How to express femininity with Venus in the 12th house? Is it possible? - Discussions, questions

Ana Cerveza With uneven charts like this, I´d recommend whole signs. 😳 I thought you didn´t know your time of birth for a minute. 🙄

Alisa1 » Ana Cerveza Hi, thank you very much for your reply. I’ll try it!

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I agree with the previous poster. I also think it has nothing to do with it being in the 12th house. But I think it has got everything to do with Venus being exiled in Aries. Expressing femininity with Venus in this sign is hard because it´s the opposite of what some people would call ´traditional femininity´ such as Cancer Venus. Find your own definition of what it means to be feminine. Also is there a reason why you are so determined to become the embodiment of Venusian femininity?

Alisa1 » Lilypadtail Thank you very much for your reply. In fact, I have always been indifferent to everything related to typically feminine things. But in the last few months, I´ve wanted to get in touch with my feminine side more. It´s not really related to gender stereotypes, because yes, my feminine part is Amazon.

Why can´t the 12th house have anything to do with this? I read that planets are usually hidden in it, so I assumed this. But I´m not an astrologer, that´s just my thought!

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Mike Seis Obviously you are a woman of fire: passionate, warrior, determined, etc., and that is precisely your femininity, accept it and enjoy it, since it also has its charm.

But if you refer to the type of submissive woman as a fairy princess, it will be difficult because almost all your feminine polarity signs are intercepted.

(Another sign that interceptions are very important when interpreting a natal chart).

But all is not lost because you also have a double cusp in two signs of feminine polarity, and right in them you also have the Nodes. You specify that you are not referring to lunar femininity, but your soul contract seems to state that yes, the lunar form is what you most archetypally approximate.

On the other hand, since you are looking for a way to EXPRESS your femininity in a more classical way, I will tell you that you can do it through the intellect since Mercury rules your ascendant and he is in excellent harmony with your Venus: Talk or write about what it means for you to be a woman, and what are your desires in this regard.

Ana Cerveza » Alisa1 Anyway, Aries and 12 house gives me corset vibes, more like red leather corset, those white Johnny Depp/Captain Jack Sparrow shirts but make it blouse and an equally red but tulle this time skirt, above knee-length at the front with a trail at the back and Black velvet knee high boots, tied with those criss-cross types of lace. And a pirate hat (Penelope Cruz, still from the Pirate of the Caribbean).

Or just Red, black and white color combination and maybe purple at times. Fabric wise I think of velvet or leather or satin or think cotton but vintage types.

Alisa1 » ~Laura~ Thank you so much! Did you have any problems with showing your femininity or not?

Alisa1 » Mike Seis Thank you very much! You´re right, I´m definitely not a submissive woman, I´ve never been like that. I see the North Node in Cancer more as an awareness of the importance of family values, because I will not be able to become just a housewife. I clarified that I was not asking about the lunar form because I have the Moon in the 1st house, there should be no problems with this. Thanks again for your advice about Mercury!

Alisa1 » Mike Seis Please tell me about the 12th house: can it interfere with me in the manifestation of my Venus in Aries? I just read that the planets in the twelfth house are hidden, but maybe it´s not so straightforward. I´m not sure. Thank you very much for your help!

Alisa1 » Ana Cerveza You´ve listed my favorite colors! Wow. Thank you very much, it´s very interesting. I really like the image you described, it resonates with me.

dani_mae1 Your 10th house Lilith—I recommend leaning into that energy to tap into your natural feminine expression as it will be easy for others to perceive you that way. Aquarius in Lilith archetype has many descriptive interpretations online and I suggest beginning by reading them and digesting the ones that resonate with you. Try playing with easy things to test out which archetype manifestation best suits you via clothing styles at first, test the waters then dive where you are called and feel the most confident in. I hope that helps you decide for yourself how to express your authentic feminine energy! Good luck.

Alisa1 » dani_mae1 Thank you very much! I will definitely read the information about my Lilith.
Please tell me, will it be difficult for other people to perceive my Venus because it’s in the 12th house?

Spirto I m confused. I have stelium in 12th with venus , mercury and saturn (in pisces, and my sun in conjunction but in 11th house) but i never felt that i m hiding something. For example I use to wear more comfortable clothes, less feminine , but not because i felt that i had to hide a part of me ,i felted so confident ! It was a personal style.

dani_mae1 » Alisa1 Yes, but it will require using the planets in soft aspect (start with trine or sextiles to your Venus) to your Venus. Unfortunately the only way to make the hidden come to light in the 12th house is by consciously using the energy, choosing to do so with action, or placements that naturally want to help it thrive in its best life.

dani_mae1 » Spirto This makes sense, you stated you were confident and expressed because you leaned into your natural energy. Confidence is easily translated psychologically to others in the way you just described. That’s really neat!

Alisa1 » dani_mae1 Thank you very much! You´ve been very helpful.

Alisa1 » Spirto Thank you very much for your reply! I like to wear feminine clothes that are comfortable for me. I also never thought I was hiding anything, even if I was wearing a hoodie and jeans

Spirto » Alisa1 For the past 6-7 years i feel more comfortable in feminine clothes. But my personal style have changed over the years so i think it´s normal

Spirto » dani_mae1 maybe Lilith in 1st house was something to do with it?
What about other planets?

Alisa1 » Spirto Yes, I had the same. Before, I didn´t like feminine clothes at all, but now it´s the opposite

Spirto » Alisa1 Mmmmm and you are in the same age which i was when i felt that way and start wearing more feminine.

Interesting!

Alisa1 » Spirto Maybe age has something to do with it. It’s really very interesting!

sim Perhaps a subtle hint, inviting to discover your feminity. 12th house is more closeted, not up-in-your-face.

Could be fun.

AgGa » Alisa1 Lilith has any rulership in the chart, Venus is a planet with a lot of influence.
Your progressive VenusRx will be 2026 out of the 12thH, so you will be more visible for others, but she is still in exile in Aries and in retrograde.
Your solar return Venus for this year is in the 7th H.
As I see, you are asking in this forum again and again about your Venus in the 12th (natal and/or progressive) and your feminity, and your questions were already answered.
If you want to make more for your Venus, then go to a Make-up or Fashion course, learn how to move, dance, try to express yourself, create a piece of beauty (painted, spoken or written) – just do Venusian things, and check how it works in your life. To express yourself as a woman is not only Venus, it is also the energy of your natal Sun/Pisces, which is feminine by sign.