Sexual astrology

December 4, 2020 at 17:55 (UT/GMT)
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion
Sexual astrology
Aside from venus and Mars, what do you guys like to look at when looking at the sexual compatibility of two partners? I personally love to involve lilith in it, as well as a few asteroids.

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December 4, 2020 at 18:41
(Cancer) AlsaceTX
Yes Lilith

I look at Pluto. The raw power can manifest in the bedroom for sure. Of course, it usually indicates karmic issues within the individuals playing out.

Aspects in Scorpio / 8th house

Jupiter aspects to sexual placements / issues.

Mercury because our minds are associated with sex.

And also Uranus can spark sexual aspects (must...resist....anal...joke...)

What asteroids do you look at?
December 4, 2020 at 18:57
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » AlsaceTX
I typically also like to include Juno for example, but also Asmodeus aaaand any sadist/masochist asteroids. Think Sado, Pholus, etc.
December 4, 2020 at 18:57
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32
I usually look at the 2nd/8th house axis, the 4th/10th house axis, and 12th/6th house axis since this is where you can see the Marriage in the 10th house, the hidden places in the 12th, 4th, and 8th house, and the 6th/12th house always brings in the third parties who interfere.

I do believe Mars an Venus are needed for sex, but it depends on the archetype and degrees.

5th house also is where you find the dating/affairs.

12th house seems to be where there is a lot of hidden information even if there are no planets here and looking at asteroids.

I don´t believe Sun/Moon have to look at each other for sex.

Jupiter doesn´t really seem to be as big of a deal unless it´s close degrees to Venus or Mars.

Usually Moon and Mars attract one another.

Mars/Pluto can be conjunct and may not be the most healthy sex, but does give that Pluto inner transformation with sex.

Jupiter/Pluto I know does as well or Neptune/Pluto (Scorpio). Neptune More sexual fantasies. Jupiter/Pluto might be a sexual lesson of sort.

Uranus conjunct Mercury can involved. Uranus conjunct Sun. (More lighting up a match or igniting the switch).

You have to remember there is physical sex, then there is virtual sex.

So you´re going to have combination of Neptune, Uranus, and Mercury, and there´s an element to what different people see is sexual gratification. Which I can tell your on Virtual Reality there is many who really were coming out more under the avatar and false name.

Which you might then find Pisces/Sag/Gemini/Virgo really into the sexual entertainment, Virtual Reality, the Voice, the Cam, and using the five senses of touch, taste, smell, sound, and sight.

Someone with heavy Earth might not be into it so much and prefer the physical reality.

Then you have to know this is internal world or introverted world of the lower half of the chart, versus the External world in the upper half of the chart.

You have Aquarian individuals who might be more into some of the stuff that is coming out that is robotic feminine or masculine. Perhaps a lot of Uranus planets in their chart and breaking out of the conventional way of sex in many different forms.

Scorpio/Taurus are your main old souls that usually are dealing with karma in sex, since they maybe role playing, dominatrix, Slave/Master, and get into some different situations where you can be violent.

Depends on how much is in there charts, the aspects, the planets in the whole chart.

This is what I consider more the shadow side of the archetypes when it start digging in the subconscious mind and some of them are figuring out how far they want to push the psyche in fear.

Depends on the person your talking about and their personal natal chart.
December 4, 2020 at 19:21
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » goldenlion32
Wow, thank you so very much for the detailed answer!

I´ll be sure to add some of that to my astrology folders :)
December 4, 2020 at 21:27
(Libra) Castlewallsxo » AlsaceTX
What would Saturn and South Node in the 8th house indicate?
December 5, 2020 at 01:16
(Scorpio) ancient_astrology
The fifth house and the planets in the fifth house.

The ruler of the fifth house and its condition

The relationship between 5th house ruler and 1st house ruler

Lot of Eros and its ruler

Venus, especially for female sexuality

Mars, for male sexuality.

Aspects between Mars and Venus

In addition to the lot of Eros, I would also look at the Lot of Marriage, even if this is just a "bootie call" we´re looking at.

Those are the things that first come to mind.

Things I would not look at:

8th house. 8th house ONLY pertains to sexuality if you´re a necrophiliac. In that case, and that case only, do I think that the 8th house is important for sexuality. I chuckle about this every time I see someone mention the 8th house and sexuality. One lesson to learn: the ABC of Sign/house relationship is a modern concoction of Alan Leo and it is absolutely the worst thing and the thing most likely to lead you astray by modern astrology.
December 5, 2020 at 01:24
(Scorpio) ancient_astrology » ancient_astrology
I should also add Saturn and the Lot of Fortune. Certain placements of Saturn can show sexual problems, including impotence or frigidity.
December 5, 2020 at 01:26
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32 » ancient_astrology
Lol. I must have been dreaming then with the pices men then.
December 5, 2020 at 01:28
(Scorpio) ancient_astrology » goldenlion32
I don´t know what you´re talking about. Did I mention anything about Pisces? I just mentioned stuff I would look at in a chart to determine something about an individual´s sexuality. I am not even talking about synastry here.
December 5, 2020 at 02:01
(Pisces) fishscales
Pluto... Although Plutonian sexuality is something to be wary of...

Lilith...although I think it´s somewhat overrated influence-wise, when linked by conjunction with certain planets or bodies it can be meaningful...

The asteroid Lust (only when supported by other aspects of the chart)

The 8th house

To a lesser degree, the 5th house

Lately, I´ve taken to looking at Uranus as certain branches of gnostic astrology it is the planet of sex

You of course also have to look at aspects... Mars obviously influences sexuality... And that sexuality is going to be different if Mars is aspected by Pluto than if it is aspected by Venus, etc.

Also, look at the overall "tone" of the it a very "sexual" chart? Not a sexual chart? Somewhere in between...?
December 5, 2020 at 02:05
(Sagittarius) GothPunkNY
I use True Lilith and Black Lilith and I´m always fascinated when something ends up between them!
December 5, 2020 at 07:43
System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
There is something tricky regarding to sex - generally.

Sex is just a tool for harmonization of two principles, where you create the third element out of two.

People have an inner urge to create that third element (to bound, to marry).

People are not alone until they decide to bound and fail in that, and that is where the pain is actually starting. They fail because they are using the tool (sex) the wrong way and for the wrong cause.

Closeness of two (couple) is unbearable when there is no bound that has to be rejuvenated from time to time trough that process of harmonization (sex). If people decide to be together without that bound and potential for harmonization, than they end up in their personal hell of solitude where there is no physical sex good enough to compensate that lack of bound.

If you have a potential to bound and harmonize, than quality of physical sex is irrelevant. In this case any form of sex (as a physical act) is enugh and leads to fundamental satisfaction.

Sex, as a physical activity (when there is no potential for bounding and harmonization) is noting more than a gym exercize. So, if you are practicing sex on this level, you can have a "great time" a lot of hormonal shots and eventually a baby, but it will always leave you "unfinished".

So, yes there are a lot of elements in the game (Mars, Venus, Eros...) but besides any of this physical aspects (to be clear, you need to have at least one to start this alchemical proces of harmonization and bounding) aspects between Sun and Moon can often lead you to the real spot but not necessarily. If you, by chance, have SN near Sun or Moon, than chances for harmonization drop rapidly.

I have a natal Venus:191:Eros:191:Chiron:191:DC (not easy shit to deal with) and this is all from my personal inner insight... :15:
December 5, 2020 at 11:08
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32 » ancient_astrology
Your saying the 8th house has nothing to do with sex. Well then my Pisces House in the 8th must not be telling the truth. :61:

Pisces Sun for example, I can tell this dude has no issue with tons of women. And never cared for him too much, but Pisces is one of the most sexual signs. And most of the time there´s some Pisces that falls in there with the men. So to say you laugh at people who say 8th house has to do with sex is kind of not the truth.

I have another friend with Uranus in Sagittarius, Mercury in Sagittarius, Saturn in Sagittarius, and Venus in Sag in the 8th house, and that definitely is a lot of sex.

I just don´t understand why you believe there isn´t sex there.
December 5, 2020 at 11:24
(Taurus) nutelina » Moon_Queen
Finally someone with a decent answer! :61: :2: That´s nice!
December 5, 2020 at 12:58
(Pisces) fishscales » Moon_Queen
Good post, MQ...

The topic does need to be investigated from the levels you mentioned...

There are many astrological influences that may indicate the presence of lust...such as black moon Lilith...but these influences would not confer an ability to use sex for its true purpose...
December 6, 2020 at 01:58
(Taurus) IIyyaarr13
Sex is where the surest defeats of scepticism against Astrology lay!
Every year :151:, :154:, & :153: sojourn in :178: and sexual tension explodes! (To a lesser degree eighth house)
December 6, 2020 at 07:44
(Taurus) » nutelina
System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
True story... :37:
December 6, 2020 at 07:51
(Taurus) » fishscales
System message: Post has been written by user Moon_Queen, who already deleted profile on this website:
Yes, sex is way more complex than people are taught, it is way more than lust.

If we use sex only to have fun it is just like we are trying to sink a nail with an iphone.
December 6, 2020 at 23:37
(Cancer) guitarperson2
Honestly dominant planets. Typically people have a dominant planet mine being my sun (moon too). I get along great with Leo’s since I was a kid, also best memories with Leo partners.
December 6, 2020 at 23:42
(Cancer) guitarperson2 » guitarperson2
Furthermore OP I glanced at your chart and your recursion is based on mercury venus and mars. I’m seeing those as your most active planets. Mercury libra pointing to Scorpio venus pointing to Virgo mars. Something to consider :)
December 6, 2020 at 23:44
(Cancer) guitarperson2 » Moon_Queen
That’s a hilarious analogy haha ❤️
December 7, 2020 at 23:57
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » Castlewallsxo
I guess Saturn could indicate a preference for being restricted/restricting someone, aka tied up stuff
December 7, 2020 at 23:59
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » ancient_astrology
I mean, you probably have a more traditional approach to astrology which is also great, but I think it´s really each astrologer´s intuition with the help of which they can read a chart as accurately as possible.
- a libra mercury

However, yes, I definitely agree on looking at the 5th house
December 8, 2020 at 00:02
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » fishscales
Well I have lilith conjunct rising, lust conjunct venus in scorpio and Mars Square Pluto, 8th house cancer with Leo jupiter in it and taurus 5th house........ Yep.
December 8, 2020 at 00:05
(Virgo) WitchOfOrion » guitarperson2
Thank you!
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