Natal moon in 12th house - Discussions, questions

Rosincvist Seems everyone and their In-Laws are taking turns playing God this year!
The twins are going to adopt some planets as their own and have you for ian discipline!

Taurus » Rosincvist Thanks a lot for your answer. I didn’t understand what you meant with in laws are playing God this year?

Actually in my case I would prefer to wait till nature would break the waters and give birth the day and time karma would decide and not the date and time suits one doctor……. That’s why I feel sad and every moment I think of it while I m reading the consequences of those difficult aspects I get mad about the doc who interrupted nature for her schedule….

I really really really love my kids and I’m warm-hearted and tender. I also express my feelings to them so I can’t swallow the explanations of those aspects being a cold cruel absent emotionally mother. It makes me feel sad and even insecure as a mother. It influences my mood.

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Think of it this way. If you had naturally birthed your twins when nature intended, would that really change the type of person and mother YOU are? Aspects can only predict circumstances, they aren´t written in stone determining your exact future. I´ve had 2 c section births and I sort of believe they are born when they were meant to be born regardless. Your twins charts aren´t in control of you and how you raise them, so don´t worry so much. Be at peace and your twins will too.

I have many moon squares and while my relationship with my mother was intense in a lot of ways, I knew she always loved me. Your twins will be fine, even a perfect looking natal chart will have its hardships. Those squares don´t have to be anything negative.

lnsabch Just like anything else in life and in nature, things fall on a continuum. There´s no need to assume that your twins will act out the extremes of these continuums. Let´s look at the positives of their aspects:

Sun, Moon, Venus in 12th:
-reserved and private (in today´s extroverted world, this is often seen as "bad" but I disagree...the world could do with more people who are in control of their emotions!)
-work in institutions with unfortunate people (such as mental health counsellors, nurses, homeless shelter workers...society needs these stalwart carers of the downtrodden!)
-possibly spiritual (like a monk or nun...nothing wrong with this)

Mercury in 12th:
-possibly psychic (pretty cool!)

Uranus in 12th:
-my spouse has this and I really can´t see that it does anything in particular.

Moon square Saturn:
-reserved (again, not a bad thing)
-emotional and mental fortitude
-resilience and self-reliance (something sorely lacking in today´s children)

Moon square Jupiter:
-my spouse has this and they aren´t over-emotional at all. They just take their Moon traits to the extreme sometimes (Gemini Moon = soooo much talking, square Jupiter in Virgo = analysis paralysis and perfectionism)

Moon conjunct Uranus:
-I have an acquaintance with this aspect, and they are not "mental" or too "out there". They are interesting and very smart.
-can be a genius if other aspects and genetics allow
-inspired and interesting

Moon trine Neptune:
-great artistic ability if other aspects allow
-creative
-intuitive bordering on psychic
-compassionate

I don´t really follow Lilith but my spouse has Moon conjunct Lilith, and I can´t see that it affects anything.

As a background, I have Moon in 12th and Moon square Saturn. I must admit my life expressed the extreme negatives of those placements, but it doesn´t mean your children have to! As astrologer Allen Edwall says, "the stars impel but do not compel." My spouse has several of those traits and they have a close, loving relationship with their mother.

I will let someone who is experienced comment on the natal charts.

Relax, and congratulations on your additions to your family!