Most easy going and most difficult Mars + Venus combos? - Discussions, questions

Astro-Seek.com » Ladeeda System message: Post has been written by user Pol!UTiOn, who already deleted profile on this website:
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This is true, I can agree on the non-pushy for venus aquarius. Do not like to be pushed/coerced into anything, give others their freedom too. Also have aries merc but do suffer from the foot in mouth complex here.. Moon is to blame - the militant aries.

Also taurus moons with earth/water signs can work. progressed to this so can identify with the stabilizing effects of this moon. It doesn´t like upheavals so keeps hurts aside, unfortunately then tends to blow up randomly and even more exaggeratedly so balance is needed

I think venus cap/mars cap judge others less than themselves so easy to talk to.

For me houses and the sign on the house can play a huuuge role, for eg, mars in scorpio will feel quite nice and natural in the 8th house and if venus of the other in 7th in aries here he might mistake her for libra without knowing why/how the feels of scorpion passion is so strong, aries and scorpio don´t seem a good match but both are ruled by mars so this is not such an odd pair

Like gemini venus/mars and virgo mars/venus

Anni23 » Jer Aders No actually i would agree that being passive aggressive can stir up just as much shit. Being like "Oh I didn´t meant that, oh you´ve hurt my feelings" when something said wasn´t even directed at them personally 😂 so yeah obviously being relatively cool headed may be better to avoid conflict. I also meant that just being indifferent can look a lot like being passive aggressive, people need to sense that someone isn´t completely detached from a sense of emotional perception of a situation.

Anni23 » Ladeeda Yes I think synastry perhaps! I also get along particularly well with Sagittarius people which apparently isn´t something that should happen 😁

Jer Aders » rohini moon Maybe I´m looking for trouble

rohini moon » Jer Aders Not being very emotional I can learn from them how to be sensitive and they can learn from me how to control their emotions,feelings.


Be careful what you wish for.....

Jer Aders » Leo Moon I admire their feelings, emotions to situations,people,environment etc...

Not being very emotional I can learn from them how to be sensitive and they can learn from me how to control their emotions,feelings.

Compared to an air/earth dominant woman/girl who already control and seize their emotions, relation with fire or water dominant ones would be much enlightening, gaining insight in areas where I lack.Needless to say I´m lacking in water department most

I should stop now it´s off topic.

TimeLord » Anni23 Surprisingly your Mercury exactly Conjunct my Mercury. Strange. But you have tight Conjunct of Mars Moon in 12th Scorpio. That´s makes you different and better than me I guess.

TimeLord » Anni23 If we keep Mercury and Venus aside then only difference is Earth and Air Mars. May be you talk more down to earth compare to me. Which makes people to understand you more easily.

rohini moon I have Mars in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo....

Anni23 » TimeLord Well im not entirely sure how I would describe my communication style, I think some people might have their suspicions though 😅 (although everyone has their personal idiosyncracies so who´s an authority on such matters 😁)

Leo Moon » Jer Aders I have Mars in Libra in the first house and Venus in Aquarius 5th house.

I would say I am generally easy going. As regards my own behavior I can be absolutely stubborn if I feel strongly about it.

People seem a bit taken aback by my insistence. I think they feel it is uncharacteristic, but it’s perfectly consistent to me.

This usually involves an intellectual idea or creative choice. It’s usually not about emotions .

Interesting that You like Cancer woman Jer Aders.
I like them as friends but not as romantic partners.

Too sensitive and emotional for me. Though I am sure there is an individual I could get along with.

RunnerChic85 I’ll throw myself out there. Mars in Leo and Venus in Cancer. I’d say my overall interaction style is a little reserved at first, but once people get to know me, they say I come off as warm and bubbly.

I also have a tendency to bottle things, avoid things that bother me for a long time, hoping they going away, since I don’t like conflict, and then there will be the straw that broke the camel’s back, and I’ll lose my temper and catch people by surprise.

Husband has Mars in Gemini and Venus in Aries. People have mentioned he comes off as strong, sometimes arrogant, but I know deep down he’s actually not, he’s hiding a lot of insecurities, and trying to convince himself and others he’s got it all together.

Jer Aders » N_thecat So you´re saying I should stay away from them.Thanks for the advice.

I like cancer people though especially girls.I think we can balance out each other.

They are sensitive, emotional.
Me not so much.

Yin and yang.

N_thecat » Jer Aders Mars in Cancer is absolutely one of the worst Mars placements...I hate that, try to deal with Mars in poeple...I wish you luck.

Milami Venus in gemini, mars in aries here Easy for communication, but Im a loner actually

zarko22 » Anni23 Mars in Cancer is Mars in fall.Bad elementary quality,or NO quality.The worst option.
Contrary of it,ASC ruler in domicile or exaltation is the best choice.

zarko22 » dani_mae1 I agree with your Mars choices,Taurus,Cancer,and Libra too are bad,no doubt.
But,first factor which makes someone BAD is,in my oppinion,ruler ASC in detriment or fall.I know another factor but because I came from traditional side,better to keep quite.

Astro-Seek.com » Anni23 System message: Post has been written by user Ladeeda, who already deleted profile on this website:
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"Also 2 & possibly 3 in the first
list I would have thought to be a bit more difficult"

For #2, she is considerably older. So I attribute that maturity.

As for #3, I´m not sure. Maybe the fact that those placements are in water houses? Not sure. Or it would have something to do with synastry between me and them and that´s how I see them; that their interactions with me are just easy.

Astro-Seek.com » Anni23 System message: Post has been written by user Ladeeda, who already deleted profile on this website:
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"Hmmm Pisces Venus and mars and Taurus mercury seems really easy going!? Although maybe I don´t understand Taurus people enough, but still with all that Pisces energy."

Nope. Easy going, I am not. Like I said, I try to be and I´m good at looking as though I am.

If I really come off as easy going, it´s because it´s actually indifference.

Jer Aders » Anni23 It´s just my two cents.

Mars in cancer is passive-aggressive nearly harmless like you said but more favorable placements exists like scorpio,aries,leo.
Generally either fire or air sign is more suitable for mars(scorpio is exception).
Out of these cancer neither fit nor belong to mars.

Yes you have point,being calculated and cool headed is not always good.
Time to time we need to take action.
Otherwise our lives would feel like passengers in a train.

TimeLord » Anni23 So do you have same communication style as me ? 🤔 People think you are a Alien ?

Anni23 » Ladeeda Hmmm Pisces Venus and mars and Taurus mercury seems really easy going!? Although maybe I don´t understand Taurus people enough, but still with all that Pisces energy.

Also 2 & possibly 3 in the first
list I would have thought to be a bit more difficult

Anni23 » Anikey Well just what are good mars and Venus signs or somewhat problematic ones. Hehehe my mars is in Virgo too, but I´m not sure if I´m so nit picking.. maybe that´s because of my libra ascendant.

Anni23 » Jer Aders Why mars in cancer..? Apart from being passive and completely avoidant 😅

Also "calculated and cool" can be good but maybe not if it´s being either passive or emotionally detached

Anni23 » TimeLord Ahahaha my Venus is in gemini and my mercury in cancer 😂