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fishscales » SpaceChild You forgot to upload the aspect grid SC

Just delete this post after you do it

Olenna I would say watch out for that T-square involving Mercury, Pluto and Uranus. Highly volatile aspects when it comes for communicating. I would say she`s digging in her heels rather drastically. I`m right and your wrong and i don`t care about your opinion kind of attitude.

Mrav sensitive and passionate
NN in 2nd can bring "bad mouth" but that will be also how she fights for hers. She could have advocate career or some other where she will fight with words. mercury (libra-justice)and higher octave mercury(Uranus, freedom, wide masses of people) 2-8H

I would only tell that she is opinionated, but these squers will teach her deal with it and find diplomatic way with time... Better than to have passive chart.

Give her something to do with hands. Make jewelry, white board and colors, puzzles (those with many parts) legos... (this with art, ruler of the 2nd venus, mercury-hands, creative work)

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Hello SpaceChild!

This is not astrology-related but thought that I would chime in as I have worked in a primary school with children (including pupils with ASN) and am quite interested in child psychology.

To me the combination of school, the age of 5 and the words ´harsh´, ´challenging´ and ´altercations´ suggest that she is not coping well with something. This could be anything- if it´s her second year at the school she may be finding it tricky to conform to new social rules and expectations or being in a new part of the building. It is also extremely common for mild academic difficulties to be disguised with aggressive behaviour. It could be more abstract and personal to her too- only you guys will know.

I have interpreted this as she is instigating the altercations- is that right? As a sensitive person and child-watcher I can definitely say that if she is *being* harsh and challenging, she is finding something harsh and challenging.

(I was thinking about all of this today, before I had read your post)

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SpaceChild » fishscales Oops for that.. I tried to copy image address like I did for the chart I guess it (well obviously) didn´t work.

SpaceChild » Olenna This is very very accurate. I have a hard time getting her to listen majority of the time. Thank you for replying, I appreciate it.

SpaceChild » Mrav Thank you for replying Mrav, I appreciate it.
She is actually quite the puzzle finisher, and she is good at it. We´ve made jewelry too and I have this large white board I´ve been meaning to hang on the wall for her as well. So thank you for these suggestions on doing things with her hands. :) And for the rest of your input as well.

SpaceChild » berrycat It´s her first time at school- and on top of that she has basically never been around any other children. Just my best friends daughter who is 3-4 years older and that was rare they would come over. I am a major homebody because of my anxieties and I fear I´ve set her up for some failures in the social department because of my own issues.

Yes she instigated the altercation.
Could it be, do you think, that she is finding it harsh and challenging listening and having to pay attention to teachers (in regards to Olennas post.. cant think exactly what Olenna said at the moment but it reminded me that this oculd be related as to her behavior)

Thank you for your input!

fishscales » SpaceChild You can also DL it and upload it from your device

Astro-Seek.com » SpaceChild System message: Post has been written by user berrycat, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Yes, that is massive! She´s still just very little and learning how to relate to others and be part of large group.

That´s very cool and self-aware of you to see your social habits and own your anxieties- many parents won´t do that. Children are sponges and almost entirely reliant on the example of an adult to show them how to respond to situations. They also psychically and non-verbally learn. While there´s no doubt that she´ll have picked up how you feel about people (and have those same feelings running like a ´programme´) she can be easily supported to re-learn that socialising is safe since she´s so young. She will also learn social skills more and more but I would suggest talking really positively about her having relationships with her classmates.

She could be! You could look at what your own relationship (regarding discipline and authority) with her is like for the answer. Is she an only child? I am an only child and lived with my mum (who I was very close to and was not strict)- when I went to school I was horrified at being told what to do! Again, being an only child would explain her issues with other children too. Personally, what I´m hearing from you is that the other children are overwhelming to her.

The transition from home/kindergarten/nursery is also a big change. The amount of one-to-one attention that she´s receiving will be less and in the context of school, the day is very structured, it´s a big new building and she´s just been given 20 new peers that she has to spend her time with as an equal. Is she good at communicating with you about her feelings? I´m sure that you do brilliant talks with her often but a constant space for her to air her worries would probably be really therapeutic for her, even if this means that it´s you doing the checking-in. Always very important to have unconditional positive regard even if she´s driving you mad!

Anyway- she´s not weird! She´s little. It sounds like you are really self-aware and doing a lovely job with her, I´m sure that you both will be fine.

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fishscales Noticed Venus is combust because it is conjunct the sun.

This means Venus is literally "burnt up" under the rays of the sun.

Her sun is in Scorpio, so her desire to get what she wants is very strong, but she may not always employ "Venusian decorum" while doing so...

I agree with what Olenna said about the Mercury/Uranus/Pluto t-square.

Pluto is putting pressure on that Mercury/Uranus opposition, and the configuration could cause some explosive, passionate, and abrupt thoughts and speech that may seem to come out of nowhere. Stubbornness too.

That Uranus in Aries/Mercury in Libra opposition can really create a conflict between explosive, uncompromising self assertion (Uranus in Aries) and diplomatic, harmonious communication (Mercury in Libra).

I don´t have the t-square, but I have Mercury loosely opposed to Uranus and Pluto, so I can kind of relate to the energy

Keep in mind I´m not taking the whole chart into account here..just aspects I noticed that relate to the question...

fishscales One other thing... I noticed she has Chiron conjunct descendant too... I have this aspect as well

I think this makes people very prone to being hurt by others...and it´s almost as if the expectation of being hurt by others is a "pre-existing condition"

This may sometimes cause them to go on the offensive to protect themselves, and possibly end up hurting others in the process

Not proud to admit this, but I think that´s one of the ways I manifest it

On the opposite side of the coin, I think Chiron conj DSC can give a special talent to heal people of some of their deeper wounds...

NessaMira » SpaceChild The first thing I would do is look at her draconian chart. Children often manifest that chart a little more closely due to their short time here. I would also focus on the aspects to her moon. The issue with school is that children when they are learning a new skill set often don´t do well in the timed environment and she looks to be one who will want to complete what she is doing and she also may have a problem with the constant interruptions.

SpaceChild Hey yall... WOndering about my daughters transits for yesterday.. basically trying to see if anyone can accurately pinpoint something. The exact time is pretty approximate.

SpaceChild » SpaceChild sidenote : I thought this thread was dead/would be dead.. havent been on to look at replies sorry

Astro-Seek.com » SpaceChild System message: Post has been written by user _Moon_Queen_, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I could try but....

I´m using sideral calculation and need more elements as positions of the Ceres, Juno, Vesta and Pallas asteroids.
Since there is no yet such possibility here, I could use calculations from another site, and in that case, I will need whole data to enter myself.

BTW I usually apply transits and solar arc to get more precise insight.

SpaceChild » _Moon_Queen_ I´ll PM you, thank you

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Hello again

Here it is....
Sidereal


The most active fields of her life are going to be her own body (senses, creativity, physical growth, needs) and communication (action, travels, movements, talk, thoughts) and from those two fields, most of her other life fields are going to be fed.
Her life goal is her emotional purity and balance that is going to be achieved throughout entire life experience and constantly challenged by social demands related to physical expressions (blockades in physical expressions), and by high expectations from friendships. She will have the impression that everyone can be a loving friend, and she might be constantly hurt by disappointments, realizing that people aren´t always friendly and loving as she thinks they are.

She is generally self-oriented and self-confident and wants best for herself.
All her needs related to her body needs are going to be satisfied trough movement and communication, by traveling, writing, talking, and that is something that will fulfill her energetically. She will probably in the future earn money that way. Most of her money she is going to spend on herself, on travels, books, and on things that are socially demanded (she will probably be trend fashion follower). All her intellectual potential she is going to use to get as many assets as possible, so, according to all this, it is most possible that she is going to be wealthy.
She will be willing to communicate and make friends internationally and that might be her main motivation to travel. Her travels and worldwide communication are going to be her most important lesson sources. Besides this, she will probably choose to work something where she will able to travel and communicate. Her work is going to be the place where she´ll meet and satisfy her need to love and to be loved (it could be a life partner or job, but that´s the field where she´s going to experience love). Work she´s about to choose will demand respect of social standards that sometimes could be perceived as pressure, and this might be a little obstacle for receiving life lessons needed for her life goal (emotional balance). She will gladly express her feeling in familiar, emotionally trustful surroundings. She will learn a lot about feeling, observing her own body reactions.

TRANSITS - out of major transiting today´s elements I see:
1. Uranus is blocking her needs to express herself fully to herself and to society and that is probably giving her unease and feeling of lack.
2. Powerfull creative energy conjunction (Venus and Mercury) that is irritating her body forcing it to move and express all the time causing her emotional outbursts.

SOLAR ARC – predictions
1 At the age of 9, she will experience first deeper disappointment by friend´s behavior and take first lessons for overcoming emotional disbalances.
2 at the age of 11 she will develop a strong need for traveling and communicating.
3 and she might find her love at the age of 32.

And... that´s what I see here

SpaceChild » _Moon_Queen_ Thank you! I appreciate your reply very much.

I can definitely see the Transits #1 Uranus blocking.

Is there anything in today or yesterdays transits that would indicate an injury? I´d like to look into those if you see that anywhere.

Astro-Seek.com » SpaceChild System message: Post has been written by user _Moon_Queen_, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Yes,

Mars that stands for our being, in general, is "irritated" (from the first house) by transiting Venus conjunction Mercury. - causing excitements on the whole being level
The first house (House of Mars) ruler, Sun, positioned in the 2nd house (ruled by Ceres activated by Vesta) is blocked by Uranus (together with Venus - that now presents our physical body including all our senses) - causing changeable blockings that catches and releases periodically. - the feeling of unease and anxiousness

indicates a high possibility of injuries caused by uncoordinated close energy flows.

This first transit (Uranus) will stay longer but the second one will release in a few days when it´ll come next challenge...

Generally this all period until the end of the year is going to be hard and you should be a little bit more careful.

Take care... a few more months...

SpaceChild » _Moon_Queen_ Thank you, I will look into these more now. Daughter came home with a broken elbow unfortunately, so it will be awhile like you said.. and in the next few days new challenge.. that is when we have the specialty doctors appointment too.. so I am hoping for the best that she does not need surgery..

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My mom has similar hard transits these days - transit SunSaturn and transit SaturnSun and we ended up at ER this morning for severe throat infection. This transit manifest as a fear of death and she was neglecting her pain trying to cover her fear but luckily all ended up well...

Mrav » SpaceChild I wanted to ask if she fell and hurt her head (1st H) but it´s Virgo (Me) it makes sense ...
even if she will be needing operation, it will be ok -Mars (ruler 8th) surgeon is in Virgo, perfection, oriented on details, precision