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rohinivenus » Datta108 Thank you so much, the screen name is not to imply that my Venus Nakshatra Rohini, my moon Nakshatra is Rohini, and my ascendant Nakshatra is purva ashada, which is ruled by Venus.

My moon is ruled by Venus being in taurus- my nakshatra is ruled by moon.

My rising is ruled by jupiter in sag- my Nakshatra is ruled by venus

My sun is ruled by moon- my nakshatra is ruled saturn

So feeling very in tune with my moon Nakshatra I picked rohini and seeing Venus having a strong impact on my big three through sign rulership or nakshatra rulership- I picked Venus as part of my screen name.

I understand Venus qualities alot and if I remember correctly Venus is also my atmakaraka...my planet with the highest degree.

Also do you know of any remedies for ketu Dasha, or are the remedies based on the individual charts more than general?

rohinivenus » Datta108 Thank you so much. I will try to incorporate much of this. So just a quick question, with Saturn being in my 12th house, I know 12th house is losses among other things. With the 2nd and 3rd houses being ruled by Saturn and my Saturn being retrograde, I´m concerned Saturn dasa is going to be rough similar to the past few years, I do know Saturn rewards hard work after the fact and that it provides stability and commitment like no other but due to how Saturn as affected me, I´m concerned that my Saturn Dasa is going to be hard especially because of the houses involved. 2nd house being income, which I always struggled with and 3rd house being community but also communication and strength of the 1sr and 2nd house, I know the 3rd house is very important and can ground a person thru hard times. I struggle with career and making money, I worry that Saturn dasa is going to basically be a hard time period. I´d love to try to find the positives maybe you have a better understanding.

rohinivenus » Datta108 Ist child and marriage in rahu moon

rohinivenus » Datta108 I just wondered, I got married in 2010, had my 1sr daughter that year as well, my other 3 children were born during Jupiter dasa,

rohinivenus » Uttarafiyaguni This might be a dumb question, but where would I find them? My husband is in ketu Dasha, currently ketu rahu, it´s been ALOT. I think he could benefit from trying a remedy. Ketu rahu as honestly been about as rough as ketu ketu, could you look at his chart?

rohinivenus » Aragatito I´d really appreciate it!I´m trying hard to not give in to my feelings of dispair

rohinivenus » Datta108 thank you I do tropical and vedic, and vedic truly spells out my life. you are 100% correct April 2019 to May 2020- issues with my dad, affair in my marriage, House vandalized, miscarriage, husband had covid almost hospitalized.

what upaya´s should I do?

Interesting abou 9th house, I was trying to go back to school to finish, but I"ve hit a snag in being able to pay for it....

rohinivenus » rohinivenus Just an update. I´ve been thinking about the energy and issues. The situation with my parents feel like a black hole. Between the both of them, they suck all the energy and life and happiness and it seems like they suck reality into their own warped perception of it. My dad is ridged and wants everything to be so cut dry and clinical, but he says really negative stuff doesn´t know how to apologize and or doesn´t think he needs to( he has Pluto in his 2nd house- moon in his 1st house in leo) his sun in in libra, so already asc and moon in Leo, sun libra, fire and air,his mouth can destroy things and that is exactly what has happened here. He has poisoned me his daughter and any future relationship. My mom on the other hand, can be smothering and I feel attempts to control me for the goal of trying to keep the status quo yet she is also thrown back from my dad´s statements. She doesn´t have a problem with the living arrangement...which in short....my dad offered for us to move out here and stay here till we got our own place. My husband had a job lined up but it didn´t work out. From there it has been 3 months and my husband has a job now. But my dad basically finds it unacceptable that he didn´t find a job sooner, and basically said he thinks we are using him and also that my husband wasnt looking for a job.my dad is very self oriented, moon in first house) he literally said he has made people give him a job...anyway...my mom is scared that my dad is going basically ruin things but she for a long time has made excuses and just prayed on my dad´s better nature. The huge back fire of this, is that it appears she is trying to always warn people about my dad and is bad habits but always wants others to be forgiving of him while he is learning....as if he is not causing any damage or hurt, like he´s the only person learning and living at the same time. I have felt brainwashed in the past because it felt like my mom wanted me to walk on egg shells and just always be concerned about how my dad will take things.my mom has other issues as well but a small example of the unhealthy environment I was raised in that still persist is, my 11 year old got her report card, the grading system was confusing, it was words like above proficiency, proficient, basic, minimal, then MINIMAL, then needs to improve. You can´t put a b or c in place of these words and my daughter got mostly proficient and some basics. I told my daughter she did good, later my mom told me she ´hid´ my daughters report card under my pillow, I said why, she said because she can´t explain to my dad what the grades mean.
So she acts like it is a huge problem that he won´t understand it
The hiding things is showing another like she´d rather go out of her way to hide shit than tell my dad she doesn´t know?

On a separate note my dad feels like he´s always the bad guy, well my mom treatable him like he is based off his actions and he does BAD guy shit...

My dad told me never to come back, he also said he would be find if he never saw my kids again. Weeks later he said I know I said some harsh shit, but we can start over, yay no, I´m not continuing this cycle.

The main thing I´m proud of myself for is he can´t claim I yelled at him or cursed him out.

My mom can talk for hours about about my dad and how much he has grown and it feel like that is her whole life´s purpose, she has made me feel like my focus should be my dad and our relationship and making it better, she obsessively can´t help it and we have an easier relationship but it´s like I have to unstick her from me. And the black hole energy is it feel like when there is any issue...it´s like to my parents nothing else exists. And my dad is ridged in what he talks about or thinks with me and my mom solely focuses on what we need to say to my dad or do so that my dad can feel better....all this at a time when many people have rental issues and job issues but my dad is acting like that has nothing to do with us having a problem getting a job and a rental...it´s like he willfully doesn´t want any of that to matter because I guess it´s easier to process it as our personal failure vs a larger system failure that is out of our control. To be honest I really don´t give a crap what his exact problem is, I just know it´s not right to have the attitude that you can say whatever you want because it´s ´your house´ and for sure you tell me having a relationship with my kids is something you don´t need, by telling me that you could get over never seeing them again....why would I have my kids engage in a relationship with some one who is indifferent to having them in their lives like that? Also my dad acts like I´m going to hurt and take him for granted...yet wants to offer help...then turn around and act like he was forced to do some shit...

I´m super over it

rohinivenus » rohini moon He´s older by 1 year. But very much my friend.

rohinivenus » rohini moon Yep got married in 2010, had 1st child in 2010.

I resent my parents.

Funny thing is my husband used to call me his best friend and I hated it but I told him he was right and he is my best friend.

rohinivenus » rohini moon I had a baby in December, 10 days before he was born I got in a car crash that totalled the vehicle. That was the start of our financial situation going to crap. My son, our 4th child, is my rainbow baby and I´m so happy with him, but the reality is just harsh. My dad asked multiple times about us coming out to Stay with him and my mom to help, I turned him down but by February things were still horrible, we had just moved to a new city in a state far from home, and we had been unable to find a rental so we were in a hotel from ok m November of 2021 thru the car accident and birth, and by February we planned to move back and Starr over. But that didn´t go as planned because my husband couldn´t get a job out here, he had one sort of promised to him but it didn´t pan out and he just started working 3 days ago. My dad who invites us out here started talking like I was using him and that I´ve taken over his house. I seriously hate my life right now and I can´t see anything positive coming from this experience. I get anxiety when my dad comes home, I hate myself for bringing my family here, I hate myself for listening to my mom and even my grandmother for coming here thinking it was best for the kids, getting them out of the hotel, this is all bullshit.

Don´t get me started on the marriage because now dh said he´s trying not to resent me for us coming here, but I feel like he is conviently forgetting the issues we had due to the affair and kid he had. Sooooòo I´m really close to being done with all this shit. I felt like we did heal from the affair but honestly just feel like I´m tired of the people in my life learning lesson on me while hurting me and I guess I´m supposed to just be understanding. Seriously feel like I´ve missed the mark or something

rohinivenus » JessSezItSoftly I´m spent and to quote Supernatural, " sometimes the bus just wants to go off the rails" seriously ketu in my 9th, and Pluto on my MD I´ve accepted a long time ago something was just off and missing regarding my relationship with my dad.my mom, I hadn´t analyzed the relationship from my tropical but in vedic my moon being in the 6th house gave it all these issues. My mom is smothering very imposing and it has taken a lot for her to ´realize´ certain issues with my dad are not my doing.

rohinivenus » Hermetic Dreamer Thank you for your time. I´ve had a rough past few years and naively I just wanted to believe that this year would just be a bit smoother. But nay, car crash, unemployment, homelessness, birth of a child, a miscarriage before that, marital issues. I mean....I almost a t feel like it´s no point to reading my chart, it´s just a shit show

rohinivenus » moongirl1 your venus aries is in your 11th house, so amoung your peers you may come off as agressive and forward but venus aries can still be beautiful and fully feminine. Rihanna has venus in aries in her 1st house.

you have jupiter and moon in your 1st house, Jupiter is masculine and larger than life, but with moon in 1st house and the ruler of your 2nd house...I dont think you have a problem accessing your feminine properties

rohinivenus » Astro-Seek.com Right, would you imagine it will effect the karaka of the house? or the karaka of the planet? moon represents mom- so with sade sati already being in progress, and this person just entered a moon dasha...so I really wonder if this is strong emotional mind, situation, or more towards the moon, ie the mother?

rohinivenus » Deermaiden asteroid Nessus on the personal planets. According to people who have don lot of research on Nessus, it´s not always clear if chart is that of an abuser or an abused person

rohinivenus » zarko22 This is my transit chart the day I found out I was pregnant

rohinivenus » zarko22 Interesting, I recently started trying to learn Horary astrology. I dont know if you could do anything for me, I have 3 children I was pregnant with a 4th, had a miscarriage so there would be no way to confirm the gender. I felt like it was a girl, but then I´d had constant dreams of a baby boy after my miscarriage. What do you look for besides the knowledge of masculine and feminine signs?

I have 3 children 2 girls and 1 boy in that order, they do correlate to the 1st child- 5th house, 2nd child- 7th house, 3rd child-9th house, my 11th house, which would represent my 4th child, is in scorpio with pluto in it.

rohinivenus » SoMarie your chart is a bit similar to mine, and my saturn is retrograde too....I just realized last night.

I had my Saturn retrograde in my 12th house, in sag. as soon as that finished, Saturn transited my 1st house. So instead of a 2 1/2 year Saturn return, and then a break from Saturn´s influences, I jumped from my Saturn retrograde straight into Saturn transit to my 1st house which takes another 2 1/2 years to finish. Then Pluto is not leaving Capricorn till January 2024... then add jupiter entering my 1st house while all this pluto and saturn are in my 1st house....

I´m uber over it...I just sat up last night correlating dates where jacked up stuff happened to me, with which planet was running across my ASC...I think my Saturn transit 1st house, was worse than my Saturn return. But I realize the past 4 years just run together with me being a freaking raw nerve at this point. I have no planets in my 2nd house and I cant wait for Saturn and Jupiter to leave my 1st house...and then distance themselves from each other, Pluto is still in my 1st and maybe with Saturn leaving Pluto wont be so hard, these 3 planets ganged up on me so hard, granted I know others have run past these transits worse than me...but in a nutshell, broken bones, damn near broken marriage, miscarriage, identity crisis, all to work to find a build myself up again...all to have it undone and me to feel like I have to repeat the whole damn process................I also have Neptune in my 1st house, that squares my nodes, so it´s been a psychic nightmare, my belief system feels like it´s been torn down, my belief in myself, I think I´m nuts, then no, I´m actually aware of reality everyone else is nuts.

honestly I was thinking I must have failed my Saturn transit because I didn´t get any ´gifts´ when it was over, then I realized that I entered another earth shattering transit that doesnt seem to give a f*ck that I just did saturn work! then I realized that Pluto played a big part and jupiter didnt come through and help me...it appears jupiter being so close to saturn just aided in my misery.

rohinivenus » Castlewallsxo where can you find them...
Jupiter is in the 6th house, you will find them in your life due to your daily routine. might meet them while you are out running errands, or working out at the gym, 6th house is your daily habits, and daily grind. 6th house also has heath implications and where you serve or sacrifice to help others. so possibly meeting them somewhere you go to expand on taking care of yourself or others, like if you volunteer, participate in any group therapy or maybe you both end up in physical therapy. Something like that

what are they like- charismatic, a lot of fire energy, with earth elements, stable, nurturing, Venus energy- very handsome, beautiful, ease in getting along with people, a people person with leadership skills, tiny bit of ego but majority interested in helping people.