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Mar 3, 2022 - 00:55
Synastry & Relationship: why do i find myself in relationships with these square aspects ?

Also his Venus conjunct your Vertex point is a predetermined meeting
I see you getting obsessed by his presence and his way of "loving" you, (more in a sexual way)
The connection with this person can change you
Be careful because I think it may not be the same for the other person. However your Pluto in his 5th house indicates that he also enjoys you as a sexual partner
I suggest you to avoid getting deeper with this person because it´s not good for you
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Oct 20, 2021 - 11:53

Well I can relate to some feelings you described indeed but as it´s mixed with my Pluto conjunct ASC it´s more complex.
"Reflecting on what I think of myself (strengths and weaknesses) has been good. I think trying to be realistic"
Yes I think these are good advice :):) and don´t worry that I´m already very realistic (almost pessimistic sometimes) with my Saturn squaring many of my planets


"I also think there´s nothing wrong with talking this stuff out with yourself or another person, or even asking "Do You Happen To Also Have XYZ Thoughts . . . ?" with a friend. It helps me understand other people without this aspect I think."
My Scorpio Mars may not like the idea :´) but my others planets want !! Hahaha
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Oct 16, 2021 - 19:39

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Oct 16, 2021 - 16:02

I can relate to the stubborn and irrational part too haha
"learning from mistakes, and accepting everything as a learning experience in general"
Me too
"I REALLY value my privacy and I do feel uneasy when my privacy is being infringed upon, and that kind of thing. My perception of self is a little critical from time to time"
Me too haha
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Apr 1, 2021 - 20:04
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

That being said, just looking at your astrology, I noticed you have Mars square Pluto, so I wonder if there is any subconsious fear behind this for you. If it´s not a question of fear of intimacy or something like that you feel is holding you back and it´s just because you haven´t found someone you feel like doing that with yet, there is nothing wrong with that. Plus, Virgo tends to have high standards... there is a pickiness about the sign. So having Sun and Mars in Virgo can also make you very picky about men in general and who you want to be physical with. Just saying... I have Mars in Virgo too, I know how that goes, but keep that in mind so you don´t eventually miss out on a good person either because of too high expectations.
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Apr 1, 2021 - 09:44
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

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Apr 1, 2021 - 05:58
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

I thought it may be in the realm of possibility based off of your descriptions. Thanks for understanding I was genuinely asking. May be helping you get to the bottom of your question - no astrology perhaps needed? Never know.

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Apr 1, 2021 - 05:53
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?


Hey Ro, give the girl a break... She´s young and there´s no rush!
She´s still a kid!
The first boy who planted a kiss on me got his nose bloodied!
Sent home.
Crying.
That little jerk! He´s lucky that´s all I did to him!
Meanwhile there were other girls ´dreaming´ of him kissing them.

Not everyone wants this sort of thing in childhood.
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Apr 1, 2021 - 05:28
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

Not judging, and I´m not being facetious. Genuinely wondering if that could be a reason?
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Apr 1, 2021 - 05:13
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

" but I´ve never had my first kiss and am still a virgin"
I´m confused...
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Apr 1, 2021 - 04:50
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

I have an ascendant in Capricorn and my Saturn in the 4th house.
Before I was HIGHLY CONSERVATIVE, in fact I had a hard time associating with people my age, I felt uncomfortable, I felt more comfortable with older people.
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Apr 1, 2021 - 04:16
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

Also the Roman version of Artemis is the Goddess Diana. She is 7LE16 in your chart which puts her conjunct Jupiter which is oppossed Neptune and these two create a wide T-square with 7th house Venus.
I have had many and various life and love experiences. Artemis is oppossed my Venus, and Diana is in wide conjunction with Venus. Diana is less than a degree conjunct my IC.
Artemis is one of my favorite Goddesses, I sometimes feel like an embodiment of her. She is widely conjunct my MC. Other Goddesses on my MC are Irene, Goddess of Peace, and Metis, a titan and 1st wife to Zeus, goddess of wisdom and deep thought. (Saturn is also up there). My Artemis and Diana are in a wide opposition.
I did not look at the other asteroids in your chart. I was just trying to pinpoint the ones that might pertain to your post.
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Apr 1, 2021 - 04:10
Natal Astrology: other monogamous / non hook-up placements ?

Someone who is happy and secure within themselves!
I can so relate to what you have written. I don´t judge others either, but there´s something in me that is very serious about intimate relationships and loyalty. I cannot overstate how precious this is to me.
I´m not much of a chart reader and have no clue what aspects would determine ones willingness to engage or not. Generally, I see gender more of an indicator than planets - although I´m sure some planetary configurations can add more energy to the natural drive endowed by hormones.
But we both have planets on IC. That´s what is private.
For me, the moon is there - so it has to ´feel right´ before I can even dream of intimacy with someone. This happens --- rarely! I don´t care how fabulous someone is, or how much they may be interested in me. If I´m not feeling ´it´ - it won´t happen. Even if I feel ´it´ - if there is the slightest doubt in my head, it won´t go far, either... a kiss perhaps. The kiss tells me all I need to know.
You´ve got Saturn on the IC. That´s a STOP sign. Or at very least a SLOW DOWN warning. Responsibility and right timing comes to mind. So does commitment. And Maturity. With your Sun and Mars in Virgo, you might be rather ´discerning´ and there´s nothing wrong with that! Good for you! Being willing to wait for what you want is smart. It´s also nice know that you won´t die without it, either!
Perhaps someone else can try to explain the astro reasons that influence intimacy but really - does it matter? Do YOU. You´re happy. I´m happy. Nothing wrong with knowing what you like and want - and that you´re willing to wait for it.
You´re so young yet.
There´s a ton of time ahead to experience such matters. When the time is right, you´ll know it.
Until then, keep enjoying your amazing independence.
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Jan 10, 2021 - 11:13
Synastry & Relationship: help with this relationship (edit: not actually plutonian haha) . . ?

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Jan 10, 2021 - 02:45
Synastry & Relationship: help with this relationship (edit: not actually plutonian haha) . . ?

You are strong in the signs of both his Venus and Moon, and the rulers of your respective 7th house conjunct. Your Moons are in trine harmonious signs and in trine/conjunct with Pluto (deep and comforting bond), his Venus is conjunct you Mars and Sun (strong marker of attraction, he finds value in you), you have also your Venuses and Mars is compatible signs (good for getting along, find enjoyable things to do together). His Sun falls into your 7th house, natural partnership house, and both your Moons in each other first, very compassionate aspect, can read each other´s mood and you go to each other for support, however sometimes over-sensitivity to one another and taking things too personally.
You are naturally more the obsessive Plutonian type having Moon conjunct Pluto square Mars in your natal chart and Venus in Scorpio. He´s more laid back and reserved in expressing his feelings having his Venus in Virgo (square Saturn and Pluto). It takes time for Venus in Virgo to warm up and fall in love, they are not instinctive as Venus Scorpio they´re more rationalizing.
You also have obsessive elements together like his Moon conjunct your Lilith, this is usually a very irresistable aspect, especially the Moon person gets magnetized by Lilith. And your Mars square his Pluto, his Venus square your Pluto. These are all very sexual energies, potentially obsessive for both but difficult to deal with, because Pluto never likes to reveal his hand so I think both of you might be hiding your feelings to some extent.
Some of the blockage here is coming from his Saturn square your Mars and Sun... Both Pluto and Saturn square your Mars can be quite triggering of insecurities for both of you, but especially you might feel he holds back, can even feel sometimes he may criticise you or worry what he might think of you.
Overall I do see attraction here, but more partnership focused from your perspective, and because his Saturn is more able to restrain your Mars advances... You may feel he holds back a lot or even one or both has a fear of rejection... but I don´t know, I still see compatibility regardless of that Saturn aspect.
I´d be interested to see the composite chart.
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Jan 9, 2021 - 22:31
Synastry & Relationship: help with this relationship (edit: not actually plutonian haha) . . ?

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Jan 9, 2021 - 22:19
Synastry & Relationship: help with this relationship (edit: not actually plutonian haha) . . ?

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Jan 9, 2021 - 22:17
Synastry & Relationship: help with this relationship (edit: not actually plutonian haha) . . ?


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