Let´s talk the 7th house... - Discussions, questions

Nola_la No planets in 7th house

Not a biggest fan of this house, but Aquarius on the cusp of 7th...I think it could be better.

I have such a conviction that people see this house as a lucky one - the first thing they see in it is marriage, but seriously it involves many kinds of relationships....
It seems to me that we are superficially looking at this house as the good one, and it also has its dark side - this is where we meet our enemies (?).

I believe this house can bring many problems...

But I´m just guessing.

In Whole Sign Systems I have Venus in 7th house...Something to think about.

Angelina My 7th house is in Aries and Jupiter sits here, part of fortune as well. So Mars (and Pluto?) rules this house, Mars is in 1st.
Well, what can I say. Partnership, both love and other forms, are really very strong as positive in my life. I was never alone, I could choose from varies men. And not just random average men, cause mostly all women can choose from many men in their surrounding, but those, who were in my way were intelligent, loving, caring,successful, born in beautiful families and so on... And now I have a wonderful man for a long time:)

RohiniMoon » Angelina Interesting, I too have Mars in the 1st....aspecting the 7th.

Do you find that you may also attract people who like to control you? Or try to impose some sort of domination over you in some way ?

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There was no 7th house planet on a friend´s map, but there was an "aquarius" sign. But when we run the astroids, there was aquarius ceres and liliht in the 7th house. And indeed he is independent in his relationships and never wants to carry responsibility. Can the reason be ceres or lilith?

Angelina » Nola_la I don´t know if You have in mind marriage officially, or an important love relationship. But talking about officially being married, I agree, that mostly all people believe, that marriage is the main goal in life. Very often they even don´t care if their marriage is really bringing them happiness. They just need to be officially married:D
I have people in my life, who needed to get married officially even seeing they will get divorced, cause having status divorced sounded better, than being never married. And yes, their marriage lasted for one year...
I never valued an official marriage. I value true relationship where people love each other, care for each other, are faithfull and value their relationship a lot. Are they with rings and with the same surname is the last thing what bothers me.

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My 7th house works as a complete rebel. Anti-sun uranus and jupiter square uranus...Sometimes I feel the sagittarius shadow sides. There is instability and conflict in relationships. So I experienced this with "marriage"

RohiniMoon » RohiniMoon Another fun fact of the 7th house: it also represents others doing favors for us. .

I find that to be true.

Angelina » RohiniMoon My man has a very strong personality, but he doesn´t try to control me. But naturally when a person is this type, he can´t handle his power and dominates in some situations. But to tell the truth I like this kind of men whom I have to calm down. I was not so happy with very soft personalities as I am with stronger men:)

Pixel My 7th house is in Taurus with Sedna and Eros in it. Venus its ruler is in the 9th.

I often get in relationships where men have their hearts are taken (but they don´t tell me, I realize it afterwards, or I end up knowing it...), or they´re coming to use me... that´s my feelings about it, because that is what happened until now...

RohiniMoon » Pixel I would think that you would bring them some kind of luck seeing it´s in the 9th house..

I´ve heard that about my placement before..moon rules my 9th house sits in the 7th..said to bring luck to my partner

Pixel » RohiniMoon If that´s what happen, why not, if I bring some luck for others... but it hurts too because I feel like I´m left on the side of the road... I leave before.

Sus » RohiniMoon My 7th is ruled by Mercury (gemini) and have Mars conjunct descendant. Mercury is in my 1st meaning relationships are very important to me. But also means attract Bold and agressive people into my life. It sucks. I´m a very harsh person in relationship wanting everything to go in my way.. well, my pisces crush is giving me a hell of a lesson!! Rushness and harshness is not tolerable for him. But I guess my rx Mars is not so assertive and this make things worst

nikkia My 7th house is empty. Rarely dull, though.

The cusp ruler is Mercury that is Rx & exalted placed in my 2nd house stellium that´s also intercepted. Mercury is also the cusp ruler of my 6th and 9th houses, too. Placidus can get whacky and confusing.

I am starting to think I would´ve been better off had I married a career that brought me around the globe in search of the truth via research or journalism or both. Too late now.

With Cancer in my 7th, it makes perfect sense that home and homeland are important to me, though --and that people actually come to me and my house when they need protection and nurturing and assistance. I am the caretaker and protector here, not the recipient of. Come one, come all.
I have been ´home´ to many in need. I´m cool with that. Glad to help.

It´s been said the ´doubled´ body 7th house signs means more than one marriage.

I cannot attest to more than one marriage, but I can sadly say that my marriage ended after 28 years together - rather tragically... with far reaching consequence. Needless to say, houses 2, 6, 7 and 9 got decimated nearly overnight. Actually, all the houses got hit one way or another. Mercury moves fast while aspecting every other planet along the way, so it was... mind-blowing.

Having mostly empty houses in my chart, I have noticed the empty houses are a bit easier to survive with transits. It flows better sometimes. Smoother sailing.

The houses with planets in them tend to be more challenging, for me anyway.

It´s like transits are trying to pass by thick crowd - it´s harder to get past without into bumping into something from mildly annoying to a head-on collision with causalities. Depending.

goldenlion5 Hmm..I have North Node here. It tends to be layers of Aquarius in the conventional and unconventional. I believe it has more to do with being in relationships since I must have been focused on being the lone wolf in past lives.

Although, it´s just about every relationship I have with people in general. Aquarius is just a huge spectrum of developmentally disabled, mentally impaired, physically disabled, different gender preferences, the weird, the unusual, the innovators, the misfits, the creatives, different cultures, diffrent religions/spiritual tribes, and I´m always surrounded by all types of relationships. Whether criminals, ethical, or unethical people. It´s just the house of Humanity or Serving Humanity for me since there´s an interception between 6th and 7th.

I have to laugh now that I know astrology, because my mother thought I lost my marbles in 2013 because I had mormons that showed up in my life, and different people just show up by divine appointment. I don´t go looking for them by any means. And they´re usually just around for a short time to give me a different angle on humanity.

I worked as a nurse aide as well and saw how different people lived in different social classes. Different cultures, different disabilities.

I´m always breaking barriers online and offline. In 2020 it´s just a normal thing and nothing really surprises me at all after the last 16 years. I´ve seen so much, heard so many life stories, and still do.

I seen somewhere it was the Wedding Planner. But I haven´t done much of that, but I did teach on relationships for a few years online. I just don´t know if I want to or not now.

You learn all the shades of marriage and relationships with Aquarius in the 7th. Which is why it´s getting challening teaching on it in 2020 because basically there is so many different types and beliefs around the world along with sex.

And of course brought me to Astrology.

It is about higher consciousness, higher vibrations, higher messaging, and most people around me offline can not understand me because I´m not wanting to follow the conventional world much anymore.

My North Node must be working so far in evolving me into the Aquarius. Which is kind of funny since they´re usually the one´s teaching me to be Aquarius because they insist on 100% freedom and then I had to figure out how to go from the conventional christian/catholic girl to the unconventional girl in 16 years since Saturn in Leo I think it´s been when it hit my South Node Leo.

That´s a lot of miles and a zillion people who showed up along the way to evolve my soul into Aquarius. I wonder if I graduate to the next phase when Saturn in Aquarius hits my North Node.

Then another long journey to evolve once again and push the limits until Saturn in Leo if I last that long.

What kind of relationships will I learn about now?

Luna Alba My 7th house is in Scorpio; Jupiter and Pluto are there.🍒👀

Pluto is also involved in a 7th house T-square involving the 4th house Moon and the 10th house Saturn.

As you can imagine, relationships are not the easiest part of my life, but the struggles I keep encountering there have indeed been a source of constant transformation and positive change :).

Sort of...no pain, no gain philosophy. Difficulties in this area pretty much shaped who I am and pushed me to work on myself, which is quite beneficial in a broader sense 🍀

Jupiter brings luck usually, and expansiveness.

I don´t know if it´s beneficial to be placed in the 7th, though. I read various, divergent opinions about it. I think in Vedic it is rather considered a negative placement.

It might bring more affairs also...I´m not sure I realistically can expect a significant "one" to share all my life with.

Not that I would not like it, in a very ideal scenario, but it doesn´t really seem like the layout of my 7th house...

Opinions on this? 🤓🤓🤓


The good part is that it is in a sextile with my 9th house Stellium, close to MC, also.

A 7th house Pluto...beside the transformative nature which can lead to positive growth...I don´t know what it will bring.
I don´t think I like this placement :)). Not at all.

It screams transformative relations, but I have yet to experience transformations that come with no pain attached.

stigmí » Sinem I think lilith can be that reason, but also aquarius on desc need to be independent.

stigmí I have desc in gemini but very close to cancer, and on desc in 7th house venus in cancer. Father of my son is cancer, second long term relationship - he had asc in cancer, and my actual partner has luna in first house. So maybe somehow it fits.

gardensav Anyone with empty 7th house?

RohiniMoon » gardensav If it´s empty..just look to where the ruler is

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Thank you very much for your answer, dear. You are so elegant Maybe it could be lilith and the 7th house is the aquarius sign. You are right!Venus is square to the sagittarius sthelium in the 5th house. And maybe we can add that too

gardensav » RohiniMoon Ruler of my empty 7th house is Aries. What does it mean?

RohiniMoon » gardensav So where is Mars in your chart?

gardensav » RohiniMoon In Libra in 12th house.

Sus » gardensav "The activities of the 7th house serve the agenda of the 12th house. Cooperation, conflict, significant partnerships and negotiations serve the need to release grief and sorrow, spend time alone, melt into formless bliss, escape from reality and become aware of the self-undoing. You choose a partner who helps you escape from reality. You choose a partner who makes you aware of the ways you sabotage yourself. You choose a partner who respects your need for time alone. You want a partner who seems ethereal or elusive. You want a partner who is spiritual and otherworldly. Your partner likes to meditate. Your partner does dream work. Partners support your forays into the paranormal. Business relationships can be the self-undoing. Contracts can be the self-undoing. The desire for marriage can be the self-undoing. Marriage partners might reinforce your bad habits. Marriage makes you aware of your bad habits. Open enemies appear in dreams. Marriage partners come to you through dreams. Marriage partners are ghosts. Marriage partners cause you grief and sorrow. Open enemies are ghosts. You argue in your sleep." In astrofix.net

RohiniMoon » Sus "Marriage partners are ghosts."

Whoa. That sounds terrifying.