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CasablancaXYZ » CasablancaXYZ Self Discoveries Along My Transit of Neptune through the 5H:

1.) I´m more prone to easily romanticizing things and seeing life through rose colored spectacles very, very, very easy.

If something brings me discomfort or there is an unpleasant reality in front of me, I tend to fixate on a hypothetical or a perceived positive and exaggerate its effect - when it more than likely brings more detriment in reality than not. In that, I am more likely to make more excuses for people who are taking advantage of me, just because I "like them".

2.) I give in to the ideal of "potential" more readily and very deeply. If I perceive "potential" to be there, welp, that is that! Much like the above explanation, I will amplify my hopes of the potential coming into fruition.

3.) Uranus is transiting my 7H, in conjunction with this Neptune transit - so I´ve been giving in to having a wild, "romantic" time with sketchy characters - so I ended up falling a bit deeply, or at least spending more time than I normally would´ve with people who simply do not have my best interest at heart.

However, I entered these relationships without the understanding of my transits - so I was trying to make certain situations fit where they would, could and SHOULD not. Nevertheless, going forward, I understand that I have to remain grounded in reality and take people for absolute face value. Even though they may seem like a good time right now, I have to realistically consider if a relationship has a functional potential - if it doesn´t, I have to know not to fool myself and waste time.

Lol! That´s just my momentary reflection of my previous circumstances!

cubic » CasablancaXYZ From what I´ve read only prevention comes to mind.

Tendencies to be interested in extra complicated situations - like unavailable partners - because of marriages or great, great distance. Like say somebody from South Korea.. or North Korea. Then you can just like fantasize endlessly, but nothing may come out of it of course, unless it´s realistic for your context.

So the success is based on initial assessment of the ground of the relationship - is this an alright person within a realistic for me distance, and do they have like 3 kids and a 10 year marriage?

These are themes that most people seem to deal with anyway. The whole field of relationships/dating predisposes people to ignore reality regardless of Neptunian transits, because relationships are so stimulating for the mind/soul and the sexual organs.

So in a way it seems to repeat the typical themes.. important to not kid one´s self - people do tell you what they are made of early in the relationship, you just have to believe it when they describe themselves.

The danger is that you may let your fantasy elevate them or glamourise them afterwards, even if they´ve told you that they are this or that way. But again people seem to do that despite not having 5th house in Pisces so lol.

As for the whole deception thing - it doesn´t have to be that you´ll be deceived or misled - you could be the one doing it too. The energy is there. If it´s a legit person nothing too crazy will happen etc. I wouldn´t be fearful if they are good stuff to begin with.

In general I wouldn´t.. how should I say this - play around with people too much? If one is so inclined. You don´t seem to be. Because it kinda lets them play with you in a similar way in return. Maybe there is more of potential with that sort of situation becoming big with Neptune in 5th.

So I´ve been keeping it straight, living within truth etc, so I don´t get to attract/interact with unsavory types.

That´s what comes to mind in regards to Neptune transiting the 5th.

CasablancaXYZ » CasablancaXYZ I´m reading all of your posts, and I would like to say that this discussion is very enlightening and empowering for me. It´s also forcing me to reflect upon my own romantic situations.

I´m a lot less afraid to end a situationship, relationship, etc. if I feel that it doesn´t serve me, if I see that I´m being abused, used, etc. and I´m a LOT less passive in my relationships for the sake of "keeping a man". I also no longer hide my emotions nor conform to what I think he want´s me to say or be.

Funny, my Uranus in 7th started around 2019 and that´s about the time I got up off of that bullshit that kept me miserable in relationships. I also began to find myself desirable and a catch, compared to how I used to feel about myself.

It´s definitely been an empowering time thus far and I notice that I absolutely do not sit around for a man, waiting for him to "act right".

This is educating.

Thanks y´all!

irina1998 » CasablancaXYZ That man I ´ve feelings for is about to get his Uranus transit in the 7th house. He is JUST getting divorced from his wife and me and him have HUGE age difference... That transit is going to be felt in him for real I think.

WWe do not have a "relationship" since he was feeling very weird emotionally due to the divorce and we have left it for a while so he can get some space etc. Could that transit also mean that we´ll soon make a relationship? ( Uranus transit the 7th house = age difference relationships!)

Victor_Valiant_ » CasablancaXYZ Hi ;)

I thought so too but it´s wrong lol ^^

Uranus is in transit of my 7th right now, started just few months ago.
And goes 7years till 2028.

But I´ve googled & read many peoples experiences
& a lot of them got married or found long term partners during the transit.
So the notion of staying single is invalid.

Tho it indicates surprises, changes & innovation in relations & able to relate to others, it´s still changeable.
We are still masters of our destiny & fate ;D

I think we should rather see the advantages of this transit.
It means innovation, fresh looks & perspectives on relations & relating to others & to life itself.
New contacts, more people moving in & out of life, means also more chance of finding nice & interesting people to gain experiences from & thus better chance of finding an good partner etc.

And I definitely feel those advantages in the past couple of months ;D

So keep your head up! ;D
Cheers ^_*

edit: tho I´ve read that people in their existing relations or marriages can see breakups or divorce with this transit in 7th.
Aquarius & Uranus often proven to be the key factor for the perspective change on the relations.
"I don´t feel like it anymore"
"This is not what I want from a relationship, I want something else now" etc.
It doesn´t apply to single people engaging in relations or marriage it seems.
As the perspective changes, a person can actually open up to a different type of partner to engage with ;)
That might´ve been dismissed before as "not for me" ;D

And I´m definitely feeling that hahah ;D
My views on engaging in relationships has shifted.
I´ve thought about changing my perspectives before, but now I´m living it ;D

Sunnyshadow » CasablancaXYZ I got divorced almost exactly when uranus entered my 7th house. Go figure 😒

Didn´t know it till years later, so I didn´t "think" it into reality

LotusStar » CasablancaXYZ All I can do is commiserate. It would seem like it, wouldnt it.

cubic » CasablancaXYZ Yeah I have that thing going.. Uranus transit the 7th.. 7 years of being friendzoned hahahah.

Naah. Yeah.. don´t have much time right now, but I remember trying to be serious with somebody who had that transit ongoing bunch of years ago. Everyime she tried to create attachment I´d pull back hard. It was weird. I couldn´t energetically take her seriously or give in, even for a bit, even if I wanted. Could have been the unique chemistry though.. but yeah as if I wanted her to be some kind of super independent person, and attempts at attachment were blocked off. As if she was behind a glass wall and I made sure she was kept there myself.. lol? It didn´t make sense to me but I kept doing it.

Have been wondering if that´s how people experience me or would experience me.

Because yeah I got the whole sudden change of behaviours thing or disappearance of work related "partners". Extremes really.

I´m yet to try anything serious under this transit but I got to know somebody in early 2021 guy with whom I have an incredible compatibiltiy friendship wise in terms of interests and ways of seeing the world. One of the most fruitful and interesting conversations ever really. I knew him from before but hadn´t communicated with him that much ever, and in almost 10 years. I can´t see anything shaking that one up.

So if that´s anything to go by - then it means that only very highly matched people are not not going to be ripped off your hands by Uranus. Maybe it´s a bit of a cope for me to say this - but Uranus has to do with authenticity.

Whats so great about relationships anyway? It’s just brainwash by internet relationship junkies and youtube astrologers. Let’s go to a psy-trance party and ascend! The world is full of sin..

Rosincvist » CasablancaXYZ Yes, it is good!

Rosincvist » CasablancaXYZ There is a choice listed for alternate charts beneath your birth-chart called asteroids; All of them are shown for at least one aspect, sometimes more.
Extended settings, reducing the asteroid list to the most important four, keeping orbs at one degree, is quintile Juno which means there is a real balance to your Juno opposition Mars!

s81 » CasablancaXYZ Except in the mind of very imaginative astrologers, there is no such a thing like essential dignities for asteroids, so you have to resort to aspects to analyze more their cosmic state.

Your natal Juno (compromise) is being activated by your strong but retrograde Saturn in Aquarius (by an applying conjunction) and your defensive and chaotic Mars in 29 Cancer (by an also applying opposition).