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Always cheated on always finding out...still why?
February 20, 2022 at 19:09 (UT/GMT)

Always cheated on always finding out...still why?
Hello! Being engaged 2 times,long term relationships 5 and 4 years with 2 different people(looks,career,character) but broken up for the same reason,cheating. 1st ex fiance was playing around, i found out shocked but ok he was outgoing,charming,had big social network.2nd one was cheating for 1 year with his ex,found out accidentally, didn´t expect it neither anyone from closed ones, extremely shocked didn´t see it coming..So my question is if you see anything in my chart that leads to having unfaithful partners. Because I honestly am very picky,not that naive i could say,2 exes are totally different people but the conclusion was the same. I am doing therapy, everyone around me claims its not my fault because I am good looking, caring,funny according to them but I am convinced that it can´t be no longer a coincidence, its something in me attracting or provoking it. I just feel that romantic partnerships are not my area, that I should just be better on my own. Thank you for your time!


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February 20, 2022 at 21:28

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I am sorry to hear Lamoon. I have never experienced it myself either way - that I know of.
Even though I believe your friends are right - that it is not your "fault", at the same time I believe that there could be energetic patterns as the root cause of your experiences.
I don´t know enough about astrology to see if there are such patterns in your chart.
I know enough about myself and human nature in general though, to say, that we sabotage and reject ourselves in numerous ways. Subconcious patterns that subtly can attract partners that will "leave" us in one way or the other(cheating being one of them).
The relationship with yourself can be a good indicator. Do you love yourself? Do you express your needs, set boundaries, allow yourself to be vulnerable/embrace all of your emotions?
The pain from these experiences can be a great vehicle for transformation. Examine how it makes you feel. Does it piss you off, Are you sick and tired of putting up with certain behaviors in your life - from yourself or others?

February 21, 2022 at 00:33

Pushya nakshatra has infidelity connected to its story. My stepdad has Moon in Pushya nakshatra as well and his ex wife cheated on him multiple times


February 21, 2022 at 05:59

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I see your Saturn opposite Jupiter and squaring Venus and opposite moon - Venus is squaring Jupiter and Moon. I think it´s all connected to emotions and men specifically (in Eastern school, Jupiter is the significator of man in a woman´s chart). I see it as an emotional turmoil of some sort there

February 21, 2022 at 06:21

Astrologically speaking, I think in your natal chart that´s expressed by your Venus (ruler of 7th house in Libra, romantic partners, business partners, enemies, etc) conjunct Sedna (who in the inuit myth was cheated) and both forming up a T-Square with Saturn and Jupiter, and a T-Square with Saturn and the Moon.
Good luck with your next boyfriend!


February 21, 2022 at 10:07

If there is a reason for cheating, I would point to their feeling of inferiority caused by your beautiful Pisces AC Sun that is creating trine to 5th house Cancer Jupiter and Moon and sextile to 11th house Capricorn Saturn, 8th house Libra Pluto also.
You´re loved by many, able to bound, respected, respectful, kind hearted, perfect, loyal partner and they simply cannot pair you at decent level so they probably go to opposite.

February 21, 2022 at 12:27


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February 21, 2022 at 12:35

Clueless about Sedna, thank you a lot for mentioning, I am looking into at the moment, very insightful!

February 21, 2022 at 12:48


February 21, 2022 at 13:03


I just need to share one more modern saying related to this topic.
"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes."

February 21, 2022 at 13:15


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February 21, 2022 at 16:18

When you realise some things, like you will in this year..it will be easier for you. It is like a spiritual awakening for you. You are 123 code, I am 213, for me it happened last year.
It is some numerology system, with your code you can have a great family and everything you wish for, you should not worry. Also, when we talk about love, I think people make one mistake- we expect a lot, expectations can "kill" us, be just the best version of yourself, give love and be happy in the present moment, every moment of your life is important, not just when you share your life with significant other. For you I have one animated movie, for a moment imagine that you are on his place, what you would change or not, would you live the same life as you have now ..or you will change something?Maybe you are already happy enough..
"I heard this story about a fish. He swims up to this older fish and says, "I´m trying to find this thing they call the ocean." "The ocean?" says the older fish. "That´s what you´re in right now." "This?" says the young fish. "This is water. What I want is the ocean."


February 21, 2022 at 16:26

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Beatiful response!

February 21, 2022 at 18:26

Also the men you date could be very Egotistical because planet Jupiter (male partner/ possible husband) is in Leo; the original ruler of the 5th house...
So you could have lessons in regards to egotistical romantic partners... and loss from Egotistical Romantic Partners due to Ketu being in the 5th House.
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The Problem is not you. I think you just have lessons to learn about Men and egos in regards to dating and "romantic" relationships.
FYI; 5th house relationships differ from 7th house relationships.
5th house being the house of Romance (Sexual Partnerships) and 7th house being of long term Partnerships...
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I would look for a Partner that is more "Off the beaten path" or Authentic*/Aquarius like* or 11th house like...
That could help,
Ttyl.

February 21, 2022 at 19:42


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February 21, 2022 at 20:46

Maybe Jupiter or Venus in Aquarius...

Or Strong Aquarius placements...
But i could be wrong...

February 21, 2022 at 20:51

February 21, 2022 at 21:11



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