Mars Square ascendant

September 22, 2021 at 11:14 (UT/GMT)
(Leo) Sunnyshadow
Mars Square ascendant
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"With Mars square Ascendant, you are naturally combative. You tend to say or do things that make others feel like you’re actively opposing them.



Mars-Ascendant Aspects In The Natal Chart

BY TEAANDROSEMARY2

 

MAY 4, 2021JULY 16, 2021

 

 ASPECTS/ASTROLOGY

Mars aspects to the Ascendant indicate how much of your Mars sign other people see in your outer personality.

The Ascendant is the mask we wear in society, but Mars is the sign of drive, authenticity, leadership, passion, and anger. 

Any Mars aspect to the Ascendant means that these qualities show themselves, for better or worse, in your outer mask. Mars aspecting your Ascendant can make you more of a leader, more energetic, and more blunt, but it can also make you appear aggressive or angry.

Ultimately, Mars-Ascendant aspects suggest a connection between your inner needs and your appearance to those around you.

Mars Conjunct Ascendant

The Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect makes your outer personality really strong. You come off as independent and self-assured.

Sometimes, you can even seem a bit aggressive or combative, especially when you first meet someone.

You have a lot of leadership qualities with Mars conjunct Ascendant. You aren’t afraid to stand up for yourself and tell others what you need.

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Mars conjunct Ascendant makes your every feeling clear to others. It’s virtually impossible for you to hide your motives, so while you can be a bit aggressive, you’re also very upfront and aren’t prone to lying.

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You have very quick reactions to events and people. Much of this is subconscious, because you tend to react on a physical level instead of thinking things through logically.

With Mars conjunct Ascendant, you’re very independent. You do what you want, when you want, even if your actions aren’t appropriate for the situation. This can be both a positive and a negative quality!

You can easily get yourself into trouble because you’re so bold and straightforward, but you also care a lot about personal honor; others can clearly see this.

In groups, you want to be seen as powerful with Mars conjunct Ascendant. Even when you’re feeling down, you do your best to appear ultra-confident. 

You are very driven and will take any action necessary to accomplish your goals. People will see you as dynamic and energetic. These can be great qualities in a fast-paced work environment.

Sometimes, the Mars conjunct Ascendant person appears a bit like an Aries rising. You may have a lot of irritability or restlessness. Your ambitious side is intense and you don’t like to sit still, just like an Aries rising.

You’re very self-oriented and don’t need other people to feel comfortable.

However, you can get angry very quickly, and you’re not able to hide your feelings. With Mars conjunct Ascendant, people tend to know when you’re upset, which can be a bit off-putting. You can’t hide anything you feel, whether your emotions are positive or negative.

These qualities can make it difficult for you to work with others, especially in environments where you tend to get angry. You literally cannot hide how you feel, so you often come off as too forceful.

You can be a bit intimidating, but you’re also very courageous. With Mars conjunct Ascendant, you aren’t scared of being hurt, but you might hurt other people without realizing it.

Similarly, you can’t hide your sexual feelings. You’re probably attractive in a physical, animalistic way. You aren’t known for finesse, but you do have a strong magnetic quality with Mars conjunct Ascendant.

You might be sexually expressive and very forward. You aren’t shy or coy at all! Your sex drive is a key part of your outer identity, so you tend to be bold and straightforward.

You may seem athletic or ultra-physical with Mars conjunct Ascendant. At the very least, you’re very competitive in whatever you choose to take on.

In the professional world, you do well in any career that necessitates a show of strength and leadership qualities. You like to take charge and get things done your way!

You’re also a good “talker” with a well-developed personality (depending on the sign of the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect). These qualities can help you get ahead early in life.

Ultimately with Mars conjunct Ascendant, you have many good qualities relating to action and expression.

You need to learn how to develop more understanding and respect for people who aren’t like you. Sometimes, you might be less than sympathetic because you simply don’t realize that not everyone has the same natural energy and drive.

Although you are very good at speaking your mind, your words can be more hurtful than you realize. Learn to show a bit of restraint.

It can be helpful for you to channel your excess energy into something. This may be your career, a hobby, or exercise. You have a lot of energy that must go somewhere; releasing the pent up energy will tame your anger.

The goal with Mars conjunct Ascendant is to harness your warrior-like energy for good while simultaneously treating others kindly. As a young person, you won’t even realize that other people are hurt by your words and actions, but these are lessons you will come to learn over time.

Mars Trine Ascendant

With Mars trine Ascendant, you are independent and secure. You tend to be confident about what you want.

Unlike the conjunction, you aren’t necessarily aggressive with Mars trine Ascendant, unless you have other placements that indicate this. However, you are strong and won’t back down if someone else challenges you.

This aspect means that you have a lot of energy. Your physical vitality is apparent to others, though this can sometimes make you impulsive, depending on the sign that the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect sits in.

Your energy comes naturally, so it’s simply innate for you to assert yourself and go after what you want. Competitive situations don’t scare you and your energy tends to be long-lasting.

You may be physically active too, depending on the sign of the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect. It can be hard for you to physically relax; you like to be moving.

These traits are all consistent in your personality and are what other people tend to see when they first meet you.

Unlike other aspects to the Ascendant, Mars trine Ascendant gives you a lot of stamina over the long-haul. You aren’t scared to see big projects through, especially if you’re interested in what you’re doing.

Sexually, you’re very energetic and outgoing. You don’t tend to feel shy often, although you can turn on the charm, too. Ideally, you would find a partner who has an equal amount of sexual energy.

You appear comfortable with your sexuality around other people. This is a trait that is simply natural for you.

This Mars trine Ascendant aspect is really easy and is simply a part of your personality. Depending on the situation, you will either be dominant or just straightforward, but you tend to go after what you want.

However, with Mars trine Ascendant, you may not realize that other people don’t have the same energy levels and drive as you. It’s easy for you to steamroll over other people without realizing if you’re not careful.

Trines are natural qualities, but they can be too easy. You simply can’t understand how other people don’t automatically act as you do.

The goal is to learn, with Mars trine Ascendant, how to follow your own dreams and keep your strong outward nature without hurting others in the process.

Lastly, keep in mind that you will express these Mars trine Ascendant qualities more if this is the only aspect to your Ascendant. Other aspects to the Ascendant will change and transmute these qualities a bit.

Mars Sextile Ascendant

With Mars sextile Ascendant, you’re very naturally enthusiastic about life in general. You like to be physically moving and stay busy.

Others see you as courageous and strong, but you can also be a bit intimidating to people because you’re always doing something.

You’re direct and assertive, but you aren’t usually threatening to other people. Instead, it’s your constant movement that can make others nervous.

This placement gives you a natural sense of self-esteem, or you at least appear this way. You can be competitive in just about everything you do.

These qualities of the Mars sextile Ascendant aspect don’t always show up in your outer personality. Sometimes, you will only show the qualities of your Ascendant sign, while other times you come off more like an Aries rising.

You feel most like yourself when you’re actively doing something. Irritation plagues you when you’re forced to sit still.

Sexually, you’re very active and outgoing. You want a relationship that is independent, but also want a partner who can keep up with you in bed. 

Your vibe is physical and animalistic, at least in some ways. You tend to remind people of sex, especially when your Mars is triggered.

Although you have a lot of energy with this aspect, it can be hard to channel it appropriately. With this Mars sextile Ascendant placement, you have the opportunity to developed a more focused, driven energy in this lifetime.

Keep in mind that sextiles take hard work. You have the natural parts of the Mars sextile Ascendant aspect in the subconscious mind, but you need to get them conscious in order to fully learn how to express this aspect.

You also have the opportunity to learn how to compromise. Your opinions tend to feel like the truth, so you expect others to go along with what you think, but this is not always the best way to work with others.

The Mars sextile Ascendant aspect can help you learn how to consider the opinions of other people. The goal here is to be direct and self-assured without actually steamrolling over other people.

You have the opportunity, with Mars sextile Ascendant, to integrate your Martian qualities into your outer mask. These qualities will help you be your authentic self, but you will also become more focused, driven, and energetic.

Make sure that you work to integrate the most positive, uplifting qualities of Mars with this Mars sextile Ascendant aspect. Focus on channeling your energy, taking charge, making things happen, and working to be a caring leader instead of getting angry, combative, or overly-competitive.

Mars Opposition Ascendant

With the Mars opposition Ascendant aspect, you attract volatile people and situations to you. Something about your personality irritates people, even if you aren’t actually doing anything to cause this.

Others tend to feel like they have to “knock you down” a peg, even if you haven’t done anything. This is because you have a subtly provocative quality that can seem both irritating and appealing.

Mars opposition Ascendant means you attract a lot of competition, too. People in your life often want to challenge or oppose you. This can be both physically or mentally by opposing your ideas or thoughts.

When someone does threaten you, it’s not typical for you to back down. You have trouble figuring out when you should fight and when you should walk away.

With partners, you might have similar issues. Mars opposition Ascendant means that, although you often have romantic interests, you also run into lot of conflict in relationships.

You easily attract friends or romantic partners and feel strongly for them very quickly. However, your friends and partners will continuously challenge you.

In fact, you may unconscious attract people who seem competitive or ultra-aggressive. These traits are actually dormant within you, but people can often sense these qualities and will feel extra-combative around you with no clear reason.

While this feels painful or difficult, the Mars opposition Ascendant aspect is actually teaching you how to stand up for yourself. You are learning how to be independent and self-assured.

You tend to find the qualities of your Mars sign in other people and feel that they aren’t totally present in your own personality. You may relay on your partners to give you energy and drive, but you will come to learn that all of the motivation you need is already within you.

Typically, Mars opposition Ascendant is a difficult aspect because you feel like you just can’t access your Mars qualities. This is why you will encounter challenge after challenge in your relationships. These events will force you to find your inner drive and activate your Mars.

You often want to be independent but don’t know how to stop relying on your partners. Remember that you will learn more about your Mars opposition Ascendant aspect through small steps; it won’t all come to you in a single day.

Practicing your independence through speech and action is very important with this aspect. You have to do it for yourself; your partners can’t activate your Mars sign for you.

Learn to be aware of your own wishes for power and action. It’s easy for you to feel that your partners are always moving too fast or wanting too much, but this is typically because these very characteristics are already inside of you.

With Mars opposition Ascendant, you may find that your self-image is distorted.  You judge yourself based on your partnerships or one-on-one interactions with other people, but you don’t always get the full picture.

Learn to figure out who you think you are rather than who you appear to be around others. Remember that only you know what your inner world is really like.

Mars Square Ascendant

With Mars square Ascendant, you are naturally combative. You tend to say or do things that make others feel like you’re actively opposing them.

Your natural instinct is to project anger and frustration. When you try to assert yourself, you go overboard and can come off as nasty or crude.

Mars square Ascendant means that you might always feel like you’re coming off too strong or simply wrong. You put others on the defensive without meaning to.

Although you have a very powerful energy and drive, you also rub people the wrong way. You project anger when you just meant to state the facts, and you tend to offend others when you think you’re being yourself with Mars square Ascendant.

In any situation, you can be impatient and irritable, even if there’s no rush. It’s as though there’s always a sense of urgency surrounding your life.

You tend to get excited about things very quickly, but you have trouble waiting for other people to catch up.

Unfortunately, you literally can’t hide your anger from others with Mars square Ascendant. However, you’re very adventurous, which can be attractive to certain types of folks.



Mars-Ascendant Aspects In The Natal Chart

BY TEAANDROSEMARY2

 

MAY 4, 2021JULY 16, 2021

 

 ASPECTS/ASTROLOGY

Mars aspects to the Ascendant indicate how much of your Mars sign other people see in your outer personality.

The Ascendant is the mask we wear in society, but Mars is the sign of drive, authenticity, leadership, passion, and anger. 

Any Mars aspect to the Ascendant means that these qualities show themselves, for better or worse, in your outer mask. Mars aspecting your Ascendant can make you more of a leader, more energetic, and more blunt, but it can also make you appear aggressive or angry.

Ultimately, Mars-Ascendant aspects suggest a connection between your inner needs and your appearance to those around you.

Mars Conjunct Ascendant

The Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect makes your outer personality really strong. You come off as independent and self-assured.

Sometimes, you can even seem a bit aggressive or combative, especially when you first meet someone.

You have a lot of leadership qualities with Mars conjunct Ascendant. You aren’t afraid to stand up for yourself and tell others what you need.

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Mars conjunct Ascendant makes your every feeling clear to others. It’s virtually impossible for you to hide your motives, so while you can be a bit aggressive, you’re also very upfront and aren’t prone to lying.

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You have very quick reactions to events and people. Much of this is subconscious, because you tend to react on a physical level instead of thinking things through logically.

With Mars conjunct Ascendant, you’re very independent. You do what you want, when you want, even if your actions aren’t appropriate for the situation. This can be both a positive and a negative quality!

You can easily get yourself into trouble because you’re so bold and straightforward, but you also care a lot about personal honor; others can clearly see this.

In groups, you want to be seen as powerful with Mars conjunct Ascendant. Even when you’re feeling down, you do your best to appear ultra-confident. 

You are very driven and will take any action necessary to accomplish your goals. People will see you as dynamic and energetic. These can be great qualities in a fast-paced work environment.

Sometimes, the Mars conjunct Ascendant person appears a bit like an Aries rising. You may have a lot of irritability or restlessness. Your ambitious side is intense and you don’t like to sit still, just like an Aries rising.

You’re very self-oriented and don’t need other people to feel comfortable.

However, you can get angry very quickly, and you’re not able to hide your feelings. With Mars conjunct Ascendant, people tend to know when you’re upset, which can be a bit off-putting. You can’t hide anything you feel, whether your emotions are positive or negative.

These qualities can make it difficult for you to work with others, especially in environments where you tend to get angry. You literally cannot hide how you feel, so you often come off as too forceful.

You can be a bit intimidating, but you’re also very courageous. With Mars conjunct Ascendant, you aren’t scared of being hurt, but you might hurt other people without realizing it.

Similarly, you can’t hide your sexual feelings. You’re probably attractive in a physical, animalistic way. You aren’t known for finesse, but you do have a strong magnetic quality with Mars conjunct Ascendant.

You might be sexually expressive and very forward. You aren’t shy or coy at all! Your sex drive is a key part of your outer identity, so you tend to be bold and straightforward.

You may seem athletic or ultra-physical with Mars conjunct Ascendant. At the very least, you’re very competitive in whatever you choose to take on.

In the professional world, you do well in any career that necessitates a show of strength and leadership qualities. You like to take charge and get things done your way!

You’re also a good “talker” with a well-developed personality (depending on the sign of the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect). These qualities can help you get ahead early in life.

Ultimately with Mars conjunct Ascendant, you have many good qualities relating to action and expression.

You need to learn how to develop more understanding and respect for people who aren’t like you. Sometimes, you might be less than sympathetic because you simply don’t realize that not everyone has the same natural energy and drive.

Although you are very good at speaking your mind, your words can be more hurtful than you realize. Learn to show a bit of restraint.

It can be helpful for you to channel your excess energy into something. This may be your career, a hobby, or exercise. You have a lot of energy that must go somewhere; releasing the pent up energy will tame your anger.

The goal with Mars conjunct Ascendant is to harness your warrior-like energy for good while simultaneously treating others kindly. As a young person, you won’t even realize that other people are hurt by your words and actions, but these are lessons you will come to learn over time.

Mars Trine Ascendant

With Mars trine Ascendant, you are independent and secure. You tend to be confident about what you want.

Unlike the conjunction, you aren’t necessarily aggressive with Mars trine Ascendant, unless you have other placements that indicate this. However, you are strong and won’t back down if someone else challenges you.

This aspect means that you have a lot of energy. Your physical vitality is apparent to others, though this can sometimes make you impulsive, depending on the sign that the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect sits in.

Your energy comes naturally, so it’s simply innate for you to assert yourself and go after what you want. Competitive situations don’t scare you and your energy tends to be long-lasting.

You may be physically active too, depending on the sign of the Mars conjunct Ascendant aspect. It can be hard for you to physically relax; you like to be moving.

These traits are all consistent in your personality and are what other people tend to see when they first meet you.

Unlike other aspects to the Ascendant, Mars trine Ascendant gives you a lot of stamina over the long-haul. You aren’t scared to see big projects through, especially if you’re interested in what you’re doing.

Sexually, you’re very energetic and outgoing. You don’t tend to feel shy often, although you can turn on the charm, too. Ideally, you would find a partner who has an equal amount of sexual energy.

You appear comfortable with your sexuality around other people. This is a trait that is simply natural for you.

This Mars trine Ascendant aspect is really easy and is simply a part of your personality. Depending on the situation, you will either be dominant or just straightforward, but you tend to go after what you want.

However, with Mars trine Ascendant, you may not realize that other people don’t have the same energy levels and drive as you. It’s easy for you to steamroll over other people without realizing if you’re not careful.

Trines are natural qualities, but they can be too easy. You simply can’t understand how other people don’t automatically act as you do.

The goal is to learn, with Mars trine Ascendant, how to follow your own dreams and keep your strong outward nature without hurting others in the process.

Lastly, keep in mind that you will express these Mars trine Ascendant qualities more if this is the only aspect to your Ascendant. Other aspects to the Ascendant will change and transmute these qualities a bit.

Mars Sextile Ascendant

With Mars sextile Ascendant, you’re very naturally enthusiastic about life in general. You like to be physically moving and stay busy.

Others see you as courageous and strong, but you can also be a bit intimidating to people because you’re always doing something.

You’re direct and assertive, but you aren’t usually threatening to other people. Instead, it’s your constant movement that can make others nervous.

This placement gives you a natural sense of self-esteem, or you at least appear this way. You can be competitive in just about everything you do.

These qualities of the Mars sextile Ascendant aspect don’t always show up in your outer personality. Sometimes, you will only show the qualities of your Ascendant sign, while other times you come off more like an Aries rising.

You feel most like yourself when you’re actively doing something. Irritation plagues you when you’re forced to sit still.

Sexually, you’re very active and outgoing. You want a relationship that is independent, but also want a partner who can keep up with you in bed. 

Your vibe is physical and animalistic, at least in some ways. You tend to remind people of sex, especially when your Mars is triggered.

Although you have a lot of energy with this aspect, it can be hard to channel it appropriately. With this Mars sextile Ascendant placement, you have the opportunity to developed a more focused, driven energy in this lifetime.

Keep in mind that sextiles take hard work. You have the natural parts of the Mars sextile Ascendant aspect in the subconscious mind, but you need to get them conscious in order to fully learn how to express this aspect.

You also have the opportunity to learn how to compromise. Your opinions tend to feel like the truth, so you expect others to go along with what you think, but this is not always the best way to work with others.

The Mars sextile Ascendant aspect can help you learn how to consider the opinions of other people. The goal here is to be direct and self-assured without actually steamrolling over other people.

You have the opportunity, with Mars sextile Ascendant, to integrate your Martian qualities into your outer mask. These qualities will help you be your authentic self, but you will also become more focused, driven, and energetic.

Make sure that you work to integrate the most positive, uplifting qualities of Mars with this Mars sextile Ascendant aspect. Focus on channeling your energy, taking charge, making things happen, and working to be a caring leader instead of getting angry, combative, or overly-competitive.

Mars Opposition Ascendant

With the Mars opposition Ascendant aspect, you attract volatile people and situations to you. Something about your personality irritates people, even if you aren’t actually doing anything to cause this.

Others tend to feel like they have to “knock you down” a peg, even if you haven’t done anything. This is because you have a subtly provocative quality that can seem both irritating and appealing.

Mars opposition Ascendant means you attract a lot of competition, too. People in your life often want to challenge or oppose you. This can be both physically or mentally by opposing your ideas or thoughts.

When someone does threaten you, it’s not typical for you to back down. You have trouble figuring out when you should fight and when you should walk away.

With partners, you might have similar issues. Mars opposition Ascendant means that, although you often have romantic interests, you also run into lot of conflict in relationships.

You easily attract friends or romantic partners and feel strongly for them very quickly. However, your friends and partners will continuously challenge you.

In fact, you may unconscious attract people who seem competitive or ultra-aggressive. These traits are actually dormant within you, but people can often sense these qualities and will feel extra-combative around you with no clear reason.

While this feels painful or difficult, the Mars opposition Ascendant aspect is actually teaching you how to stand up for yourself. You are learning how to be independent and self-assured.

You tend to find the qualities of your Mars sign in other people and feel that they aren’t totally present in your own personality. You may relay on your partners to give you energy and drive, but you will come to learn that all of the motivation you need is already within you.

Typically, Mars opposition Ascendant is a difficult aspect because you feel like you just can’t access your Mars qualities. This is why you will encounter challenge after challenge in your relationships. These events will force you to find your inner drive and activate your Mars.

You often want to be independent but don’t know how to stop relying on your partners. Remember that you will learn more about your Mars opposition Ascendant aspect through small steps; it won’t all come to you in a single day.

Practicing your independence through speech and action is very important with this aspect. You have to do it for yourself; your partners can’t activate your Mars sign for you.

Learn to be aware of your own wishes for power and action. It’s easy for you to feel that your partners are always moving too fast or wanting too much, but this is typically because these very characteristics are already inside of you.

With Mars opposition Ascendant, you may find that your self-image is distorted.  You judge yourself based on your partnerships or one-on-one interactions with other people, but you don’t always get the full picture.

Learn to figure out who you think you are rather than who you appear to be around others. Remember that only you know what your inner world is really like.

Mars Square Ascendant

With Mars square Ascendant, you are naturally combative. You tend to say or do things that make others feel like you’re actively opposing them.

Your natural instinct is to project anger and frustration. When you try to assert yourself, you go overboard and can come off as nasty or crude.

Mars square Ascendant means that you might always feel like you’re coming off too strong or simply wrong. You put others on the defensive without meaning to.

Although you have a very powerful energy and drive, you also rub people the wrong way. You project anger when you just meant to state the facts, and you tend to offend others when you think you’re being yourself with Mars square Ascendant.

In any situation, you can be impatient and irritable, even if there’s no rush. It’s as though there’s always a sense of urgency surrounding your life.

You tend to get excited about things very quickly, but you have trouble waiting for other people to catch up.

Unfortunately, you literally can’t hide your anger from others with Mars square Ascendant. However, you’re very adventurous, which can be attractive to certain types of folks.

Sexually, you may struggle a bit, too. Mars square Ascendant means that you’re either too aggressive and pushy sexually, or you ignore your physical needs altogether. It’s very hard for you to find balance.

You appear angry and aggressive or bland. It’s hard for you to find a middle ground with Mars square Ascendant, but a middle ground certainly exists!

Squares are meant to challenge us, yet they also help us grow. Remember that you can truly work through many of your Mars square Ascendant issues.

You must learn to communicate what you need (instead of ignoring it) in a way that is constructive and kind. You don’t often know how to speak to others with empathy, especially those you aren’t close with, but this is a skill that you can learn.

Learn to assert yourself sexually while simultaneously taking into account what your partner wants. Be careful of steamrolling the other person. Figure out how to explain what you want without forcing it on the other person.

You have a black and white way of thinking around others, but your goal is to find shades of grey with Mars square Ascendant. find a way to think of both yourself and the other person.

Learn to assert yourself sexually while simultaneously taking into account what your partner wants. Be careful of steamrolling the other person. Figure out how to explain what you want without forcing it on the other person.

You have a black and white way of thinking around others, but your goal is to find shades of grey with Mars square Ascendant. find a way to think of both yourself and the other person

Ultimately, you want to express (not suppress) your Mars sign in a way that is more gentle and positive. This is how you can portray your truest inner self with the Mars square Ascendant aspect.

You will need to be much more with your words than others. People tend to take your words to heart because they come off more strongly, so keep in mind that you can very quickly hurt others.

Learn how to speak your mind in a way that is both kind and compassionate."

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I guess when people say to just be yourself, this is not what they mean. I deal with this all the time. I pretty much have to suppress any "personality" I may have, lest I offend someone. At least I know why, I guess... Some solace in that.

I guess I´m NOT supposed to just be myself. Lmao

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September 22, 2021 at 11:17
(Virgo) Etherealmind
I think you can delete some parts of the text lol
September 22, 2021 at 11:24
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Etherealmind
Eh, not sure what happened. Double posted for emphasis! Lol
September 22, 2021 at 11:31
(Virgo) Etherealmind » Sunnyshadow
It takes so much time to scroll down the page :9: :24: :10: :61::4:
September 22, 2021 at 11:33
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Etherealmind
Mars square Ascendant makes life miserable for others :61: :61:
September 22, 2021 at 11:36
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Etherealmind
I think the very last part is all I was trying to post. The last 3 or 4 paragraphs :1:
September 22, 2021 at 11:39
(Leo) Sunnyshadow
This must be especially hard to have for a Libra rising it would seem :24:
September 22, 2021 at 12:06
(Virgo) Etherealmind » Sunnyshadow
Do you have a specific question regarding this aspect or do you simply want to discuss about it ?

Well, I can understand you a bit regarding the way other people perceive us. It´s either too much or not enough. In your case it´s about Mars so anger, braveness, action, energy, etc.

It´s true that it must be very unbalanced with your Libra ASC which is the complete opposite of Aries (ruled by Mars) haha but you already have Pluto in the 1st house so you already don´t have a typical Libra ASC.

It´s a bit like me, but in my case it´s square my Sun so it´s even more complicated to deal with lol cause Sun is your councious identity, what you wanna show about you, your councious intentions/will and the ascendant represents your uncouncious way of appearing in relationships/the 1st impression you give to people and Pluto creates very uncouncious process within you.

I´m still young and still have to learn how to balance my shy/discreet Virgo Sun square my fiery ASC conjunct Pluto so I can´t really advice you for now, maybe in 10 years lol.

In any case I think it´s something important to resolve if you couldn´t till now cause it also creates a square with your Midheaven so could create issues regarding your statut in society, not only career but also the role or the way people perceive you in society and it´s something very important ..
September 22, 2021 at 12:34
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Etherealmind
Thanks for the reply p. Just wanted to open up the topic for anyone else who may have the aspect or similar.

I just relate so much to this. I easily offend people for no reason at all sometimes. Basically anytime I try to express myself.

I´ve got good at suppressing myself to make others comfortable. Which makes no sense at all.

When´s the last time someone said suppressing yourself is "good"?

I just have to laugh really. About all I can do

I understand life is a process of growth and spiritual evolution. But this just seems so contrary to the "norm"

One thing that stood out in the article is we either become overly aggressive, or bland. I guess I finally resigned to the latter. I try not to express myself much, it just makes things worse with most people. And I couldn´t really do my job like that.

Always wanted a job outside of the public sphere, free of other´s expectations and prejudices. Like a construction worker or something. Where performance far outweighs social graces.

I think the biggest problem comes with intimate relationships. Being bland doesn´t work and neither does being overly aggressive. Middle ground my ass. Try telling the sun to be more like the moon. It doesn´t work that way
September 22, 2021 at 13:29
(Taurus) lnsabch
Thanks for the website link! I´m always looking for new astrology sites to browse and learn.

My husband has this same configuration: Libra rising squared by Mars in Cancer tightly conjunct the Midheaven! But, from reading your description and also your posts, you two are nothing alike. So, there must be other modifying factors. In your case, you are very firey! A Leo Sun/Mercury/Venus with Moon in Aries and Sun conjunct Jupiter (seems like Sun in Sagittarius) sure could never be suppressed or toned down, except in maybe extreme circumstances. So, no wonder the Mars aspect resonates so much with you--moreso than it would for others (like my husband). So much fire even overrides the weakness of having Mars in Cancer. Are you in law enforcement , perhaps?

TL;DR: you´re very firey which is why you are so Mars-like, but I agree with a lot of what the article says.

(Sorry if this post comes off wrong or doesn´t make sense--if you look at my chart you would see that we are in a lot of conflict :3: )
September 22, 2021 at 13:40
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No don´t worry about it. What matter is when the ruler of ascendant squared with mars or even with saturn. Cheers.
September 22, 2021 at 16:45
(Virgo) Etherealmind » Sunnyshadow
Well, I see that your MC-Mars create a sextile with your Virgo North Node so I guess that your career is connected somehow with your soulpath in this life but they create a tension with your ASC.

I think that you have to find a job /career and a role/IMAGE in society which corresponds to you. These things will make you feel better I think and more in synchronisation with your lifepath.

Am I missing smth ? Or am I wrong ? Tell me if I made a mistake!

So it depends on what you wanna do for living. What kind of job ? I see that you have lots of energy in your chart so I understand your need of performance and physical work more than smth in offices/labs/etc. could you find a job which corresponds more or less to your preferences ? I remember you had issues with some employees who didn´t do what you asked lol ... maybe is it because of this neutral/calm personality you fake ?
September 22, 2021 at 16:58
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » lnsabch
That´s an interesting take. I always appreciate the responses. At one time I thought a little about law enforcement or military. I was pretty Gung ho. But with uranus square sun, I was too individualistic to conform. Wanted everything "my way" Still do, lol.

I just get tired of people taking me the wrong way I guess. I can´t assert myself without someone thinking I´m rude or whatever, so I just don´t do it. Which isn´t much better really. Kinda damned if I do, damned if I don´t. Shrug

Not looking for a pity party, but it is frustrating. Wondered if anyone else could relate
September 22, 2021 at 18:01
(Virgo) rohini moon
Damn, I feel like I did a triathlon after scrolling through all of that :61:But thanks! I saw my position there too.

"Mars conjunct Ascendant makes your every feeling clear to others. It’s virtually impossible for you to hide your motives, so while you can be a bit aggressive, you’re also very upfront and aren’t prone to lying."
September 22, 2021 at 22:27
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » rohini moon
Yeah, I have no idea how it posted all of that...twice! I was trying to just post the last part about the square. I´m sure conjunct or in the 1st house has similar problems to deal with.

I stay pretty quiet most of the time, because I can rub a mfr the wrong way by asking to pass the salt :61:

It said something about with the square we look angry or something. I think that´s true. I´ll have to give it some more thought. Just got off work and wanted to let yall know I haven´t disappeared.
September 22, 2021 at 22:30
(Virgo) rohini moon » Sunnyshadow
If it´s any consolation it said both of our Mars position makes us more "combative" than the average Sally and Joe :4:

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September 22, 2021 at 22:32
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Nechepso
I dunno man. The descriptions are accurate for me. I think a major aspect to the Ascendant is significant. Not that we can really "do" anything about it. It´s good to know anyway. Explains alot. I just get tired of people thinking I should "come out of my shell" then get upset when I do :61:.

Can´t teach a leopard how to be a bunny I don´t guess ?
September 22, 2021 at 22:35
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It’s weird because with this placement that’s on my Libra rising and My Mars contradicts about how I get angry I usually become passive agressive or just become cold on someone.
September 22, 2021 at 22:36
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » rohini moon
You wanna piece of me!???

:4:


I thought I remembered you had Mars in 1st house. We should do some light sparring lol 🥊😋
September 22, 2021 at 22:47
(Aries) ram_goat » Sunnyshadow
At one time I thought a little about law enforcement or military. I was pretty Gung ho. But with uranus square sun, I was too individualistic to conform. Wanted everything "my way" Still do, lol.

There is no small share of guys in the regular military who discover this about
themselves after they are embedded in a career/occupation there. Special forces offers one outlet for these sorts of guys. The training feels like more of the same- do what you are told, but on the backside of it they love the freedom and the open ended nature of the assignments. But before you reach the promised land, you have to go through one more round of training which just feels like more of the same bullshit that was driving you crazy in the first place.

Insabch has a point, but it never occurred to me until reading what she wrote above.. It´s hard to find a home for all that fire. Of course one exists, somewhere in this world, but it would have to be a special place, some unique occupation, and a unique woman. The good news is all of these exist right now out there in the world, somewhere.
September 22, 2021 at 22:50
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September 23, 2021 at 00:31
(Aries) Wolfmoon
I don´t have Mars there but Pluto squares mine. Here´s what your website had to say...

"Pluto Square Ascendant
With Pluto square Ascendant, you may seem cold, angsty, or aggressive. You appear a bit combative, yet you’re also withdrawn and hard to reach.

It’s difficult for other people to know what you’re feeling. Your body language and energy is hard to read.

This is because you don’t let down your walls until you absolutely know someone is trustworthy."

Apt.

"You can be outwardly competitive with Pluto square Ascendant. Sometimes this can negatively impact your relationships. You subconsciously fear that others are controlling you, so you fight back, but much of this fear is in your head.

With Pluto square Ascendant, you almost always have the fear that someone is trying to take away your freedom. You create power struggles with many of the people you met."

Never outwardly competitive... unless we play Catan. In which case... gimme yo bricks...

Also I don´t fear someone taking my freedom. I KNOW the govt are trying to.

"Feeling as though you’re on the precipice of losing control can create a lot of anxiety. After enough of this, your control issues because apparent in your outer personality with Pluto square Ascendant.

Unfortunately, this may make others think that you are trying to control them. You tend to create power struggles when you try to stick up for yourself.

You may have trouble finding the natural “flow” of conversation, especially in youth. You don’t even realize anything is wrong until you notice that others are judging you.

With Pluto square Ascendant, you can be very intense right away. If you don’t work through your issues that create the square, you can end up escalating in your intensity and control to become violent or vengeful.

This aspect makes something about your outer personality difficult. Look to the sign that Pluto square Ascendant is in to see how this manifests. You may be too sarcastic, egotistical, bitter, closed-up, controlling, etc.

At its best, Pluto square Ascendant means that you are intense in an interesting way. It will take some work to get to this place.

You may try to hide your Pluto, but this is actually what’s causing your problems. You can’t disguise your need for intensity or your Pluto will come out sideways.

Ultimately, Pluto square Ascendant will push you to transform your image. You try to appear as someone other than yourself. This square will force you to face who you are and show yourself to the world."

It´s going to cross my asc 3 times in the coming years... yay for retrogrades... :42:

"Learn to channel your intensity into your most authentic self. Drop the mask and align with who you are."

Despite living in the bush, I can´t imagine how I could be anymore authentic...

"You can do this in a way that is softer yet still true, so you don’t scare people away. After you’re able to be you, then you can trust others without a fear of them controlling you because you will have stronger gut feelings.

Remember that even if others judge you, all you need to know is that you portrayed your truest, most authentic self"

Meh. Like I give a F who judges me. They ain´t no creator over me.

Probably not relevant but good site. Interesting read ups.

BML and Chiron Trine my Asc so probably helps with the less intensity but BML definitely adds spice to the Asc.
September 23, 2021 at 00:35
(Aries) Wolfmoon » Sunnyshadow
My father has Mars conjunct Asc in Scorpio. He tries to control... EVERYTHING. Combined with his Cancer moon, he´s an interesting bag of emotions.

He regails, in his 20s he used to wear a balaclava to the pub and start fighting the first person who would look at him.
September 23, 2021 at 23:58
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Wolfmoon
Oh yeah, you do have a pretty close square going on there. I know about pluto, having it in my 1st house with several aspects including, (dun dun dun) opposite moon.

I know about the pluto

It´s in your 10th. How would you say that affects your career or work? Intense, underground, ??
September 24, 2021 at 11:45
(Pisces) Bjarklind
Cancer ascendant conjuncts cancer mars in the 1H over here...And I can tell you this, if I´m happy and I know it, I clap my hands when I really need to show it.

I feel sorry for all the ones that thinks their cancer mars placement are weak.
When it´s truly infact a powerful ´superpower´to have.

Thanks for this info! Didn´t know this was because of the asc conjunctions, I knew it had something to do with my cancer mars tho, but thought my aries venus had some cause to it beside my mars energy all along.
September 24, 2021 at 12:38
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » Bjarklind
Yes, I´ve studied a little on Mars in cancer, and found quite a few professional athletes, even Champions, having Mars in cancer. Michael Phelps has Mars in cancer. The greatest Olympian of all time. But it doesn´t have to be a water sport. I know of another 3 time champion with it also. Not water related

That just goes to show you it´s not not a weak placement
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