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walterbenjamin » virgo_girl86 everything depends on the life project that each one plans, and the one that they plan together; if they are going to have a family or not, if it is just something temporary, if it is a commercial relationship, in short, what are their plans? I ask why the astrological consultation always implies a dialogue under construction

Morena_Lu » virgo_girl86 For attraction look for 8 th house in synastry, mars conjunction mars, maybe mars mars is the strongest aspect if you ask me. But it is just for bedroom...

If you want emotional compatibility look for compatibility, sun sun is also a great one, Saturn should be involved..or it will not last, especially if there is messing in synastry.It is just one small part..

Astro-Seek.com » virgo_girl86 My music thread.

https://forum.astro-seek.com/topic/…

I have Pluto trine Sun, square ascendant and descendant and opposite Moon, the music and flow describe it very well.

My personal sexual drive is ridiculous but kept under wraps for my wife.
My wife has Mars conjunct Pluto in 12th opposite my Mars, we have trines from Pluto to each others Venus, her Mars trine mine too, Sun trine Moon equally.

With a high sex drive comes a high drive in general but I calculate, not a fully free spirit. Control is needed, without it nothing can form.

There is way more to what makes someone sexually arousing, it might be my willingness to die for what I want and the love that I can build.

The impact of each chart is very similar between us, our composite is even better.



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Victor_Valiant_ » virgo_girl86 Yes I´ve experienced this ;)

It´s asteroid eros, passionate erotic sexual arousal.
It overrides mars & venus influences,
these planets are more mild as they are part of our personality.

Asteroids are not, they are more impulses, instincts, urges.
It´s deeper part of one´s core. And has more adrenaline & potency than planets like sun, mars & venus.
Ascendent can have more potency as it´s more upfront with interacting, and amplifies eros, if it conjuncts or trines.

Someone´s eros conjucts asc or sun, is an instant like attraction, within 2 secs.
This is urge impulse wanting to jump the person, or get a flash thought imagining sex with the person.

Eros sign shows the erotic style in bed. Behavior & preferences when in the act.
One sign is more emotional then the other.
Eros Aries has less emotion in the act, more fire more hot maybe even forceful.
Eros scorpio on the other hand is more passionate, wanting to merge with person.
Eros Pisces takes a more dreamy ethereal approach toward the act.
and so on etc.

Here´s a good resource on every Eros sign
> https://sexualastrology.com/planets…

Eros conjunct Psyche, is considered an soul mate connection.
The perfect bed partners. Either hers to his, or vice versa.

Here are my short list interpretations for the planet-object aspects.
From my research & experiences past few years.
I´ve verified all of them, with lot of discussion with people on experiences.
(NOTE these are eros conjuncts "..." less than 3degrees.
Trines, sextiles are milder impulses, so are degrees over 3.)

Eros-sun
helps discover erotic sides
eros feel obsessed with sun person
sun person is turned on by the eros sexual energy
just by being him/herself sun person stimulates eros persons sexual desires and need for intimacy
sun person feels more alive and energetic around eros person.
As eros puts sun in touch with their most erotic taboo desires

Eros-moon
combines emotional+erotic love
deep intimate
eros drawn to moon emo nature for deep bond share erotism
moon person is deeply turned on eros persons intensity sex charisma
eros forces moon to touch their erotic nature
moon person makes eros person feel nurtured and understood

Eros-venus
explosive irresistble attraction
eros is drawn to venus grace-charm-beauty desires intimacy
venus drawn to eros sex charisma intensity
venus sensuality turns on eros sexual desires and erotic nature
eros feel their sense triggered when venus is around them

Eros-mars
god of erotic love meets planet sex
sexually obsessed. Eros flirts with mars. Eros is turned on mars receives enjoys sexuality. Teasing & foreplay.
mars is about the sex less of an erotic merging than eros. Eros feels it physically & romantically. Hard keeping hands off.

Eros-jupiter
love passion expanded
jupiter shows eros new ways of sexual expression
eros stimulates jupiters desire for intimacy passion
eros is happy for open minded generous lover

Eros-saturn
love & hate
eros may feel saturn refuses to accept attraction they have for eros
eros still is attracted to saturn persons stability and maturity
eros might find saturn person erotic in authoritian sort of way


Eros-uranus
Electric & exciting
uranus person opens eros person mind to a variety of sexual possibilities
eros may feel disappointed when uranus seems distant and hard to reach cuz eros desires intimacy & erotic merging with uranus person

Eros-neptune
erotic dream
passion intimacy is like fairy tale romance
eros person stimulates neptune persons sexual fantasies
eros is drawn to neptunes compassion nature
neptune intuitively understands eros wants and needs in erotism intimacy & gladly provides it

Eros-pluto
Hot level intimacy-explosive obsessive
enjoy sexual taboos with eachother
feel fated to be with one another
magnetic irresistable
relationship might be highs and lows due to intense feelings

Eros-ascendant
extremely sexy
eros person immediately notice ascendant person
eros finds asc extremely sexy & physically attractive
ascendant person physical appearance triggers eros most intense sexual feelings
eros-square ascendant = eros is attracted to asc. But asc feels eros as different to what they´re generally attracted to

Eros-descendant
dreamlover
eros person is irresistably attracted to descendant person
descendant person feel eros is the lover of their dreams
eros sexuality passion are highly attractive to the descendant person
eros learns more about their sexual powers and physical desires through relationship with descendant person

eros- psyche
natural mates
conjunct in synastry is soul mate
mythical lovers joined by fate
deep transformative love but union goes with hardships
they had to go to great lengths just to be together
the hardships they endure will bring them even closer together
Psyche person may have dreamed the eros person before they even met

Eros-north node
eros pulls north node person out of sexual comfort zone into depths of pleasure and intimacy
highly sexual relationship
magnetic sex that gets better and better over time

Eros-south node
past life lovers
highly erotic and at same time comfortable and familiar
potential for growth is repressed

Eros-chiron
Eros grows and heals with Chiron and vice versa. This may feel karmic and painful but both parties appreciate the experience over time
The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if it feels exhausting and draining, eventually both feel fulfilled and transformed.

Eros-eros
Explosive since there could be a lot in common between the two. There is a powerful level of understanding and both parties might feel like they have encountered their soulmate.
This is a lovely connection, since it helps to grow the love that both share for each other.
They desire to be close to each other, they want to promote the best for one another and when they are together, passion blinds them both.

Eros – Lilith
eros wants romance with sex
eros might feel rejected, lilith doesn´t show
if lilith is not choked by romance, can enjoy
eros might hate missing romance in sex. sex has more aggression & is hot

There you go
Cheers

LotusStar » virgo_girl86 This couple I know that are still attached at the hip after 20+ years together have

Double whammy Sun conjunct Venus
Double whammy Sun trine Moon
Her Mars square his Venus
His Mars square her Moon
His Mars opposite her Saturn
Her Saturn conjunct his Moon

Seems like a nice blend of love, understanding, passion and commitment/longevity.

In their composite they have Sun and Venus opposite Moon, Mars and Jupiter opposite Pluto. In Davison chart they have Sun conjunct Moon, both square Mars, Mars trine Pluto. Not many bad aspects.

But I don´t think it´s a one size fits all. Personally I think Mars conjunct, sextile or trine Mars is the best for actual sexual compatibility. It may not bring the attraction on its own but if it´s there it makes for the best actual compatibility in that area.

VicBru » virgo_girl86 you can search:
venus conjunction asc
venus opposition asc
venus conjunction sun
venus conjunction moon
mars conjunction sun
mars conjunction asc
mars conjunction venus
mars conjunction moon
moon conjunction pluto
mars conjunction pluto
trigons in general
sextils in general

and now i put aspects that increase sexual attraction but it can turn be dangerous:
mars square sun
mars square/opposition asc
mars conjunction/square/opposition lilith
mars square/opposition pluto
mars opposite venus

boyakasha the guru » virgo_girl86 Something about you feels nice and familiar...such a sweet melancholic feeling.
I´m drawn to your soft appeal

Antonio21 » virgo_girl86 no because i am so unlucky bastard

LotusStar » virgo_girl86 Lilith conjunct, trine or square Mars
Pluto conjunct, square or opposite Venus
Mars conjunct ascendant or descendant
Mars conjunct, square or opposite either Venus or Moon (soft aspect too but not as intense)
Moon or Venus in 7th or 8th house
Eros conjunct Venus
Mars conjunct or trine Pluto (I haven´t experienced that much attraction with the square or opposite, it´s a bit too hostile for me)

These are pretty much the hottest imo, physically/sexually

In order to feel the soul connection, you need some Neptune and Node aspects as well.

For me it´s always Venus/Pluto aspects and inner planets in the 7th and 8th house that are the strongest affects.

I have with my ex my Eros conjunct his Venus/Pluto in his 1st house and Venus is his chart ruler. His Mars is conjunct my Moon, square my Venus and opposite my Neptune. His looks made me melt, it´s embarrassing. But emotionally his Mars is so harsh towards my chart we fought all the damn time over the dumbest shit too but it´s like we can´t help it and we´re 2 normally non confrontational ppl.

Zephyrin » virgo_girl86 Not gonna explain all...

Venus conjunct Moon

ASC conjunct Pluto

Lilith trine Mars tends to enhance the sexual compatibility greatly, tested twice.

Vertex conjunct North Node and Mars may concern long term relationships that still have excitement and loyalty

8th or 5th house emphasis. Their stellium may determine the sexual tone in your relationship and partially shows what kind of couple you are imo.

As for mind reading, Mercury which stands in partner´s 12th house, conjunct Chiron is appropriate.

And woman´s Psyche conjunct man´s Moon can bring a sexually and emotionally intense relationship where the woman has control, from my experience.

Lololololo » virgo_girl86 Usualy it is karmic or twin flame relationships. Moon nodes conjuct personal planets, vertex conjuct vertex or antivertex and personal planets. It would be interesting to see Your sinastry chart. Lilith and Venus conjuction.

heeps » virgo_girl86 Impossibile nel lungo periodo..
mente spirito e sesso armonizzano spesso solo apparentemente..finche´ dura l´attrazione fisica.
L´aspetto sessuale piu´ potente?Il marte di Lui quadrato alla venere di Lei

nutelina » virgo_girl86 CON-GRATS

No really, Cap-lock got stuck in his thinking.

diavolul » virgo_girl86 I wonder if you used hard drugs together in a try to reach some kind of climax of spirituality etc or I don´t know, this is what I see...

IceSickle17 » virgo_girl86 Does he have a painful past that he brought up to you before or has he not revealed much of his past to you?

Some people have a harder time bringing up emotionally heavy topics and rather live more in the present than dwell on the past. Just curious, but do you get the sense he is hiding something from you or do you just generally want to know more about him? Sun conjunct Neptune typically gives someone a strong intuition and imagination, so maybe he´s the type that gets lost in his thoughts sometimes perhaps.

virgo_girl86 » virgo_girl86 Back to this topic again:
Our biggest problem is his sun in my 12th house.. I feel like I can never grasp him fully and he has sun conjunct neptune strongly in his own chart, and difficulty expressing his emotions and adressing his past. It gives a lot of misunderstandings and trust issues.
How do you work as a couple with this?

ZeinaZ » virgo_girl86 In my case, I did it as my psyche and body provided me with opportunities to heal, and I recognized them.

It´s a journey, and you´ll notice changes from phase to phase. It doesn´t have to be daunting, do it at your own pace as best to your well being. I think that´s part of life to do so and enjoy our achievements, internal or external.

Something that helped me in down times was enjoying the little things like a cup of warm coffee in the morning, a light breeze on a hot day, birds singing outside the window, figuring something about myself or my life I didn´t know before, etc. Many times, it is not the grand things that bring us joy.

Though, each person has his/her own thing that helps.

ZeinaZ » virgo_girl86 You seem to have your answer. With balance, when you face any circumstance, even uncontrollable ones, you´d have a sense of empowerment that you have choice what to do, instead of feeling being pushed and pulled by these circumstances.

Depression is looked down upon usually, though at such times we pay attention enough to find new ways to get ourselves out of the stagnation we feel. In a sense, depression urges us to be creative and reexamine things. Life is weird that way.

Emanuel » virgo_girl86 Also, i dont like that vedic astrologers are again on topics with gibberish.

Emanuel » virgo_girl86 Mars at the Ascendent in a day chart, Moon and Venus debilitated in Scorpio in 11th house(house of society, how we impact society, circles of friends), Saturn in your 12th house conjunct the Midheaven.... There are some interesting aspects.

From 2015-2016 Pluto started to go conjunct with your Mars/ascendent. Very important turning point (also, Mars is ruling your 11th house and 4th house of family roots... So big impacts on these topics)