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Oct 25, 2021 - 20:12
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » CasablancaXYZ
Self Discoveries Along My Transit of Neptune through the 5H:

1.) I´m more prone to easily romanticizing things and seeing life through rose colored spectacles very, very, very easy.

If something brings me discomfort or there is an unpleasant reality in front of me, I tend to fixate on a hypothetical or a perceived positive and exaggerate its effect - when it more than likely brings more detriment in reality than not. In that, I am more likely to make more excuses for people who are taking advantage of me, just because I "like them".

2.) I give in to the ideal of "potential" more readily and very deeply. If I perceive "potential" to be there, welp, that is that! Much like the above explanation, I will amplify my hopes of the potential coming into fruition.

3.) Uranus is transiting my 7H, in conjunction with this Neptune transit - so I´ve been giving in to having a wild, "romantic" time with sketchy characters - so I ended up falling a bit deeply, or at least spending more time than I normally would´ve with people who simply do not have my best interest at heart.

However, I entered these relationships without the understanding of my transits - so I was trying to make certain situations fit where they would, could and SHOULD not. Nevertheless, going forward, I understand that I have to remain grounded in reality and take people for absolute face value. Even though they may seem like a good time right now, I have to realistically consider if a relationship has a functional potential - if it doesn´t, I have to know not to fool myself and waste time.

Lol! That´s just my momentary reflection of my previous circumstances!
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Oct 7, 2021 - 18:47
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » cubic
Wow, this is actually a fantastic and pretty informative response - thank you!!!

With that breakdown, I can completely see how and why Neptune transiting the 5th house can manifest as it does, as I´ve experienced the reality of it a bit during this past year alone.

Sadly, I got caught up with a fella of Neptunian nature (actually in his chart, opposing my Venus!! Yikes) and it was a bit of a mess. It started out casual and friendly, but unfortunately for me, I became a bit more emotionally invested than he. He played on that for sure (mostly because I allowed it!).

Despite me cutting him off for valid reasons, he would still come around through different avenue´s - and I would let him back in, due to the emotional attachment on my behalf. However, it was all sex and manipulation on his behalf.

A MESS! I thought I could play a player´s game, but apparently not!

Needless to say, with regard to your response - experiencing the Neptune transit in the 5th house, I´m starting to see the importance in approaching dating from an objective reality.

In short, we can´t go into casual circumstances saying that we are okay with being "just fwbs", when one wants to experience the possibility of a real relationship down the line, depending on how the connection goes.
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Sep 15, 2021 - 17:31
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » CasablancaXYZ
I´m reading all of your posts, and I would like to say that this discussion is very enlightening and empowering for me. It´s also forcing me to reflect upon my own romantic situations.

I´m a lot less afraid to end a situationship, relationship, etc. if I feel that it doesn´t serve me, if I see that I´m being abused, used, etc. and I´m a LOT less passive in my relationships for the sake of "keeping a man". I also no longer hide my emotions nor conform to what I think he want´s me to say or be.

Funny, my Uranus in 7th started around 2019 and that´s about the time I got up off of that bullshit that kept me miserable in relationships. I also began to find myself desirable and a catch, compared to how I used to feel about myself.

It´s definitely been an empowering time thus far and I notice that I absolutely do not sit around for a man, waiting for him to "act right".

This is educating.

Thanks y´all!
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Sep 10, 2021 - 18:48
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » cubic
AHH!

You specificially said something in your post in which spirit has been repeatedly emphasizing on to me with regard to Uranus in 7H.

"So if that´s anything to go by - then it means that only very highly matched people are not not going to be ripped off your hands by Uranus..." This is sort of like the third confirmation through spirit that specifies the success of unions during the Uranus in 7H transit.

This last guy I dealt with, we had insane chemistry - out of this world, but compatibility just made it impossible. He was truly Uranian in nature as well, and that´s why I gravitated to him. Unfortunately, I had to learn the hard way that there was no staying power in that.

He was wreaking emotional havoc on my soul and being with him was basically emotional self-harm on my part, so I had to block him.

I couldn´t do the friends with benefit thing anymore. It was messing with my mental and emotional state.

Thanks for your response!
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Aug 23, 2021 - 13:50
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » Rosincvist
Hi there, thank you so much for your response!

So basically, for my Juno - that´s good, right?

:D Thanks!
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Aug 20, 2021 - 20:38
Sun Sign - GeminiCasablancaXYZ » s81
Thank you so much for your insight and response!
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