No birth time - Discussions, questions

JayJayAstrology You can do a rectification - but it´s very difficult to do. Even the best astrologers probably only get close. However you can do a biwheel - with how his chart compares to yours because only one of you has to have the correct ASC to do that. I don´t know if you can do this on AstroSeek - maybe someone else knows. I do it on Solar Fire - it´s professional astrology software.

Sis999 » JayJayAstrology Oh! Thank you. I’ll search and see if I can find a free site to do one. Just using my instinct, I can tell he’s super shy and sensitive. I just need to understand this better.

Me: open mouth, insert foot.

Or as my father says: you got some kind of diarrhea of the mouth

🤣 😂

fishscales You can still do planetary aspects...the moon info could be inaccurate though, since the moon moves so fast...

You can see how his planets aspect your ascendant, but not vice versa...

You can do one sided house overlays...where his planets fall in your houses...and again, moon data may not be right...again, no vice versa on that...

Unfortunately, you can´t do a composite...

Still, a decent amount of info can be found...

Sis999 » fishscales Thanks! It’s so maddening. The more I want to find out how he ticks. The obstacles keep falling in my way. Almost like I wasn’t meant to know.

I mean, I’m sure if he dug around (ie, going back to his country and finding someone to rifle through old documents) he could find it. Doubt that information was documented when it was moved to disc/computer. But … lol! Not a priority for this Taurus and if I asked …. He’d ignore the request. Like, forever!

😂

fishscales Oops sorry that post I just posted was supposed to be a message to someone

No dirt or gossip, just a picture of a guitar

Sis999 » fishscales

fishscales » Sis999 "Almost like I wasn’t meant to know."

Maybe you weren´t.

I´ll say this...the person I wound up marrying was the only person whose chart I did not check until a year or so after the relationship started...

Worked out OK.

Although it is undoubtedly interesting, I question the wisdom of checking the synastry for new relationships...too many pitfalls...the danger of self fulfilling prophecy, etc...

Not sure how long you´ve been in this particular relationship though...

Still, as to not being able to check...

Everything happens for a reason...

Sis999 » fishscales Yeah. I know!

I don’t look to astrology to determine if I want to stay ina relationship. I think I wouldn’t date fire signs based on astrology. Don’t think any one would tell me to go after a Leo or Aries 😆 But I enjoy it to understand why there might be an issue AND TO OVERCOME that issue. Relationships are work, no matter the sign. I don’t like dismissing someone just because of an opposition or Squared or anything else that’s says “it won’t work”

I’m just curious.

fishscales » Sis999 "But I enjoy it to understand why there might be an issue AND TO OVERCOME that issue. Relationships are work, no matter the sign. I don’t like dismissing someone just because of an opposition or Squared or anything else that’s says “it won’t work”"

OK, so it sounds like you actually get it.

My wife and I have some difficult moon/Pluto stuff going on, and traditional wisdom says to run in the other direction in that situation.

What it´s taught me is to deal with issues as soon as they come up, and not let them fester. Turns out, that´s something I had always been lacking as a Pisces with Libra rising and Mars in Taurus. All of those placements tend to let things go too long, for their own different reasons.

And you´re 100% correct about the work aspect.

What irritates me is people coming on here asking "what is the chart of my soul mate" and other such nonsense. They don´t want any risk, work, or sacrifice, just some fairy tale relationship, full of ease, which is very unlikely to happen.

As with everything else in life, put nothing in, get nothing out.

Maybe all this is my Cap Jupiter talking, I don´t know. But for me, it´s always been that nothing is given, and everything must be earned. And even then it may not be given

Sis999 » fishscales I know, I see the soulmate topics. IMO, a persons your soulmate if you are there through good and bad. And all the ugly rough stuff. Not that movie version.

Connecting souls is messy. But being up for the task is what makes it a beautiful journey. Each trying to be better for the other and ultimately themselves.

I have learned that this Taurus man has a difficult time with any perceived criticism. So I make time to explain what I say. This is a cultural and religious issue for him. How a person is raised impacts their interactions.

Regardless of signs, we should be aware and open to these open wounds that people carry with them. And learn to like, love, and understand.

cubic » fishscales "They don´t want any risk, work, or sacrifice, just some fairy tale relationship"

What are you talking about?

Lib_8 Hi,

You can try this site for synastry without birth time. It’s a pretty decent report.

https://astrolibrary.org/report/

cubic » fishscales On a serious note I´m all for that philosophy. I actually HOPE to not know the birth time of future romantic prospects. My finest, smoothest relationship was with somebody who I had questionable synastry with, and no composite to brag about.

Had I known her time I would have biased myself negatively, but even a positive bias is bad IME. We can´t really avoid it since we know astrology. If you see a chart you have with somebody that´s it - you´re now biased one way or another.

Granted it´s nice to get affirmation of some problem areas you´ve identified, but that´s the thing you can identify them w/o astrology and work on them, just by experiencing the relationship.

Sis999 » Lib_8 Thank you!