Men, Mercury in Cancer - Discussions, questions

kosmic.kitten I know someone close to me who’s Mercury in Cancer...and it’s in his 1st house. He’s really moody, and gets withdrawn sometimes, actually a lot of times. He willingly talks about feelings and emotions, but only with those he trusts. People he doesn’t trust get the cold exterior and the fake ‘emotionless’ façade.

He is a pretty deep thinker, you can see him processing and feeling things before he talks. People open up to him easily and aren’t afraid to communicate emotions to him, and he is a good listener. You can tell he feels what you’re saying. In the same sense, when he meets people you can tell he is legitimately ‘feeling them out’.

He can alwaysssss guess what I’m going to say next before I say it. Or can tell my emotions thru text, which most people can’t. So, I’d say overall pretty intuitive with talking, communicating and speech. Very feel-y. He is also a Cancer Sun and Rising so that probably has an extra influence.

Welp! That’s my opinion on male Cancer

JessSezItSoftly » kosmic.kitten Awesome! Thank you so much!! 😊😀

TimeLord I have Mercury and Sun in Cancer.
Mercury in my 2nd House.
I can´t control emotions very well while talking. This is a very negative side of me. Because of this I failed progress in life. Especially in material world. Then again it causes any kind of relationship trouble too. We should have to speak from brain instead heart if want good things in life(from my real life experiences). Mercury in Water Sing also in House of Moon never gave me good results.

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord Timelord,Time lord, when you mention not being able to control your emotions. Do you mean your frustrating ones?

Rosincvist I had an anorexic step-father for a couple of decades, he had & ; The mutual reception most related to the subject at hand! He made a name for himself in Commercial Graphic Arts though aspired to a higher level of creativity!

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly Not only that but all types of emotions. Such as laughter, smile, anger, love etc. Suppose my boss or superior telling something wrong and I know there are better and easy way available then I can´t control while talk. I mean with good eye one can notice what is inside my mind. And these include anger and frustration too. All are different types of emotions after all. Wish I could have behave like Robot in outer world.

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord So would you say that you feel things a lot more intensely than you would prefer?

That can have its benefits right?? 🙂

JessSezItSoftly » Rosincvist Very cool!! ...so you said he a mercury in cancer and a gemini moon??

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly Benefits ?
How so ?
No one care about my emotional talking.
So how its good ?
How you seeing this ?
Would you tell me your perspective.
Just say what you feel about this.
Do you ever talk to any man with this communication in real life ?
Though there are other things in natal chart which make all people different.
Still just tell me...

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord Well, ....I would imagine that if you feel things more intensely, then I´d imagine you would have big heart with loving people, as well as feeling great joy when you are happy or laughing... also, you must have great empathy and sympathy for others... and so on.... in other words , any good qualities would be amplified too which I would think would be a good thing or enjoyable...

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly As a Scorpio you get it correctly. But trust me these things have no value in this material world. Here people only care about money, social status, outer looks, powers etc etc. I´m telling from my personal life experiences.

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord I can totally agree... As a scorpio those things are not priorities in my mind.. although I will enjoy and operate them to the best of my balanced abilities...

I noticed you have a gemini moon... So does my husband...

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly Yep, I have Venus Conjunct Moon in Gemini. Its very tight. 0°15´ Orb. But I if it were good for me then I could have different person now.

judyta Super moody and overemotional, also gives silent treatments when upset, when they feel hurt they wont go back to normal for a very very long time, sweet with compliments when in love, very afectionate with words. Its hard for them to open up so when they do be gentle and patient. If you cant its not for u then XD

JessSezItSoftly » judyta Thanks Judyta!!!

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord Could HAVE a different person? or BE a different person??

Gunnar Stars » kosmic.kitten What a wonderful description of a cancerian man. My partner has cancer moon and fits quit well in your words. I think I´ll forward them to him

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly Doesn´t matter.
Nothing will change for good.

astreo What interesting comments, I think I really did not realize it at all, I will be more observant with this the next time I see someone with Mercury in Cancer.

Thanks for the post.

JessSezItSoftly » astreo Your welcome

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord You shouldn´t say that..... How do you know??

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly More than half of life passed.
I become old now.
Never seen any good for me.
What miracle can happen ?
I live in reality now and don´t believe in miracles.
But glad still there are few people who at least care about emotions.

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord Well, I believe there are good things for you...

Sometimes we just have to learn new things, and put into practice new ways of reacting to life....

Hoping, believing, trying and making the best of each days things you already have.

Your own gifted abilities, seizing little or any opportunities, staying patient but continuing to do what you can to find what you are looking for....

And handling it all with precious care... Life isnt perfect... (my husband can attest to that) but you can do your best with imperfect abilities to make it as perfect as you can....

JessSezItSoftly » TimeLord P.S. and you´re not that old!! You´re a year younger than me!!!! 😆😄😄

Besides, lots of ladies love older men.... My husband is 15 years older than me.... (And I love it..... )

TimeLord » JessSezItSoftly Thank you.
I have tried lot in past but always failed in everything.
I see no use of trying anymore but without having choice I still have to keep continuing.
Until I become self-sufficient I have achieved nothing in this lifetime.
I this is piece of cake for many.
But this is the thing where I´m struggling since long.