Why i´am stuck on this guy?

May 12, 2019 at 08:30 (UT/GMT)
(Taurus) MaryJos
Why i´am stuck on this guy?
Morning ?
About a year i meet this guy and the energy between us is great (I tink) but its an on/off thing.
Every time we cut communications I try to move forward and give him the "respect" he deserves but... I can´t!
This to me doesn´t look like an obsessive relationship so what´s going on there?
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May 28, 2019 at 18:41
(Capricorn) ShriSaiganeshE-jyotish » MaryJos
Appreciate the prompt ack.

Moon virgo corrected.regret error. Moons gemini-virgo same lord mer compatible.

Vedic emphasises beginning with moon signs for emotional compatibility and then the asc signs, reviewing the 9th harmonics too,

while exactly begins with moon nakshatra/constellation compatibility - hindus try remember their moon signs and moon nakshatras. An very elaborate methodology by itself.

Any comments/feedbacks on the compatibility factors mentioned, the insights.


wishing well, kshantaram
May 28, 2019 at 05:56
(Taurus) MaryJos » ShriSaiganeshE-jyotish
Morning
All insights are helpful!

Vedic point of view rigth?

The only thing that´s off is the moon sign... is a Virgo! And I always thought that gemini moon did not go along whith gemini moon.
May 28, 2019 at 03:38
(Capricorn) ShriSaiganeshE-jyotish
in case helps understand the relationship better,

moons gemini-virgo, square, same lord mer, challenge but compatible;

ascendants libra-scorpio, lords venus-mars, mere attractions;

suns taurus-pisces, 3/11, unfriendly lords jup-venus,
merely friendly and dutiful sans personal charm;
pisces sensitive-ethical-spiritual etc
taurus creative-energetic-stubborn, love of food-comforts;

both charts lords 1/7 mars-venus inclined to relationship by mere attractions,
placed 6/8 from each other, unfriendly signs,
prone to severe conflict in a relationship/marriage;


leo-sun inimical-malefic for libra asc,
sun taurus 7th seeking well-to-do spouse,
but under stress-delay, and separative tendencies;


asc libra compatible with asc libra, taurus, gemini, virgo,

sun taurus compatible with sun taurus, gemini, virgo, libra,

moon gemini compatible with moons gemini, taurus, leo, virgo, libra,


hope helps, do share feedbacks and comments how true-insightful-helpful,


wishing well, kshantaram
May 27, 2019 at 15:54
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
It sounds like you are well on your way to working with your Pluto energy in a positive way. Good for you.

:160::15: :74:
May 27, 2019 at 15:50
(Taurus) MaryJos » Fishermansend
Yes I understood were your question come from.
Either way what do you read on your interpretation:

"his DC really exactly on your 8th house cusp ? True that you put your 8th house chiron and your 8th house moon on his DC and in his 7th house ?

And vice versa he his 11th house libra pluto on your AC and his opp. 5th house aries venus in your 7th house /DC?"

What does it mean to you?
May 27, 2019 at 15:44
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
For sure!

And in this case, rigth from the beginning i felt that it´s going to turn out like this. But I took the ride! I enjoy life! To life it and feel it!

You now this Pluto thing on the Ascendant.. it´s real! I guarantee that every single last 2 years relationship I had this aspect with Pluto on my ascendat... and all of them help me change some kind of feature of my "ascendant" in diferent waya... whith this guy and is higth standard I turn out to have a more healthy approach whith my body.
Good for me!!!! Yeeeee!!

All down sides have a helpful one!

And this package...I accepted has it was! It´s life!

As we love to read as "This to shall pass" ;)

Tanks again for the words
May 27, 2019 at 14:09
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » MaryJos
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...You make it sound like a sadic disaster! It´s realy that bad?...

No- It was just a question.


I asked it - because a lot of people ask to comment a synastry not telling that birthtime is not known and estimated....then all info given based on houses and moon is for the garbet.
May 27, 2019 at 12:40
(Pisces) fishscales » fishscales
We need to learn to accept what life is giving us...sometimes the lessons we need to learn come packaged in a box with really crappy wrapping paper
May 27, 2019 at 11:20
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
Wise words, MaryJos. :83:

Actually, more like a wise attitude. Even more important. :83:
May 27, 2019 at 07:14
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Indeed!
Even if those days go along with some tears.
May 27, 2019 at 03:08
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
Well regardless of how it all ends up, here´s a good thing to keep in mind...

"These are the days that must happen to you." -- Walt Whitman
May 26, 2019 at 18:41
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Unfortunately no! We are in an off period... maybe definitely!
May 26, 2019 at 18:40
(Taurus) MaryJos » Fishermansend
Hei tanks for the review ?
And yes is birth time is accurate.
All your insigths are accurate too about the on/off situation mostly by gaps in timing due to professional or family situation.

And we do take time out from one another... like "yes I like you but go away so I can miss you"... stupid thing! ?? And normaly our discussion are more like agree to desagre. I do conform with some of his actions/statments even if it cut deeply inside I don´t now why!

But why you question the accuracy of his birth time?

"really exactly on your 8th house cusp ? True that you put your 8th house chiron and your 8th house moon on his DC and in his 7th house ?

And vice versa he his 11th house libra pluto on your AC and his opp. 5th house aries venus in your 7th house /DC?"

You make it sound like a sadic disaster! It´s realy that bad?

And I notice that my sun/moon midpoint is on his DSC... by declination my moon "conjunct" his DSC and his sun/moon midpoint is on/close to my Moon (squaring is sun and moon). Our 8th house rulers also conjunct... its relevant?????
May 20, 2019 at 00:22
(Pisces) fishscales
Any update on the situation MaryJos?
May 19, 2019 at 00:33
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com
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Hi MaryJos,

is his birthtime accurate and his DC really exactly on your 8th house cusp ? True that you put your 8th house chiron and your 8th house moon on his DC and in his 7th house ?

And vice versa he his 11th house libra pluto on your AC and his opp. 5th house aries venus in your 7th house /DC?

Pluto in 11th house brings uranus/pluto meaning along and likes to step out and to step in / on/off - in love affairs not able to always stand in physical near. His neptune cusp your 3rd house likes to "disappear" and to take a time out, if discussions get to much and too concrete for him and he feels overwhelmed with his 2nd house neptune. His neptune is squared by your 8th house venus coming venus/pluto meaning along with.

Double venus pluto on AC is physical uncontrollable attraction isn´t always obsessive but a passionate and a longlasting special energy and can lead into a longlasting game both parts subconsciously like to play till it is
"thru".
May 12, 2019 at 14:06
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
No it doesn´t matter.
May 12, 2019 at 14:03
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Ahahhaj
My English sucks!
In this case is a guy but no its not important the gender. I mean in general.
It matters in your opinion if there are no aspects to the ASC like this one for ex.
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May 12, 2019 at 13:58
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
"Tell me something... about the ASC point. What you said is resonable ande in the case when a all the guy planets dosent aspect de female ASC.
What do you think?"

Not sure what you mean here. In my other post, I said that (in my opinion at least) it is not absolutely essential for one partner´s personal planets to aspect the other partner´s ASC to have a good relationship. It also doesn´t matter if the planet or ASC person is male or female, if that´s what you were asking.
May 12, 2019 at 13:52
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
"This too shall pass" is one of my favorite sayings in life. :15:

Helps cultivate non-attachment to both the bad things and the good.
May 12, 2019 at 13:29
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Tell me something... about the ASC point. What you said is resonable ande in the case when a all the guy planets dosent aspect de female ASC.
What do you think?
May 12, 2019 at 13:26
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Yes! All you said make sence and I told that to my self every day ☺
This to will pass!
May 12, 2019 at 13:19
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
Unfortunately, I´m looking at this on a phone, and when I zoom in, I can´t make out the aspects, because they´re too blurry. (Computer AND tablet broke. :10:)

But it´s just as well, because I think this problem goes beyond astrology.

"I realy don´t not now why we stop to speak with each other.
It´s a realy higth sexual energy between us but also very kind of friend/siblings... normally we share every single thing about us (to mutch info sometimes) and we cut..."

You need to figure out why this is happening. Not by looking at synastry charts, but by looking at yourself, him, and the relationship.

"And when he decide to open the communication view again... I can not repress the wish to speak and meet him again."

Why is he the one who decides when communication is going to begin again? Is he also the one that cuts it off? If not communicating is something you are both not in agreement about, you have a right to:

1. Know why communication is being cut off

2. Tell him how you feel about communication being cut off.

Maybe you are already doing these things, maybe not...I don´t know. Or maybe cutting off communication is something you mutually agree upon. If so, you need to ask yourself: even if cutting off communication is something you agree to, is it something that you WANT? Is it something you can accept? If not, you have some work to do deciding how to move forward.

You said something about "respecting" his wishes to not communicate in your original post.

You´ve got to have respect for what you want out of this relationship too, whether it´s romantic, just friendship, etc. Any kind of relationship is a two way street. When only one person is calling the shots, it´s not really a relationship, it´s a dictatorship.

"I was counting that you could figure it out for me???"

You seem like a sweet girl, and I´d like to help. I may be able to point out some astrological tidbits of information, or give you some advice, but you are the one living your reality. In the end, you are the only one who can really figure this out right? :3:
May 12, 2019 at 12:50
(Pisces) fishscales » MaryJos
"And this is tricky because almost all astrologers say that you must have personal planets aspecting this point"

I don´t know about MUST. And it depends on the aspect. For example, I would rather have someone´s sun not aspect my ASC at all than square it. A positive aspect from a personal planet to the ASC is nice, but I would not consider it absolutely essential to a relationship.

"so in all cases normally my guys do have to deal with my strong Pluto rigth?"

If there is such an aspect to your ASC and Pluto, yes... But again, the aspect itself is important. I´d consider someone´s Venus trining your ASC and Pluto, for example, a good aspect in a synastry: a romance that is deep, intense, and passionate, but in a smooth, positive way. And a powerful, free flowing physical attraction as well, which is of course always good. :3:



"? my DSC conjunct his Venus"

Yup, I somehow missed that one.

But you need to examine why those breaks in communication are happening to determine whether those positive aspects are ultimately worth discussing or not. The real life circumstances of the relationship need to be examined and understood before the astrology.
May 12, 2019 at 12:47
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
"It would be easier to tell more with an aspect chart.

Can I ask why it´s an on/off thing?

Why do you cut communications with eachother? Do you mean entirely?"


I realy don´t not now why we stop to speak with each other.
It´s a realy higth sexual energy between us but also very kind of friend/siblings... normally we share every single thing about us (to mutch info sometimes) and we cut...

And when he decide to open the communication view again... I can not repress the wish to speak and meet him again...

I was counting that you could figure it out for me???
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May 12, 2019 at 12:30
(Taurus) MaryJos » fishscales
Hi DManos...

Almost all relationship i have been in had Pluto aspecting my ascendant... and I have pluto in my 1st conjunct my ascendant to. And this is tricky because almost all astrologers say that you must have personal planets aspecting this point.. to last and meaningfulness... so in all cases normally my guys do have to deal with my strong Pluto rigth?

And yes...

? my Venus conjunt His Mercury (and Sun) 5th to 4th overlay

? my mercury=chiron=sun/moon midpoint conjunct is DSC

? my DSC conjunct his Venus

? my Moon in his 7th conjunct his POF and I tink also is sun/moon midpoint... and my POF is ASC
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