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How to survive a Mars square Saturn double whammy?
February 15, 2021 at 09:16 (UT/GMT)

How to survive a Mars square Saturn double whammy?
Hello, I would really like to know any experience that you might have had with this aspect. I have it with someone I am in a relationship for three years now.
His saturn my mars (0 orb); My saturn his mars (2 orb)
We also have a lot of nice stuff in the chart like venus trine sun, neptune moon and moons conjunction. But the fights are so hurtful and terribleee.
I don´t know if there is anything else in the chart that can soften this aspect.
His saturn my mars (0 orb); My saturn his mars (2 orb)
We also have a lot of nice stuff in the chart like venus trine sun, neptune moon and moons conjunction. But the fights are so hurtful and terribleee.
I don´t know if there is anything else in the chart that can soften this aspect.


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February 15, 2021 at 09:21


February 15, 2021 at 09:25




February 15, 2021 at 10:27

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Just one Saturn aspect in challenge to anothers Mars is hard enough. I have this with many family members and have had it with a least one friend. I also have the double whammy with one family member. In my experience over time it only gets worse. I personally don´t like to fight with people or oppress them or be oppressed. The only way I worked it out with a friend was for our friendship to be rather sparse and distant, but when the rare occasion to come together happened (we had losts of supportive aspects)it was nice. Just not too much closeness, lots of freedom and respect.

February 15, 2021 at 10:37

February 15, 2021 at 10:48


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February 15, 2021 at 13:18

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February 15, 2021 at 13:51

You both have Neptune aspects contacting each other´s emotional planets. That shows romantic feelings and idealism. His Neptune is also in your eleventh house which can make you feel that your hopes and dreams will come true. But reality is often different than our imagination.
Also there is an obsessive component to this relationship, with your Venus conjunct his Pluto. I´m sure you share great intimacy at times, but I think there is a lot of drama too.
Also you´re a Sag and he´s a Taurus. He is okay with things staying the way they are; your passion requires you to explore and journey to see what´s out there. Oil and water don´t mix unless you both can adjust.
If you cannot get past those fights, and if you BOTH are restrictive towards one another, do you really think that would be a productive and loving relationship in the long term? Do you want your children to witness these fights and reproduce these relationship choices? Is there no other person you could date that you don´t constantly have to bicker with?
tick tock tick tock

February 15, 2021 at 13:52


February 15, 2021 at 14:00

I thought because the neptune aspects are soft it was easier and no idealisation, I definitely don´t idealise him or the relationship. And there are of course many other people I could have a relationship with and with who I share a very good synastry with but I am not as attracted towards these other ppl as I am to him.

February 15, 2021 at 14:22


February 15, 2021 at 15:15

I mean you´ve been in this relationship for three years now and by your own words you say things are getting worse. Idk what to say but explore other, more realistic options.

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