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Datta108 » rohinivenus Ahh I see ok, the moon´s Nakshatra is probably the most important Nakshatra in the chart btw...

Usually in Ketu Dasa the first and foremost Upaya is worship of Lord Ganesha, particularly on Fridays. If the person can offer sincere worship to an image of Ganesha and avoid intoxicants, gambling, smoking,meat eating,lying,cheating etc..He can control Ketu to a great extent. Try to offer something sweet for the worship and then after the worship distribute the food to other´s and take some yourself as God´s mercy🙏🕉🌻

Datta108 » rohinivenus Also,your Venus is placed in the Nakshatra Punarvasu (ruled by Jupiter your lagna lord) not Rohini in Jyotish, unless you´re using a different system 🙏🕉

Datta108 » rohinivenus You´re welcome anytime!!🙏
Saturn gives Everyone a hard time in most of his transits not just you!!!
So I don´t necessarily agree that a Maha Dasa can be determined by that Graha´s transit results generally speaking.
And Saturn dasa is Years away,why even concern oneself with these things,better to incorporate the Upaya´s into your life now so in the future you´ll be already prepared for whatever your karma brings you.
As they say,one is who is always worried about the future will have anxiety just as one who is always thinking of the past can have depression, better to Be Here Now as the saying goes.
Saturn will give his results based on your past actions so everything in the future will improve if you´re making a spiritual effort now.
Blessings to you and your family 🙏🕉⚘

Datta108 » rohinivenus Also,try to Avoid initiating major life events on Saturdays ( like beginning long distance travel, moving to a different home, starting a new course of study etc..)
Thursdays is most likely your best day generally speaking since you have Sagittarius Rising and you are running Jupiter Maha dasa,plus Jupiter is well placed in Aries in the 5th house where he aspects his own Rising sign.🙏🕉🌻

Datta108 » rohinivenus In terms of Upaya´s, there are innumerable amounts you can do,in my spiritual mentors lineage here are the ones that are typically done:

For Saturn issues (which is your current and ongoing problem) you can donate Sesame oil on Saturdays to a food kitchen or food bank or temple besides rice and Urad dal(Black Lentils)
Fasting on Saturdays until sunset only having water and fruit during the daylight hours.
Visit a holy place on Saturdays and offer prayers and a few coins
Avoid wearing Black,dark blue color

These remedial measures should be done as much as possible until March 2025.

From March 2025 you can do two remedies if you have the time,one for Jupiter and the other for Mars, who is debilitated.

For Jupiter since he is your Lagna lord and you´re running his dasa( til 2028) you can visit a holy place on Thursdays and offer prayers and some coins and food,wear yellow clothes as much as possible, wear a Yellow sapphire or Yellow Topaz gemstones,Fast on Thursdays til sunset.

For Mars you can wear a Red coral necklace and wear Red color clothes and donate Maasor Dal(Red Lentils ) on a Tuesday to the poor/food kitchen/temple.
Wear Red color too as well as Gold,Maroon and burgundy.
You can listen to the "Hanuman Chalisa" on Tuesdays or read it.

Mantra´s to the Nava Grahas can be done too particularly for Saturn Jupiter and Mars.

Jupiter dasa ends in 2028 and Saturn Dasa starts,Saturn is lord of the 2nd and 3rd houses for Sagittarius Rising and you have Saturn placed in the 12th house.
Restart the remedies I listed above when Saturn dasa starts as he may bring sustained hard work, heavy responsibilities and some losses during his dasa. Sincere prayers and dedication to spiritual life will help you as Sagittarius Rising with Jupiter placed in the 5th is a powerful placement for "divine intervention " and God´s grace🙏🕉⚘

Uğur Kr. » rohinivenus happy birthday

Datta108 » rohinivenus Did you marry and have first child during Rahu dasa/Jupiter Bhukti???


I will look at your chart again today and suggest some Upaya´s for you🙏🕉

Uttarafiyaguni » rohinivenus Since you follow Vedic, have you looked into your Dashas and trying out remedies for the planets of the Dashas you´re under? There´s certain meditation mantras that people say help them through a rough period. So since you´re in your 5H Jupiter mahadasha, (which is in 5H, Ashwini and the 5H lord debilitated Cancer Pushya Mars is in 8H) try out the Jupiter, Mars, Ashwini and Pushya mantra? I´m in my Rahu Mahadasha right now, whilst I haven´t done that one, I tried out my Moon´s (12H Rahu conjunct my Moon) and I did notice the positive effects of the 12H coming in afterwards. I´m thinking your problems are definitely related to the placements I pointed out if we´re talking astrology, so do look into those placements even if you don´t do any mantras.

walterbenjamin » rohinivenus Happy birthday!¡!

Aragatito » rohinivenus happy birthday ❤️ i understand the most important thing is that have illusions and dreams that is the beginning of everything, especially when life shakes us so hard, I see many beautiful aspects in your solar return so we can be optimistic but I must also tell you that you have to work hard to get your best version, I am of the idea that some rude or malefic aspects help us grow and when you are sunk in depression and despair It seems too much to you, and you think that you will not be able to, but all this is part of your evolution you have a nice aspects a Trine with your sun and your vertex and a sextile sun and fortune, your luck will change the moment you work with your light, I know that like Venus cancer family problems are stronger but I also know that your family is that light and you have several little ones to shine, in this return your ascendant is cancer, and it has a conjunction with your natal mercury, that means that you have to find those emotional virtues that you have not to lose yourself in them shine like the full moon, I actually dedicate myself to numerology and tarot now I´m learning to interpret astrology because it´s great, I identified with you I´m also a mom and well If you like tomorrow we will contact you and I will give you a tarot reading for your birthday

Datta108 » rohinivenus Namaste happy birthday! Tomorrow when the moon enters Taurus is also considered as a birthday for you so blessings to you!

In Jyotish you have Sagittarius Rising with Jupiter strongly placed in the 5th house Aries. You are also running Jupiter dasa since 2012 which should´ve brought marriage, children etc.. into your life. Jupiter is not aspected by any malefic either.Also in the Navamsha chart,Scorpio is rising so Jupiter is a natural and functional beneficial for you and is your absolute
best planet in the chart.

The problem therefore is the Transits of Saturn for the last few years,especially from 2018 onwards.

April 2019 to May 2020 could have been exceedingly difficult as both Saturn and Jupiter were Transiting your 8th house,this was possibly the hardest phase of your life.

For now Jupiter is transiting your favorable 11th house until April 2023 but Saturn has just returned to Capricorn, your 9th house. This is not an auspicious position for Saturn to transit in general, 9th house issues can crop up(father is an indication of the 9th house btw)

Upaya´s for Saturn should be done promptly to mitigate any more Saturnian issues for the next couple of years until Saturn moves to Pisces in March 2025 your favorable 11th house of gains,profits and betterment in life,this will be like a golden age for you!🙏🕉☀️🎂

Uttarafiyaguni » rohinivenus It´s my birthday as well, and omg it´s like I´m reading something I wrote out with how you´re describing your thoughts with this part, "I"m scared to be optimistic. I"m scared to think that I learned lessons in the since that I can feel solid in that they are over, or done. I feel like I have been forced to be detached...I have had to let go of all my ideas of who and what I am, I have had to let go of things that I thought were mine. I am disappointed, but I almost feel like it´s my fault for ´expecting´ or maybe the point of all of this is for me to be pragmatic. I don´t feel like I trust myself anymore....I"m lost, I feel shell-shocked."

Focus on planning for the worst and give yourself a checklist to work through. With determination and talking to people close to you, you can get through anything, and that´s not optimistic thinking, it´s just how things are.

rohinivenus » rohinivenus Just an update. I´ve been thinking about the energy and issues. The situation with my parents feel like a black hole. Between the both of them, they suck all the energy and life and happiness and it seems like they suck reality into their own warped perception of it. My dad is ridged and wants everything to be so cut dry and clinical, but he says really negative stuff doesn´t know how to apologize and or doesn´t think he needs to( he has Pluto in his 2nd house- moon in his 1st house in leo) his sun in in libra, so already asc and moon in Leo, sun libra, fire and air,his mouth can destroy things and that is exactly what has happened here. He has poisoned me his daughter and any future relationship. My mom on the other hand, can be smothering and I feel attempts to control me for the goal of trying to keep the status quo yet she is also thrown back from my dad´s statements. She doesn´t have a problem with the living arrangement...which in short....my dad offered for us to move out here and stay here till we got our own place. My husband had a job lined up but it didn´t work out. From there it has been 3 months and my husband has a job now. But my dad basically finds it unacceptable that he didn´t find a job sooner, and basically said he thinks we are using him and also that my husband wasnt looking for a job.my dad is very self oriented, moon in first house) he literally said he has made people give him a job...anyway...my mom is scared that my dad is going basically ruin things but she for a long time has made excuses and just prayed on my dad´s better nature. The huge back fire of this, is that it appears she is trying to always warn people about my dad and is bad habits but always wants others to be forgiving of him while he is learning....as if he is not causing any damage or hurt, like he´s the only person learning and living at the same time. I have felt brainwashed in the past because it felt like my mom wanted me to walk on egg shells and just always be concerned about how my dad will take things.my mom has other issues as well but a small example of the unhealthy environment I was raised in that still persist is, my 11 year old got her report card, the grading system was confusing, it was words like above proficiency, proficient, basic, minimal, then MINIMAL, then needs to improve. You can´t put a b or c in place of these words and my daughter got mostly proficient and some basics. I told my daughter she did good, later my mom told me she ´hid´ my daughters report card under my pillow, I said why, she said because she can´t explain to my dad what the grades mean.
So she acts like it is a huge problem that he won´t understand it
The hiding things is showing another like she´d rather go out of her way to hide shit than tell my dad she doesn´t know?

On a separate note my dad feels like he´s always the bad guy, well my mom treatable him like he is based off his actions and he does BAD guy shit...

My dad told me never to come back, he also said he would be find if he never saw my kids again. Weeks later he said I know I said some harsh shit, but we can start over, yay no, I´m not continuing this cycle.

The main thing I´m proud of myself for is he can´t claim I yelled at him or cursed him out.

My mom can talk for hours about about my dad and how much he has grown and it feel like that is her whole life´s purpose, she has made me feel like my focus should be my dad and our relationship and making it better, she obsessively can´t help it and we have an easier relationship but it´s like I have to unstick her from me. And the black hole energy is it feel like when there is any issue...it´s like to my parents nothing else exists. And my dad is ridged in what he talks about or thinks with me and my mom solely focuses on what we need to say to my dad or do so that my dad can feel better....all this at a time when many people have rental issues and job issues but my dad is acting like that has nothing to do with us having a problem getting a job and a rental...it´s like he willfully doesn´t want any of that to matter because I guess it´s easier to process it as our personal failure vs a larger system failure that is out of our control. To be honest I really don´t give a crap what his exact problem is, I just know it´s not right to have the attitude that you can say whatever you want because it´s ´your house´ and for sure you tell me having a relationship with my kids is something you don´t need, by telling me that you could get over never seeing them again....why would I have my kids engage in a relationship with some one who is indifferent to having them in their lives like that? Also my dad acts like I´m going to hurt and take him for granted...yet wants to offer help...then turn around and act like he was forced to do some shit...

I´m super over it

rohini moon » rohinivenus 7th lord in the 7th house... he would be a friend to you. Strong conversationalist/quick thinker. I´m just curious is he a bit younger than you? Even by 1-2 years?

rohini moon » rohinivenus did you get married when you were around 25? or had your 1st child during that time?

car accident happened when Rahu was conj your moon in the 6th house of accidents/disputes/disruptions of daily routines..and Ketu was in your 12th over Saturn...

"Sooooòo I´m really close to being done with all this shit. "

Sag Ascendants right now, are going through a lot of upheavals related to their family. It isn´t just you.. I am seeing this with others IRL -

it´s definitely in the air with the cosmos right now...

rohini moon » rohinivenus "my husband had an affair and it resulted in a child."

my heart sank when I read that.. deeply disturbing. My mother did that to my father. I feel for you....but I wonder if it´s not more psychologically damaging to stay with such a person.. but that´s your choice, and I am no one to tell you or anyone what to do. We have to learn our own path..

Anyway, first thing I noticed was Rahu in the 4th house... bingo.. all the family issues stem from this. Rahu will bring major disruption to your family life/upbringing and and to your marital life. Usually Rahu in 4th house/or Cancer sign will have the person be so preoccupied with the chaos and disruption that Rahu is causing in their own immediate family that it in turn takes their attention away from spouse/children and instead puts their focus on the drama coming from their parents/and or siblings. It´s a slippery slope whenever Rahu sits in a house/sign directly related to the family.

Your 7th house lord is pretty strong though, and I can see your relationship with your husband is STRONGLY built on the bonds of communication.. You two are (or were) friends, I´d say, who strongly rely on communication in your union.

But...back to the nodes.. Rahu will always push you towards wanting that nourishment -particularly from the mother - but never actually fulfilling this desire. Ketu in the 10th would show your father too also never being fully "there" always detached in some way.. could be something as simple as that maybe he wasnt available to you during your upbringing because he worked a lot. But there is definitely a sense of your parents being outsiders in some way. Also, in vedic... using bhavat bhavam - the 4th and 10th house are feeding their energy back into your 7th house - the partnership.

So it all ties together..

sometimes you have to do what´s right for yourself... and nevermind the outside influences. Do right by you and your children and everything else will fall into place..You can be different than than your own parents, by learning from their horrible mistakes - correcting that and in turn doing better for your own children. You wouldn´t want your kids to have to go through the nonsense that you have had to endure, I am sure.. There are always lessons in life. Lessons are repeated until learned, I tend to think.. so learn from these lessons and utilize the things that were taught to you from them - to be a better person/parent than your own were. Best advice really....

I wish you luck, fellow Rohini..

JessSezItSoftly » rohinivenus I really feel for you.....

Continue to be strong and find ways to choose different (better) more healthier (ways) daily decisions for your kids, yourself, your husband, then your parents...

I know it´s not easy (it´s not easy for me either) but sometimes you have to prioritize and realize that doing the same things and expecting different results (especially with difficult people) is insanity and will keep you in the hamster wheel....

I would seriously say find help from others... reach out and see what would be helpful to make things less burdensome on you that way you can manage your own family in a healthier way...

Your parents are grown adults too...

Sometimes you need to be firm with them too on what your thoughts, feelings, and needs are...

You matter just as much as everyone else. And obviously people DO need you!!

So, focus on how you can delegate and remember, you are the boss of your own daily activities. (I have to remind myself of that too. Lol)

If you are doing the best you can day to day, in helping (or taking care of everyone) and people dont understand that, that´s too bad...

The Important thing is food, shelter, rest, and trying to make better decisions.

Dont give up. You just have to figure out what works better...

It´s okay to receive and get help from others. So reach out.

nutelina » rohinivenus Some people here complain that I complain about my parents so I know...

JessSezItSoftly » rohinivenus 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

A standing ovation!!!

Bravo!!

I applaud you......

I could feeeel your venting so hard and I commend you for releasing it.....

I hear you!! My parents have issues too and can definitely drive me crazy sometimes!

I´m sure there is probably a lot of us that can admire and relate to you speaking up and venting your truth...


I´m sure its one of your first steps for healing and holding yourself more accountable to your own healthy needs!!

I think that what you are speaking can also be a healing to others because they can see they´re not alone in this world of chaos sometimes, ESPECIALLY over the past few years....

I think you are on the right track and need to stay strong!!

You can do it!!

You obviously have too much on your plate.... and trying to do it all at once (so to speak) or take un an unrealistic amount on your own...

I´m here if you need a listening ear or someone to cheer you on...

I know there are dark days but there is also good ones to come!

Take things a step at a time, and do nice things for yourself! Ask for help... and find ways of having a support system.

Hermetic Dreamer » rohinivenus I´m so sorry to hear about your experiences, I can´t even imagine. The next year may still be rough, but the following 3 years after that should quiet down a lot. When you are 36 you will be able to focus more on yourself. Saturn is your ascendant ruler and is in the 12th house by sign. The 12th house is Saturn´s joy. Saturn is all about hard lessons. If you get into meditation, spent some time alone to process all that you have been through, you will come out a lot better for it. There is a lot of self help materials online that may help you with what you are going through. Your Gemini Moon shows you should be good with research. If you can´t face it alone, then definitely get a therapist involved though. Saturn´s path is a hard one, but you can come out very strong afterwards.