Who should I end up in a relationship with? - Discussions, questions

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I´m experimenting with chart harmonization these days and I have some theory that we seek those who have potential to harmonize our energies. In your case, the best balance could be achieved with someone with Taurus Sun on 20 (10-20 actually) degree and Pisces Moon 15 degree.

These two luminaries could balance well your Moon, Mars and Pluto and will probably result Sun-Moon conjunction or opposition in Davison which is great indicator for long lasting relationships.

One more important thing. Since you have 0 OOB, you should be looking for someone that has no OOB either, since I´ve found out (after that tread about OOB when I heard about that for the first time) that those elements are extremely important too. More stable relationships are those with similar OOB. I have analyzed more than 20 couples and all happy ones had similar OOB planets and devastating ones were combination of non-OOB and at least one OOB. If there is some OOB planet at partner chart, it can work fine only if it is unaspected in synastry with any of your element, so its "wiled" influence does not affect any part of you directly.

There are Jupiter, Venus and Saturn left to harmonize, but let destiny do something too

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actually Moon should be more than 15 degree to catch a trigon with Sun at least from 20-30 or better 0-10 Aries...

Anna239 » Moon_Queen Thank you. Actually I was sure that someone has told me this before!.. or else I had read it somewhere (That a Taurus would suit me, as well as Pisces I think..) well I don´t have anything against them at all the only thing is have to say is that I don´t know if I understand this sign as well as others and their most notable characteristics that would suit me. By now I am thinking that I want to find a really relaxed individual and one that is quite intuitive too so perhaps respectively these two signs may indeed suit me! Well I also think that I would appreciate the water characteristics as a Virgo moon but with mercury in cancer. The only thing is that I hope that they would have a sign which demonstrates more vitality, curiosity and mental ability as well and not be too well "hazy minded" I guess. But at the same time someone who is at least creative and imaginative I think would be ideal to stimulate each other 😊

Funnily enough though I may have dated someone with a Pisces add, but he was a cancer-gemini cusper with a libra moon, and also another gemini before him, and a short thing with a Scorpio too. So I think that I proabably attract water people at least.
Oh and also I meet a lot of Sag-Scorpios! (For friends though)

Sorry what is the 0 OOB?

Astro-Seek.com » Moon_Queen System message: Post has been written by user virgopiscescancer, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Can I ask similar question? I´ll be thankful :)

fishscales Being that you have Aries on the 7th house... Possibly Aries.

Sorry

Astro-Seek.com » virgopiscescancer System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Sure
Here we go

Moon - Taurus 6 degree; Mercury - Gemini 2 degree; Sun - Cancer 9 degree

This would result Sun Moon and Sun Mercury in Midpoint composite but I´m not sure for Davison (probably Sun trine Moon in Davison too)

Astro-Seek.com » Anna239 System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
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"Sorry what is the 0 OOB?"

OOB stands for "Out of Bounds Planets" and you have a lot about it in this tread.

https://forum.astro-seek.com/topic/…

I found out for OOB from that tread, made my own research, and it is quite important to consider them when analyzing natals and synastries.

Astro-Seek.com » Moon_Queen System message: Post has been written by user virgopiscescancer, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Thank you :) I thought that having Aquarius and Capricorn in 7th house matters.. I guess I have a lot to learn.

Astro-Seek.com » virgopiscescancer System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Well this is the method I´m developing based on my experience with synastries and composites where I realized that we are actually looking for people that have natal elements with the potential to harmonize our energies.

So, synastry Sun trine Moon and Moon trine Sun is always great, since it grants mutual acceptance on Mind-Heart relation and results conjuctions and trines in composite.

Sun and Moon are human energy core-pair and when you harmonize that, other elements have ability to adapt. When Sun and Moon are not harmonized, other elements are compensating and a lot of effort is needed...

All this is, of course, just my theory, so do not take it for grant.
It is just that I had to do it, since I was not resonating with classical ways of determining possible partner by looking at Venus, Mars, Sun, Saturn or whatever...positions. There is some truth there, for sure, but I never considered it as complete answer...

Anna239 » Moon_Queen Oh right I have heard of that, do I have any out of bound planets then?

Anna239 » fishscales Oh.. i dont know how I would deal with that honestly ☹ I hope I wouldn´t end up snapping and... Yes well. Depends on their energy really

I feel like I should find someone compatible with my other signs as well though, particularly my moon as that has a lot of influence I think. And Venus of course

Astro-Seek.com » Anna239 System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
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No, you do not have OOB planets.

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user nutelina, who already deleted profile on this website:
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How many did you try already?
What is the limit?
Is that many allowed?

Why can´t you just befriend a lot of boys and take time to get them to know well?

I think you might do what is natural for you according to astrology but how are you going to behave when that is not socially acceptable? Like in arab countries a boy cannot have a lot of female friends and just hang out with them. This is an extreme example of course but maybe it is not socially acceptable to have a big age difference, so you are going to chose someone with a Pluto like yours. But maybe someone with a different Pluto would be better for your growth.

Another, would you want to have ideal advice now and stick with the boy forever? What if he is not ready yet?

Or did you expect the Cosmo Politan answer?

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user David Evans, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Say assumption, Scorpio here


If you have to ask that question, probably should spend more time getting to know and love yourself, rather than getting lost in a maze of desire and loneliness. Love your own company first, then your future partner might just fit into to your then healthy lifestyle.

No harm meant, just saying things that should have been said to me while I was thinking that way, well they were, I was stubborn. Don´t make the same mistake.

Anna239 » David Evans Thank you for the advice, I didn´t interpret it in any other way than I assume you most likely intended! (Leo/libra trait ha) this is actually good advice, however I have reached a point in my life where I have actually become more comfortable with myself and want to focus on and know precisely what I want/and need and so I don´t know if I want to (inadvertantly or not) continue to wing it in relationships and hope for the best, rather then specifically knowing what I want and what I deserve. So that´s why I am asking this question, so I can really attempt to know what will help me advance as an individual through the support of another individual who´s qualities are only able to enhance those around them (however I do think that this has a lot to so with compatibility)
Also the other thing I have been wondering is whether what I "like" is actually good for me or whether I need something else (the reverse even)

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Fool, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I´m available for practice - very reasonable nightly rates.

Astro-Seek.com » Anna239 System message: Post has been written by user David Evans, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Honestly just let what happen happen. We try to hard to control our environment. Instead, let´s control ourselves.

If someone comes your way, then so be it, if not, then so be it.

From personal experience, such concerns where very poisonous to me. Now, without those concerns about the outside world, I ha e a peace of mind I could have never had before. A gift from the Divine Himself.