why do i like men ?

May 4, 2022 at 17:11 (UT/GMT)
(Aquarius) unknownastorga
why do i like men ?
i know this must have an astrological explanation lol, since i´m not an expert i´d like to know what the og´s have to say

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May 4, 2022 at 18:01
(Cancer) InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
It´s very complicated. Some says it is individual choice and others says it is just ingrain.

I think this issues are argued many times. In natal chart, Venus represents desire and Mars represents act that so Venus rules 7th house(Partner) and Mars 8th (Sex). So firstly it should be given a look this indicators.

I see your sign is Aquarius. You can research the story of Ganymede who is boy in Aquarius´s glyph. You´ll get it what I mean 😉
May 4, 2022 at 18:22
(Taurus) Morena_Lu
Maybe this video will help you.. but you already know who you like ...:)


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May 4, 2022 at 18:35
(Pisces) Leo_Ness
Dominant Mars at AC. You generally like masculin energy and consequently men.
May 4, 2022 at 19:15
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
i kinda get what you mean, but at the same time i feel like i have no idea what you´re talking about, so ganymedes was zeus lover...but still, i´m kinda confused, what does the sign of aquarius have to do with this ? i mean it´s my sun sign, an air sign and air signs are known for being "gay", let´s just say they´re more open minded ? or wtv
May 4, 2022 at 19:16
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » Morena_Lu
thank youuuu, yeah i do know what i like, but i´m just tryna see what my chart says about it, if that makes sense. i´ll watch it later. and again, thank you :)
May 4, 2022 at 19:18
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » Leo_Ness
hmm that makes sense, is that all you can point out tho ? i´ve seen some people talk about the eros and sapp asteroids and how they can say a lot about our sexuality
May 4, 2022 at 19:41
(Cancer) InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII » unknownastorga
Of course Aquarius is not just "gay" sign. But my observetions led me thinking about air signs have a little bit tendency to homosexuality than the other signs several years ago. Symbolism is very important to understand some issues. Ganymede may be one of them. If you think my words just coincidence, I recommend you look another example, Mercury. Mercury likes to be found air signs and in mythology he has many male lovers.
May 4, 2022 at 20:02
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
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From what I recall there is nothing gay in the story of Ganymede, so that alone isn’t enough to indicate astrologically what would cause someone to be homosexual.
Just because love is involved doesn’t mean lust and sex must also be involved.

In my opinion, for the topic of this thread, the main differentiating factor between ‘straight’ and ‘gay’ would be what astrological placements would cause lust to be involved in these spheres that normally they wouldn’t be. As in, why do homosexual males have a tendency to include lust and sex in places where the majority of males don’t.
May 4, 2022 at 20:19
(Cancer) InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII » JesseVon
No any intention that all aquarius or air signs are gay. I shared just my observations about tendency. As I said before, it should considered other indicators as a whole too.
May 4, 2022 at 20:48
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
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Yes, and I do agree that the male/male relationship thing can be a factor, in which case you do have a point with that Aquarius and mercury thing.
I just wonder what it is, astrologically, that would differentiate it from being platonic vs actually being homosexual.
May 4, 2022 at 21:54
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » JesseVon
i agree, both of you have a point !! what about mars tho ? mars and venus, or the asteroids eros and sappho
May 4, 2022 at 21:55
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
i´ll have to check that out
May 4, 2022 at 22:00
(Scorpio) YRashawn
First thing first you are an Aquarius. Aquarius is the sign of the LGBTQ. Disclaimer: Not all Aquarians are gay/bisexual, but that does fall under the category of this sign, but one must take the entire chart into consideration. The 5th house is one of the areas that depicts sexual attraction. Virgo is on your 5th house cusp and the RULER Mercury is in the sign Aquarius, this points to alternative attraction. Mercury is right next to Neptune which brings into view fantasy, porn, and dissolution of boundaries sexually This can also show where you take on a submissive role during sex and you and your lover may bond over intoxicating substances. This conjunction is in your 10th house which shows you being out and public regarding your orientation. Mercury squaring your moon, mother could have an issue with your sexuality. Also, this can also manifest as communication issues with a lover and where your lover´s family could take issue with you at some point. It could be a conversation surrounding one´s values as Mercury is also ruling your 2nd house, siblings/relatives also come up. Moon in Libra represents a strong need for partnership and with it opposite Mars the theme of your mother taking issue with your orientation or choice of mate is resurfacing! On a positive note, Moon is trine Uranus facilitating alternative relationships. A lover could start off as a friend.
Mars is rising indication a strong sexual nature and preference for masculine energy. When Mars and Uranus aspect in a man´s chart this can result in alternative attraction directed towards men. Your Mars and Uranus are forming a sextile which is a positive aspect of opportunity: Meeting men on the internet, friend becomes a lover. These men will be very attracted to your appearance, but communication issues could arise as well as 3rd party interference.
Attraction to men is compounded by Venus in Aries.
Venus in the 12th house is infamous for secret affairs. Saturn in Cancer is forming a 90-degree angle (Square) to your Venus is taking away your attraction to women. Venus forming a sextile to Mercury which is again providing opportunities for you to fulfill your alternative desires.
Now to answer your question as to WHY we must discuss your nodal axis. South node in Scorpio. You naturally are fascinated with all things taboo. North node (purpose and destiny) is in Taurus you are here to make what is "taboo" normal. Your values, beliefs, and standards are extremely important for your soul´s evolution. Always be true to yourself and your values. North node in the 1st house will not have it any other way!
May 4, 2022 at 22:46
(Aquarius) unknownastorga » YRashawn
i am SHOCKED, it doesn´t fail to amaze me when people describe someone (me, in this case) using astrology, this was pretty accurate. thank you so much for taking the time to respond my question. appreciate it !! everything was SPOT ON. period
May 5, 2022 at 00:15
(Taurus) Liberty&Unity
What sticks out to me is Mars and Venus in each other´s signs that are right next to each other ALONG with Moon in opposition to Mars but in Venus´ sign. Mars is also 7th lord in the 1st. Nodes are in the 1st and 7th. And finally Jupiter retrograde in the 5th(where one might see enjoyment) in detriment.
May 5, 2022 at 01:47
(Taurus) Novile Circuit
Not only do you have Mars on your AC, but he is in a sesquisquare aspect with Pluto in the 8th house. Uranus is not just in a sextile with Mars but he´s also in a quintile aspect with Pluto.
When Pluto connects with Mars, it adds a much stronger drive for pursuing your desires and the sesquisquare is an edgy aspect, especially between those two planets.
Pluto in the 8th house will give you an intense desire to explore that which is considered taboo and he is unlikely to compromise to please others.
The quintile is a playful aspect, with a 5H Leo vibration, which brings Uranus into play from that side as well. Uranus brings a rebellious freedom and he enjoys "shocking" others with his nonconformist behavior.
With Scorpio in the 7H your relating style is already quite scorpionic and that chimes in well with Pluto in the 8th.

I agree that it´s not just about having a desire for the same sex, (maybe as humans we all have the potential for homoerotic desires buried somewhere deep down), but it´s more about the courage to become conscious of it and to pursue that desire.
But how would I know? I´m Ace :65: (or maybe demi-sexual at best). I wonder if that´s somewhere visible in my chart? It never occurred to me to look for.
May 5, 2022 at 01:56
(Taurus) Rosincvist » unknownastorga
The witchcraft ceremony to `go straight´ requires that everyone being involved be wholly committed to new orientation, one slacker saying "Well he was nice as a Gay Guy!" would completely blow it!
You had past-lives where non-procreative activities seemed to have a future, now that the future is looming larger and closer gender is more fluid than us old dudes can comprehend!
June 24, 2022 at 13:29
(Taurus) Morena_Lu » InfiniteVoyageXIII&VII
I agree with you. Some people I know, mostly they have moon or mars /venus in aquarius, I could never be 100 percent sure what they really like/prefer... probably because they also have some problem to identify themselves, also, it is like they like to shock with their choices, partners, go against what is traditional.. But I see some tendencies towards the same sex..
June 24, 2022 at 13:47
(Cancer) Prelude
Venus and Mars, especially Mars.

At a certain age we understand if we really want sex then we must find someone to stick it in, males are especially more upfront about what they want when younger so finding sex is much easier if you are gay.

Now this is where it gets a bit different, I can intuitively get females, I have worked for 3 years at my current place and two have outright told me they love me and the 2nd one brushed her ass on me like it was nothing giving me a sincerely seductive look, it´s a good job I have huge self control, but they can likely feel the intense sexuality I have underneath my surface. I love females intensely, I have an intensely deep libido and sex drive but I keep it under wraps for my wife, I have told my wife and it says it makes her happy she married such a sexy man.

I did experiment when I was like 12 years old and found I am not into males, but I was absolutely high on testosterone and it was the urge of pleasure and sex to make me experiment.

So there is that I guess.

I first had sex at the age of 20, I was not ready for a partner.
June 24, 2022 at 13:50
(Taurus) nutelina
Smart cookie. :3: Do what you like of course! :62:


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