Everyone’s afraid of me. - Discussions, questions

VictorValentino I’m a Scorpio rising, Pluto in 1st house as well. The mind is powerful, don’t go into a situation thinking that people are going to hate you cause then you’ll put too much energy and focus into that. As difficult as it may seem, just go into every situation being yourself and you’ll attract people with matching energy. This world is definitely changing but you don’t have to.
We’re all fighting our own battles, so don’t beat yourself up, just notice your surroundings and remember that the only person you can control is yourself. So don’t let the mindset of others bring you down. You can’t force someone to change their way of thinking or make them understand yours.
It all starts with you giving yourself credit for the growth you’ve made and realizing that you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone besides YOURSELF.
I’m not sure if this is a Scorpio rising and Pluto in 1st house thing but I know at times WE are our OWN worst enemy…but we can also be our OWN best friend..cause after all, no one knows you like you know you..you know? Haha, but give yourself credit, put yourself out there and go places you’ve never been..you got this.

blueyes » FuzzBass Transit Saturn in the 3rd house, is also square Transit Uranus which is conjunct your 7th house cusp. transit Uranus opposes natal Venus indicating a sudden break up in relationships. Pluto in 1st - you have an aura of authority that keeps everyone wary,
You need to relax and go with the flow, not try to control everything.

Aren Levi » FuzzBass ( Vedic libraaaaaaaa )

Aren Levi then you open your vedic chart and realize you are Heavy Libra 1st house ( probably good looking )

with Sun and Mecury 2nd house in scorp ( all the senses of surrrounded world made in way of scorpio energy - self esteem connected to that energy )

i actually see 2nd house as pathway to other - more strong version of ourselfs so i would say you got that scorp a lot

i would say people are "affraid" cause of that Rahu in aqua 5th house

AmberMoon » FuzzBass The advice to kill with (some) friendliness sounds good.

I have a Pluto transit going on there now and with Sag. rising I feel it exaggerates whatever is in that H1 now.

Noticing some similar effects:
- positive aggression 😁 - does that even exist- but just very fiery enthusiasm and the room goes quite and people just agree because they don´t want trouble.
- or another possibility: people picking up (non-existing) cues 👀: uh...🙄 no, I´m not hitting on you, I´m actually authentically passionate about my message.
- and being noticed, which is a very good incentive to stick to the rules 😄.

Sunnyshadow » goldenlion32 I´ve been looking at that placement more lately, and there is alot that can be said about it, for sure. Alot of painful experiences but alot of depth to be gained from it is my overall impression.

FuzzBass » rohini moon Lol you’re not wrong.

rohini moon "Everyone´s afraid of me"

Eh.. a great chunk of society are wusses.

FuzzBass » OS* Makes sense.

FuzzBass » brookirenee Yes it is.

FuzzBass » brookirenee It’s suspicious nature of others and even ourselves that does us in.

OS* » FuzzBass In your 4th house

Astro-Seek.com » FuzzBass System message: Post has been written by user brookirenee, who already deleted profile on this website:
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hm well I don’t know much about house placements but I have 8th house placements personally isn’t that ruled by Scorpio ?

FuzzBass » blueyes In which houses?

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Omg same I used to literally get so mad I would hit things while alone and like scream into pillows but now I have learned to control my anger a bit better. Fire sign children are terrible 😭. But regardless of what others say, I like plutonians. Scorpio placements are funny as hell. I have never met a Scorpio placement that isn’t a good time. I do think Scorpio placements self sabotage sometimes tho.

FuzzBass » brookirenee Yes, when I was younger, my temper was classically Sagittarius. When provoked I would flare and tell people of any wrong doing on their part then a few hours later I would forgive them like nothing happened. Now days that I’m older and wiser I’ve learned to utilize my Scorpio Plutonian qualities by being more reserved and even tempered; I can make my point just by expressing my disapproval. Yes I know this contradicts my earlier sentiments about my rising sign, but my ascendant trines my north node while my sun squares it. I find the more I become aware of my Plutonian qualities, the more I grow.

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But maybe not always for negative reasons. Maybe that aspect could attract someone similar (: You have an Aries mars I’m extremely jealous of that placement. Do you have a bad temper ?

FuzzBass » brookirenee I too find people respond to me better if I stay in the back ground and approach carefully. I’ve come to the realization that having Pluto in the 1st house with a Scorpio rising, one does not need to do anything to get attention: People will notice you anyways. It’s interesting what you’ve said about my moon squaring my rising ascendant as a friend once told me that my body language looks closed but my personality is open.

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You have so much fire sign energy in your chart you must intimidate people. Try initiating and show that you are friendly. Also I find it interesting that your ascendant squares your moon. That might physically manifest as your emotions not matching how you come off to people. You may feel the need to be the center of attention but you don’t really come off that way or at least that’s my interpretation. As a fellow fire dominant individual I too feel like everyone hates me, they are just scared of me it’s ok. 🙄 I too would be scared of a triple Aries woman

goldenlion32 » Sunnyshadow Ha ha! I don´t even think people in general realize how much wounding is there in the 8th house with Chiron and they go around complaining about it all and we´re probably the one´s who tell people suck it up cupcake, you dish out to us. Although, I have Pisces and Aries in Chiron. It has it´s perks having it there for wisdom, but then not so fun going through it.

Sunnyshadow I can relate. You should also read up on chiron 8th. And try to kill people with kindness anyway

blueyes Transit Saturn has been opposite your moon and squaring venus.... give it some time.

FuzzBass » V111 And what’s your conclusion?

FuzzBass » cubic I care not to win. All I want is peace.

cubic Brah

Don´t be a defensive pariah

Start hitting back

Go rogue

Who cares about these helpless mortals?

If you win you win - then you´re right