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Jun 6, 2019 - 22:13
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
I will answer you astrologically, As far as I see, you have Mars Capricorn in your 7th house and in transit is conjunct with Pluto and Saturn right now. deeply triggers your fears about relationships and makes you lose your self-esteem. I advise you to check your eclipses in July and get the advice you need. Most important of all, you should confront yourself by speaking aloud, not with others.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:44
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
Anyone who cheats does not love their partner, and will do it again if they can get away with it, regardless of how fixed they think they are.

Astrologers are real humans too much like you, we are not some special selected breed hailed from the Gods.

I wish you all the best with your new born baby, and hopefully in 6 months time things will have been cleared, i tell you now, the real person who will live the aftermath is not you or your husband, it will be your child, how that aftermath flowers depends on what you both do.

I may sound harsher than you think, i have strong instincts and i will voice them, i am not always correct, but i voice it.

As stated, all the best.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:18
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
Was not talking about your Moon dear, i can see it is in severe detriment by how you fail to understand things in a more logical manner, logic is not merely intellectual.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:17
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
That is how your mind see´s things, i gave you that chart to see what connections are buzzing off between me and you, yes i understand how Venus in Scorpio works, my father has it.

Capable of the most horrendous stuff and adept at covering it up, it´s ok, time will have you.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:10
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
Nothing to do with charts, i literally see through you.

You say you apparently should not do things, this means you are not doing things because you are weaponizing standard strategies to better health.

"Apparently I shouldn´t work on myself or pay a therapist, since, from what I surmise by your comment, NO ONE can learn to work around their astrological detriments struck permanently at their time of birth."


This has nothing to do with detriments, it has to do with how it functions, you as a person is in control no one else, don´t shift it.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:05
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
This happens in most relationships sorry to say. I will say this once so people stop attacking you. This is nothing new, and over the last ten years working with couples, it happens every single time. So you´re no different than the rest of humanity. While people like to judge, persecute, and make others as a victim as well this is the Karpman Drama Triangle, so everyone should get off the karmic wheel, here because we all will find ourselves in this situation at some point in our lives whether we think so or not. I haven´t met a couple yet who doesn´t speak about this happening.

Different People, Different story, but part of the masculine/feminine, feminine/feminine, masculine/masculine, alien/alien relationships, or whatever you want to call the type of relationship.

I´ll say one last thing and let it go. I felt for the past 7 years that my husband no longer cared for me romantically. I thought it was solely his commitment to the principle of marriage that kept him around. I broke down in tears a month before the affair and asked for a divorce, but he refused to let go. Everytime I tried having a heart-to-heart with him through the years prior, I always got shut down by him. This last time, he said the death of his father in September made him realize that he had become his father and did not do enough to express his feelings for me and ended up being a brutal assh-le dealing with me. I didn´t give him long enough of a period to demonstrate he meant what he said to me, but, I recalled the multitude of times prior where nothing happened, ultimately causing me to shut down emotionally (state I was in the past 5 years with him).
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:03
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
"I´m glad you live in a perfect world where yourself and the people around you have never had to experience the relationship trauma. It shows in your opinion"

An example of manipulation right here ^^

You´re traumatized, so you fuck another guy, really?
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Jun 6, 2019 - 20:02
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
Mine and yours combined.

South Node & North Node aspects of particular interest, that and your Scorpio placements hitting Pluto, My Moon & Mars opposing your Saturn & Jupiter.

Your Saturn & Pluto aspecting my 12th house Sun & Jupiter, i make light of things, i see through people and always have.

I´m not here to tell you what to do, but telling you what you should do.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:48
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
This is to do with you, not my experiences.
The very reason you do this is to not face reality, to not face what you have done, you are a liar.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:45
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
It´s ok being emotional, but cheating is not, be forthright and leave him in the dust, settle it in court if need be, use your brain, it all sounds like a big elaborate manipulative cover up.

I know, because i know how that damned Venus works, skilled in lying if need be.

Nobody contributed to cheating, you have morals? clearly not, you drag yourself down to the level of someone else?

If this is the case, then as before, get a grip, i don´t stand for it regardless, like children.

Some tough love will set you straight and narrow, get a grip, move on without him, and if it needs to happen, get it settled in court to be divorced.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:35
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
The only person full of themselves is you, Vanille is correct, sort yourself out and be honest to your husband, that includes being honest for yourself, firm and upright, not some coward.

Venus in detriment in Scorpio conjunct Uranus & aspecting Jupiter, Venus in 5th of sex and fun... as i said, get a grip and don´t drag others into your own issues, take responsibility.

You also try to manipulate others to gain for yourself, an aspect of Scorpio.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:27
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
If you´re 100% commited to your marriage, you wouldn´t jump on a dick other than your hubby´s, you wouldn´t even consider it, and if you did... Leave your husband cause there´s absolutely no way you still love him if you´re capable of doing this to him.

If anything, he should leave you if he loves himself even a tiny bit.
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:16
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
If you have an ounce of respect in your soul: go get a divorce.

You´re a cheating slut and your husband deserves better than that, so does your fling´s wife. I wish them both a happy life with a loyal partner who actually does have proper feelings for them.

This sickens me omg
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Jun 6, 2019 - 19:06
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - SagittariusVunderFemme » VunderFemme
Thank you, Masha!
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Jun 6, 2019 - 11:33
Synastry & Relationship: What is up with this relationship?
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » VunderFemme
I don´t mean to be harsh but taking more time to look at your two charts, it´s really just an affair for the moment for you to learn whatever it is your meant to learn from the situation.

It didn´t work out for the simple reason the dates you´ve given and looking at your North Node and his your both on two very different soul paths, and your both in your Nodal Returns.

Last year you stated you started this relationship in November in Jupiter in Scorpio Retrograde, which returned you back to your husband. lol And last year was a very bad year for many feminine and masculine jumping into affairs and getting caught in the Water Trine, Fixed Cross transits, and Retrogrades and ending up getting in a crisis.

You´re not the only one, since the fixed cross: Leo, Taurus, Scorpio, and Aquarius are the sexual signs of the feminine. North Node Leo/South Node Aquarius the trickster.

This is what I´m saying when the transits are in certain positions, you´re being tested in relationships. You´re making a choice to create or co-create the crisis event to grow, mature, and evolve.

Really under Saturn in Capricorn, Aries in Chiron, and Uranus in Taurus, I don´t think anyone gets away with being deceptive, hiding things, and husbands do have all kinds of software to see what your doing online.

Evolutionary astrology is pointing out the weaknesses and mastering your soul intention.

Where you run into trouble is your a very sexual women, and you can see this with the water trine and Aquarius in the 8th house, and you have Capricorn in the 7th house of relationships restricting that 100% freedom of liberation to be the Matriarchy on your ascendant.

This person you had the affair with has Moon and Sun in Pisces which is Neptune and you both have Neptune in Sagittarius. The rose colored glasses, and true romantic, and we can just escape life and forget our spouses.

I stated this because Neptune and the Nodes can bring on these fantasies, fictional stories, and illusion in the relationship.

Both of you are probably in emotional and mental pain and it´s easier to escape reality than deal with the shadow self.

And this is what Uranus in Scorpio in opposition Uranus in Taurus will do shove you in the position to do your inner work emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, sexually, and financially.

This is where you graduate from the Rook or Princess to the mature Queen. Where you take 100% responsibility for your emotions, thoughts, feelings, choices, and actions and start seeing how they have a cause and effect on your 2nd/8th house issues of sharing resources with your family, children, and husband.

Taurus/Scorpio is all about the Have´s versus the Have Not´s. As you stated you have a baby to think about. So this means you have a responsibility to provide shelter, clothing, food, medicine, and provide a healthy home emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, sexually, and financially.

When you bring in a third party as this masculine. You are putting your resources in jeopardy because your North Node Leo is in the 2nd house and South Node Aquarius in the 8th house of death, birth, rebirth, emotional, mental, spiritual, physical, and sexual transformation. So when you decide to play with other masculine, that can be quite transforming in the sense you can lose everything you have built up and their is no guarantee this other masculine will ever help you survive in anyway if they believe you´re just a momentary fantasy, fiction, and escape from their wife. This is what a lot of men do, they fantasize about the mistress, and escape reality of their wife and children.

If your volunteering to play that part, your also jeopardizing their wife and their children´s survival.

I believe this is where the masculine and feminine have not understood that we don´t just create marriages and when things get hard we go off and play with other people and expect them to be fine with it.

The biggest issues we have in society are domestic violence and child abuse. So when we make the feminine or masculine jealous deliberately, it´s nice to say we can discipline it to a certain extent, but over long-term period, you can literally drive someone into emotional and mental pain because it´s the emotional center of the brain. The pain and reward center, the pleasure and pain center. So your relieving your pain and suffering by going to another masculine, and forming an emotional, sexual, spiritual, physical bond to them and relieving your pain through sex, but then causing pain at the same time in the same place for two other people.

This is what is ridiculous about our society, because we create and co-create the situation, tell people they should just get over it. And it is the deepest emotional and mental wound there is in the masculine and feminine.

When your filled with Aquarius, Libra, and Gemini these types of individuals are more emotionally objective and work on one side of the nervous system, while water signs works on the opposite side of the nervous system.

If you want to drive a feminine and masculine into insanity, sex is the way to do it and make them jealous over a long period of time. Which equals to domestic violence.

I´m a bit different astrologer because I have a degree in Human Services, which is social worker, and I understand the systems, family dynamics, the hardships, and really people have a choice to naturally help themselves or create or co-create the crisis where you they get into trouble with the systems.

Now other astrologers can say what they want, I´m about being pro-active, educating, and pointing people to having a healthy life style, instead of ending up in various scenario´s from not making the right choices.

With a baby coming on the way, this is your first priority. And of course therapy is where you can start, but you can take effort in that every day in different ways.

As you stated, "I´m thinking about the other masculine." This is the problem with third parties. Whatever your focused on your attention goes. So if you daydreaming, thinking about another masculine, this is what your manifesting into your reality.

And if you focusing on your husband and family this is what your manifesting into your reality.

The mind is not wired to focus on two things at once. People pretend they can, sure they can fool themselves multi-tasking, but if you pay close attention, you really can only focus on one thing at a time.

If you´re focus else where, obviously your husband knows your not focusing on him just by your body language, your expressions, your actions, and he´s not getting attention.

You have a lot of Libra so you tend to think a lot. So it´s really getting a grasp on where your thoughts are headed, and thinking before acting.

Aries in Chiron in opposition of Libra Pluto will also keep you on task, because Aries in Chiron is usually quite the wounding of your relationships if you´re not responsible.

As with Aries in the 1st house "I" and Libra "We" in the 7th house.

So when you and your friend decided to form this relationship you both said as Libra Pluto´s, "I" want forget my spouse in the 7th house "We".

I want to feel the pleasure. relieve my pain, and escape this reality for a moment.

Aries in Chiron will wound the idea because it´s not Pisces in Chiron and ruled by Neptune.

Aries is a cardinal sign and all about belief systems, theories, concepts, and ideas.

Uranus in Taurus is what is it do I value the most?

November you shifted into Uranus in Aries/Pisces in Chiron, and than we shifted back into Uranus in Taurus/Aries in Chiron.

So the timing of the event was quite not the time to be starting a relationship with transits since they´re all ending karma and ending cycles from multiple timelines in transits.
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