Lilith in 1st house compared to Lilith in 2nd - Discussions, questions

dani_mae1 Your discernment will work best here. If you resonate with issues of selfishness then utilize 1st house Lilith. If it’s issues of loss or self worth you resonate more with, use 2nd house.

Ellilunaa » dani_mae1 Hmm… I don’t know, I think it’s both but I don’t consider myself selfish at all.. of course everyone has times when they can be selfish, but most of the time I’m not. In a way they both resonate with me

Lilith in 1st: being sexualised , most guys only seeing me a ‘toy’, getting many comments on your body either positive or negative, being stared at a lot (mostly curiosity), being an outcast , fear of not being able to do things, getting a lot of hate especially from women

Lilith in 2nd: obsession with money/food (food is true for me), attracting envy from others, and like you said, I do have issues with self worth and loss.. Also body image issues is a HUGE thing for me, it’s not as bad now but it was a big problem before. I was not well and I had a bad relationship with food and my body at one point.
I think I’ll just have to dig deep and figure out which one I actually resonate with more

dani_mae1 » Ellilunaa Also another to add to 1st house is a feminine wound where you go to the extreme of not allowing yourself to be selfish! I think you have a good list to see which fits you more. Let us know what you find!

Ellilunaa » dani_mae1 Ooh that feminine wound .. makes sense in an way

Yes I will find out more

Nofarmaimon08 I have Lilith in the 1st house
I´ve heard that it can be related to self-confidence, negative thoughts, abortion, addictions of the person or the family.
Because the 12th house talks about the pregnancy. I think it has to do with self-confidence, at least it was like that for me.

Ellilunaa » Nofarmaimon08 Hmm.. I do have issues with self confidence sometimes. And negative thoughts.. Even though my Leo rising is there, Lilith and Saturn are ruining it for me.