hold out until they find it.
June 20, 2021 at 19:28
(Virgo) Etherealmind » LotusStar
 "it´s very physically oriented when it comes to love and attraction."

So true !! It´s partly what I implied when I said "they´re also very observative" :61: it´s slightly noticeable from the interlocutor´s/external point of view :61:
June 20, 2021 at 23:11
(Virgo) astreo » fishscales
At first I thought he only wanted me for sex, I was VERY HOT, I was even very "aggressive", I thought: "his Mars in Leo is VERY powerful" HAHAHAHA.

But I threw the Tarot at her to ask her what her intentions were, and if she was only sex, I understood that no, that her main intentions were not sex, that she had a sentimental interest, but that she was "afraid" . I got confused with the true attitude of her in person HAHAHA, with my Mars in Sagittarius I get along well in that aspect, but not at the level as intense as Leo HAHAHAHA.

I feel that I attract her very much, her Venus in conjunction with my Sun.
June 20, 2021 at 23:20
(Virgo) astreo » Etherealmind
Thank you so much for your advice.

The truth is that she has a LOT of insecurity, it is not the first time that I have gone through this, and right now I do not have the best attitude to tolerate this type of attitudes, I understand that we all have certain challenges in life, and that we are different, I She seems like a good girl, but I leave her at the level of a friend, I think her insecurity is not healthy for me.

Although it is RARE, she shows a certain ´´ aggressiveness ´´ with me, as if she wants to impose or ´´ dominate me ´´, I do not know if the square of her Mars with my Venus has to do, but it is like a way in which I see the insecurity of her.

That at the same time is so attractive, but at the same time so rare. :61: :61: :61: :61: :61:
June 20, 2021 at 23:22
(Virgo) astreo » Emanuel
I´ll take it into account, thank you HAHAHA
June 20, 2021 at 23:23
(Virgo) astreo » Rosincvist
In my Navamsa I have Venus in Virgo in the 6th house, ALL A DISASTER.
June 20, 2021 at 23:32
(Capricorn) Emanuel » OS*
WHy Saturn conjunct Moon ouch ? Yes it s karmic,but very bonding over time. People expect just sugar and honey this day in relationships.
June 20, 2021 at 23:39
(Virgo) astreo » LotusStar
´´ Show your intelligence and sense of humor. Virgo Venus is attracted to wit and intelligence. ´´


Thank you, I thought that this aspect was because her Venus is in conjunction with my Mercury, I also like it because she is very talkative, the first times I met her she said `` and how was your day, tell me? That pleased my Moon in Gemini a lot, in addition to showing a certain calm, I suppose it is because her Moon is also in Air.

´´Be direct. She´s not the type to just assume you like her unless you make it clear. ´´

I love being direct, I think Virgos are hahaha.

"Because everyone likes you for who you really are."

Yes, I like to be myself, smile and go through life showing my joy, I think it is something that I owe to my Venus in Leo. :)

Her Pluto squares my Sun.
My Pluto squares with her Venus.

There is a certain "magnetism", but also an intensity that is a bit scary.

I think the biggest challenge is Saturn and the Moon.

Although I can´t understand my Neptune´s opposition to her Mars.

Thanks!!!! :4:
June 20, 2021 at 23:44
(Virgo) astreo » LotusStar
Its Mars opposite your Neptune

You are, in his opinion, an inveterately fanciful and dreamy person; He is annoyed by your evasive and confused way of dealing with him or her, because every time he or she tries to cut to the chase and make a point, you seem to pay little attention or run away. Therefore, it is not surprising that his frustration sometimes causes him to react in a brusque and contemptuous way. As a consequence, you will suffer what you consider to be an overly aggressive and domineering attitude on their part, in addition to the fact that you do not like their apparent lack of imagination and sensitivity. Thus, confusing situations and hurt feelings may occur more frequently than is desirable between you. The truth is that their ambitions run in the opposite direction to your idealism, and mutual disappointment is a constant danger.

I do not identify with this, but I suppose the energy of Neptune is not noticeable with the naked eye. :63: :63:
June 20, 2021 at 23:49
(Virgo) astreo » OS*
Your Saturn conjunct your Moon

This configuration can give your relationship extraordinary durability, if other planetary aspects are favorable. In that case, she puts a sense of discipline, order and stability in your life, and even if there is not much expressiveness in her emotions, they will be deep and constant. You can always be assured of their loyalty and loyalty. And if you have the same goals, a strong sense of mutual responsibility can emerge, and you can work together very effectively.
If not, his pessimism tends to depress you, and his seemingly cold and insensitive demeanor can upset your emotional state. Possibly he will reproach you for being little responsible, capricious and unstable, and you feel that his criticism does not allow you to develop the personal side of your relationship.

I think I only identify with his pessimism. :41:
June 21, 2021 at 00:25
(Virgo) astreo » Emanuel
There are people who, when the going gets tough, all they do is run away. :(


So it could be said that this is Karmic?
By Saturn?
June 21, 2021 at 22:20
(Scorpio) OS* » astreo
Saturn-Moon (or Sun) tends to stick like glue. sont inséparable. . . but it´s not easy specially with harsh aspects. Ive experienced, my Saturn on someone´s sun or moon, and the other way around.

Saturn person doesn´t want to deal with emotional responses of moon person. They will "should" on their emotions, dictating how they should feel or act etc etc. Moon person will often feel judged by the Saturn person. Sometimes even just in their presence, no words necessarily needed. One is the teacher the other nurturer.

Saturn (ideals, morals, principles) do not match with the Moon (emotional) nurturing needs. Conjunction is "friction" is better when they´r in trine or sextile. . .

Outer planets, the bad aspects etc are noticed in the long run. The relationship either makes it or breaks it.
June 22, 2021 at 00:25
(Virgo) astreo » OS*
Thank you very much, I identify more with your description than with the one I found. :79:
June 22, 2021 at 01:22
(Scorpio) OS* » astreo
you´re welcome!

but something to take into account, you never really know how it will play out. influence might be there but you get what Im saying. Same as, we don´t choose who we fall in love. I´d ignore the synastry if this is new and just go with the flow, how you feel about things etc. Relationships always make us grow, no matter the aspects. :)

knowing the synastry, composite might be helpful in the longterm, helpful in overcoming obstacles, bringing more awareness to the relationship. There is no perfect synastry🌹
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