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May 17, 2022 - 16:32
Synastry & Relationship: Parraler or similar aspects in natal.
Sun Sign - LeoAnni23 » Northerneuropean
Sorry, what’s the question? What are you trying to soften…

Earth softens fire, water softens earth, generally

Earth grounds fire or water

I suppose that for one you would like to grow together, and if some level of synastry parallels are evident then yes, I believe that a common direction may be present

Having the same moon is probably either very good or bad..
But it’s not clashing elements

Having the same overall dominant elements is better. Unless because of fire your both confrontational then clashes are probable.
But it seems like your elements are balanced similarly, which I think is usually nice

But having a look at your chart I’d say that you might be either more avoidant or less?
I don’t have so much experience with Pisces placements
Could be Ridiculously avoidant. But you mention her being more Martian

Any aspects with the sun or Jupiter are pretty good

Saturn and Mars are pretty opposite, but then maybe what with the combination of earth and fire that you both have there’s enough earth to ground you both
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Jan 17, 2022 - 03:47
Synastry & Relationship: Aries Sun or Moon
Sun Sign - VirgoLotusStar » Northerneuropean
haha I have someone in my family with this combination - leo with scorpio moon
not sure passion but definitely a very obsessive person!!
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Dec 16, 2021 - 14:49
Sun Sign - Leodmm62 » Northerneuropean
I´m searching through the posts looking for someone to help me understand a composite as well. I´m commenting here about the trustworthiness of a sun venus conjunction in a composite. best i can tell, without it, there is not much of a relationship at all and that is determined by the composite despite synastry. In this case, a daughter with such an aspect to her mother is so very fortunate but certainly gives that 5th house saturn a new twist, eh?
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Dec 1, 2021 - 10:14
Natal Astrology: Juno Conjunct Pluto
Sun Sign - LeoAlfin_niflA » Northerneuropean
Like getting a bonus in your life in fantasizing.. I never had it.. hahahah..
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Nov 29, 2021 - 15:04
Natal Astrology: Juno Conjunct Pluto
Sun Sign - CancerLunadominante » Northerneuropean
I share this position in Scorpio in the 3rd house and I agree with all this that you describe. It all happens to me and describes my behavior towards relationships, quite intense as you can guess
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Oct 3, 2021 - 12:19
Sun Sign - AquariusWays_of_Leavin' » Northerneuropean
Parker´s Astrology (yes I use it a lot) describes Sun Cancer ASC Leo, as well as Sun Leo with Venus in Cancer as being very sensitive. But yes, a Leo Sun with Cancer Moon should be so as well. This is a nice combination actually - both the Sun and Moon in dignity. Both Leo and Cancer energy should figure strongly in you.
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Sep 29, 2021 - 21:00
Sun Sign - TaurusMallow » Northerneuropean
Thank you! It’s a chart for me and my daughter
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Sep 29, 2021 - 20:52
Sun Sign - PiscesV for Victory » Northerneuropean
He will have some kinf of trauma in his domestic life (childhood), but it will be healed through marriage. -

How can I prevent it or fix it? Is it related to some malefics? I know that is possible to fix some characteristics by doing some rituals. for example Mars in 8th house is fixed when an individual is involved in some extreme sports or fighting...
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Sep 29, 2021 - 19:09
Sun Sign - CapricornLuna Alba » Northerneuropean
"Only problem - saturn squere moon (which is in virgo) - he have problems to express himself, his emotions".

I have the opposition. It´s a nasty aspect to have, esp if you read the classical astrology.

For women it affects the way how they see themselves/self esteem, but for men it affects their view on women - conservative, maybe even mysoginistic, not having much to offer on a higher level
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Sep 29, 2021 - 09:14
Synastry & Relationship: Breaking up for good?
Sun Sign - Piscesgerdahagge » Northerneuropean
Has he hardened his hart with me, or after his previous heartbreaks?

Your are right; he was so in love with me from the beginning and gave everything. He feels that he didnt get anything back from me. He lost one of his kids to the mother and he feels that he is in stress all the time. He wants his children to be welcome in the house anytime, to live with us full time if they want to. He wants harmony in the house. I accept his children, but dont want them to live with us full time.

That´s why he is dissapointed and hardened his haert towards me. The only way for me is to never say anything bad about his children, always come secondly, while the grown up children come first. I´m pieces and i need attention and love. I dont feel that from him, because his whole life is about his children who are 19 and 16 years old. I thought it would get better the older they get, but it only gets worse.

I try so much to change, not to say anything about the kids, adapt, i live in their house....i really feel that i´m a prisoner. I can not say anything anymore, while he asks lots of things from me. Not to have friends or talk too much with my mother and so on. He is extremely controling towards me.

I know that the only way is to leave, so that he MIGHT change, or at least think about what he really wants in life. I think that love is not important for him. He just needs a woman to live with him and his children, but he has no interest in doing fun things with his woman, no romance...nothing! He was exactly the same with his ex wife and 2 ex girlfriends.

But this is an astrology site, so i´m wondering about it from an astrologically view. Psychologically, i already know.
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Sep 28, 2021 - 22:09
Synastry & Relationship: Juno contacts
Sun Sign - AquariusWays_of_Leavin' » Northerneuropean
Following...
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Sep 28, 2021 - 12:50
Sun Sign - Scorpiotakita » Northerneuropean
I did everything for him, we lived together in another city for a year to make him feel safe because I believe in him and in his abilities. But it often falls into bouts of depression and pulls me away!
I believe his behavior depends on his childhood!
I can´t stand these mood swings anymore I don´t think there can be more future even if he is the most important person to me
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Sep 28, 2021 - 11:53
Synastry & Relationship: Will I be happier alone?
Sun Sign - Scorpioamandaallansson » Northerneuropean
Interesting perspective, thanks!

I think the vertex thing happened with my first ex, I remember I had vertex aspects in our synastry. We had amazing moments together in the beginning only to make it a living nightmare. He literally pushed me into having relationship with him at that time cause my walls were so high but I also were in a bad situation in my life.

Sadly I haven´t experienced much love or affection within my life. Most of my short relationships has only been temporary cause our believes, future goals and journeys were so different that they couldn´t be aligned. Guys who are different than me usually gets attracted to me and I see that as a problem cause we are unable to relate or understand things on a deeper level spiritually and psychologically. So even if I catch feelings for someone and the chemistry is good between us usually the things that I mentioned usually is the deal breaker further on in the relationship. That´s why I have a tendency to become extremely picky cause other guys may perceive me as being so different in regards of my own lifestyle and what I exclude in my life. Being vegan, not drinking, not partying or having a social life.
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Sep 28, 2021 - 06:41
Synastry & Relationship: Breaking up for good?
Sun Sign - Piscesgerdahagge » Northerneuropean
I guess i think its so hard to leave, because i´ve tried so many times before and i have been through so many separations and since i´m piecs and extremely weak, it´s even harder for me. I guess i see some really good things in this man, like loyalty, stability, he takes care of me and his family, maturity and a nice house by the ocean.
I think i got used to this life, like if he was my father, who died in my early age.

Even if he is mean to me, tells me really awful things when he is mad, like i´m a whore and stupid....i dont even react on it anymore. He doesnt want me to spend too much time with my mother of my friends. He just likes that i´m with him and his family. Because of all our fights i found a small apartment just in case and this is something he just doesnt accept, even though every time we fight he tells me to leave! No matter what i do for him and i change myself, it´s never good enough. I feel that he takes me for granted now, which he of course didnt from the start. He chased me for years and wanted me no matter what. How is it possible for a person to change this much? His love must definitely be gone, or he just became an evil
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Sep 28, 2021 - 02:40
Synastry & Relationship: The most pink-glasses ever.
Sun Sign - VirgoLotusStar » Northerneuropean
Your Saturn in t-square with her Venus and Moon is probably pretty difficult as far as expressing emotions and affection openly and can especially make her feel unloved or underappreciated. Also not helped with by your Venus in her 12th house, she doesnt see your love very clearly. This is exactly what you describe where you down play your feelings or how beautiful you find her... this is what Saturn does in hard aspects especially to a planet like Venus. Recognize part of this is out of insecurity and fear of loss. She will notice if you dont compliment her or appreciate what she does especially a Leo rising needs to be acknowledged. You as Leo understand this too.

Her Pluto in t-square with your Sun and Mars can be ego battles too... south node connections can fizzle out sometimes yes, but sometimes they last a lifetime. Mars/Pluto aspects can start out hot and end up in cold war.

Lilith square Saturn almost double-whammy is standing out to me for some reason, some kind of theme of trying to tame the other´s wilder side maybe?

But you have many good aspects too, all your inner planets are in harmonious signs/elements including your ascendants... this is pretty rare! I think you could work it out if you love each other and seems you do.

You do have Venus and Jupiter conjunct in Leo maybe you have some exagerated expectations or part of you thinks grass can be greener on the other side I dont know. But Great loves dont come around every single day, and dont stay alive by magic, you have to work at it a little too and water the plant, as they say.

I will say there is also a fair share of Uranus hard aspects in both synastry and composite so this can mean ups and downs will be frequent. Especially Moon opposite Uranus goes through moments where there is sudden coldness and distance but they usually dont last.
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Sep 28, 2021 - 00:15
Synastry & Relationship: The most pink-glasses ever.
Sun Sign - Piscesfishscales » Northerneuropean
I don´t think this guy is "chasing pussy", personally.

I felt this post. It seems like a very real relationship, with all the inherent contradictions that come along with them. The good, the bad, the ugly.

You said you couldn´t "see" a future with this girl. It´s important to realize that the future isn´t "seen", it´s created, day by day. I´m not saying that you should try and create a future with this girl because of that, it´s just a general observation about life: keep things in the moment, and create as you go.

You said the relationship has gotten less physical and more spiritual. Sometimes relationships evolve into something very different that what they originated as. I think you´re doing the right thing by being open to, and accepting, the possible changes, even though they might not neccesarily be what you "want", or think you want.

There does seem to be alot of karma in this relationship based on the placements. There is nothing wrong with that. I guess the job here is to work it out in as positive a way as possible, no matter how the relationship evolves.
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Sep 27, 2021 - 21:18
Synastry & Relationship: The most pink-glasses ever.
Sun Sign - Capricornboyakasha the guru » Northerneuropean
Dry those tears and fix that crown, be a king and power to you.
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Sep 27, 2021 - 14:25
Synastry & Relationship: The most pink-glasses ever.
Sun Sign - Capricornboyakasha the guru » Northerneuropean
This was nice to read! I went through something similar too but online. Leaves a mark on your soul, I used to think we were cut from the same cloth, like a dream you don´t want to wake up, I´d even pray for her and everyday was so beautiful this person was like home to me. Losing her felt like it will always rain forever, I´ll have no ground tomorrow to stand on. With time it all fades to black, memories of nobody.
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Sep 27, 2021 - 13:56
Synastry & Relationship: Breaking up for good?
Sun Sign - AquariusCatch-22 » Northerneuropean
This is wisdom.

It´s the point to get them there they want to change, because without their free will, nothing will last. My personal experience is someone really needs to crash to get there. All good advice will be in vain if people are not in a state they want to change.

As a partner, you need to know when to cut your losses and when to keep a line in the pond. That´s extremely difficult and it depends on the partner´s strength too.

I´m quite lucky my wife was out of her burn out when I crashed. It may have been very different now.
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Sep 27, 2021 - 13:29
Synastry & Relationship: The most pink-glasses ever.
Sun Sign - Pisces11 » Northerneuropean
I think it’s not so good approach. :41: You’re looking for astrologer to convince you, if she’s your wife. When you’re not sure yourself. If you see no future, how can one change your mind?

It should be reversed. You are determined to marry, but go to astrologer , check, if it s not doomed, and how to avoid/ deal with possible problems.
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