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Boyfriend has 0 fire in his chart
March 18, 2021 at 16:09 (UT/GMT)

Boyfriend has 0 fire in his chart
One difficult aspect between my boyfriends chart and mine is that he has no fire. He’s a very slow moving Aquarius. I’m mostly fire in my chart. Taurus sun but Leo dominant. And I have so many passion projects but I really want him to be around and a part of and he always wants to be included too. The thing is I never know when creative juices will flow and when that happens I like to get up and go do it right then and there but waiting around for him to leave the house makes me burn out before I can even get started we literally only fight about this! It feels very restricting to me. I feel so discouraged sometimes wondering if we can ever make it work. Though this is our only fight! We have a daughter and he’s really slow to respond to her too. Any advice out there for someone in my situation would be greatly appreciated! I often wonder of we should just live separately but stay together/ but I don’t know if he’d go for that. He’s not your average cold Aquarius he’s got a Virgo rising and Libra moon and pretty emotional type.

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March 21, 2021 at 18:04


March 21, 2021 at 18:14

At the same time, they can be very slow and put out your fire. It´s just finding balance for yourself to keep moving regardless of what they do. You really have no control over them.

March 21, 2021 at 18:32

You do have a lot of fire in your chart and you also have Mars opposite Uranus, which shows fast and spontaneous actions. However, your descendant is Aquarius with Saturn there, you attract someone rational who will slow you down and ground you, teach patience.
How is his Mars aspected, and with regards to yours?

March 21, 2021 at 22:12

And yes, it is often said, that opposites complement each other..But I would say it works only if these are not completely opposites. And You understand- He won´t change. He can try to act like he is more active, but it will only be an illusion..

March 22, 2021 at 04:03


March 22, 2021 at 04:05

March 22, 2021 at 04:12

March 22, 2021 at 14:07

Second, your chart shows a lot of Leo energy, true. But Leos are actually often quite lazy, slow to start. The impulsivity you describe is in my opinion actually a work of restless, untamed Aries. Aries rules your MC. He escalates the fire energy of yours, he drives your Mercury, and with Uranus and Neptune squaring him thats yet another octave of impulsivity that you probably do not control much. Thats why I suggested it might be a bit of a vice to work on, not to be just driven by.
Then, there is the grand cross: Aquarius Saturn opposes your ASC and its planets and squares the Sun. From what you described that Aquarius Saturn is literally your boyfriend. He is part of the equation. If you get separated, this Aquarius Saturn will find another way to manifest in your life. I suggest having such a mirror impersonated in your partner is by far the best way to go. To accept and learn. The life lesson is inevitable in one form or another.
Also, Mars is in 12th and Cancer. Seems like it needs a solid backround, a shell to go out from and get back to. If your partner contributes to creating this sort of backround it should not be taken as something granted or of little value.
In my opinion this situation calls for finding a middle ground and comfortable ways of contribution. If that hapens, you both may gain much more than you presumably lose.

March 22, 2021 at 23:11


March 22, 2021 at 23:45


March 23, 2021 at 02:07


March 23, 2021 at 02:18

Sometimes its really hard to slow down or see what we could do better. I think your words are pretty accurate. Ive been trying to become more aware of the tendencies in myself
Ive actually got someone in my life that is much more slow paced and methodical than i am and sometimes it drives me mad. Im certain they feel similarly about me at times

March 23, 2021 at 03:57


January 23, 2022 at 13:06


January 23, 2022 at 13:27

you got Moon and Jupiter 1st house in cancer for cancer asc
but Sun in aries 10th house ---- you might be forcefully and soundly loving - which is great but you would fit more with fie/water mix in my oppinion.
BUT most importantly Mars in 12th house which means you are manglik - you would be great for men that are mangliks too which means - their Mars has to be in
1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house
Would you please share what you do for a living ?
cause your MC is ruled by Jupiter which is exalted and i am curious about its affects.

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