I felt my Descendant strongly

June 20, 2021 at 17:26 (UT/GMT)
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru
I felt my Descendant strongly
I got a chance to share some time and get to know my descendant during Venus presently visiting Cancer (22° as we speak) especially today and also for some days ago. Other times I was too carefree and "out of it" that I´d forget to observe myself and pass it as a everyday thing.

When you are preparing to sleep, you know you´re finally alone with your thoughts. It´s a time when you finally come back to YOURSELF. It´s a vulnerable moment once the disturbances go away. If someone walked in
and saw you or called you, without a second thought or maybe instinctively you pretend to sleep or hide your face in blanket because you don´t want to lose the comfort and vulnerability you´ve finally put together, you don´t want them to see the bare you.

My experience says the descendant in you takes over when you´re alone and know for sure in the back of your mind that now I´m in total privacy. Take bathroom for example because the door is locked or sleep because its night and everyone else is sleeping too. Now who is the "one" you´re wishing was just next to me that I could share myself with and together we close the door on reality till the next morning?

In my case I became very Cancerian to myself. I wanted someone to mother me to sleep you know like gently pat me on the back. I was also needing alot of affection, holding, repeating words of affirmation, to be cared etc. I think I was trying to give my inner child some love. The general theme here is coziness. It makes you very feminine what a wholesome feeling!

What is your take on descendant? I think its a sensitive/triggering point and can give a clue to your deepest wants! :1:

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June 20, 2021 at 17:58
(Taurus) nutelina
Aw poor puppy :62:
June 20, 2021 at 18:20
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » nutelina
:6: :15:

I see you are a Cancer ascendant, nice to meet you. Did you find something relatable?
June 20, 2021 at 20:30
(Taurus) nutelina » boyakasha the guru
Indeed I did and I feel what you mean. You are Scorpio, I felt at home with them but my moon is opposite.
June 20, 2021 at 22:01
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » nutelina
It´s like you are there and not there at the same time. You are comfortable in their company but your mind is elsewhere. You must think very carefully around them what you´ll say next so you don´t mess up.

I saw your chiron is also next to moon, they are so close to touching the 4th cusp, I understand your struggle. I think its a very uncomfortable feeling for you when you´re asked about closeness. Sorry to ask but was your childhood home a very unstable one because of a mother figure? And you were the responsible/mature one because Saturn trines moon?
June 20, 2021 at 22:21
(Taurus) Rosincvist
The Descendant seeks completion as though the Ascendant isn´t enough, my past-life, Howard Phillips Lovecraft, had :151: parallel the Descendant and was always seeking creative partnership!
June 20, 2021 at 22:33
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » Rosincvist
I forgot your previous username, you used to reply on my old posts I hope I´m not confusing you with someone else. Wait...Im remembering...are you Illyaar73 ?

Is it really your past life :4: ?

I still don´t understand parallels :126:

Yeah sun is an inspirational planet and has a strong pull, gave him the reason to do so for inner definition!
June 21, 2021 at 01:39
(Taurus) Rosincvist » boyakasha the guru
Hopefully IIyyaarr13 shall find his password, Visualise a Pole Star, now visualise a dirty snowball eclipsing it! Visualise all the stars in the sky spinning about the pole star and dirty snowball; You´ve seen what is happening somewhere in the Universe when a pole star is conjunct a frigid body! :64:
June 21, 2021 at 12:38
(Taurus) nutelina » boyakasha the guru
I don´t see how you saw any link between 4th and 11th house where Chiron and my Moon are. Other than that, you are right, I have posted numerously about my mother. My dad is very difficult too, both had no real family who would support them.

Indeed I´m the most stable and supportive because I have the best chart of all it seems. My brother has moon in Scorpio and the rest is Scorpio too beside his Sun in Sagittarius and Mars in Pisces like me!

But back to your topic: I don´t like Capricorn very much. My daughter is Cap Sun and Cancer rising but we don´t get along very well, maybe because her moon in Virgo is opposite my Mars in Pisces. But the most important fact is that we don´t live together. I´m sure I´d have a good relationship with them, always had when we were together for longer periods of time.
June 21, 2021 at 22:27
(Aries) JayJayAstrology
I love your description of your experience. I´ve not thought of the DES or 7th house that way. I rather have enjoyed my 7th the least in my chart in a lot of ways - and it doesn´t feel like a comfort place. I much more relate to what you said as my IC. My Moon is conjunct IC - and I think that feels more like how you feel in your DES. Maybe it depends upon the rest of the chart where we feel like we come back to ourselves at the end of the day.
June 22, 2021 at 02:45
(Virgo) astreo
We are rising in Capricorn!

I think that I feel my descendant when I take care of my puppy. :4:
June 22, 2021 at 03:49
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » Rosincvist
Oh it´s illyaar13 haha got it, I remember you :4:

So Polaris is the current pole star then Vega after 13,000 years (above celestial North Pole) and moon´s [dirty snowball] orbit around earth is tilted 5° (23° declination of celestial equator to ecliptic - 18° declination of lunar orbit to ecliptic) relative to earth. So basically conjunction of moon with polaris. I wonder how moon looks like from North Pole! Not having to look above but straight...

What happens in the universe??? A bad time for sailors?

Hmmmm so stelliums give more parrallels (tiny conjunctions) and oppositions give contraparrallels. Only 1° declination of latitude allowed. Its a game of how many planets lie North or South or at both of celestial equator. Works on asc, mc etc.

Btw I´m still visualising hard and didn´t get the "spinning about" part :/ and what happens next.
June 22, 2021 at 03:55
(Scorpio) JessSezItSoftly
What´s mine??
June 22, 2021 at 03:58
(Scorpio) JessSezItSoftly
Oh wait I read your word wrong.... it´s okay, I´m still curious of your thoughts anyways...🤔👂👂
June 22, 2021 at 04:37
(Taurus) Rosincvist » boyakasha the guru
IIYYAARR has no "ell" :142:
Antiscia could be parallel and a contra-parallel is not as negative as it sounds!
J.R.R. Tolkien had the dirty snowball Altjira conjunct and parallel the Galactic Center, that meant it was impossible to ignore.
Stephen E. King had the dirty snowball Salacia conjunct and parallel the Galactic Center, he could have specialised in pulp pornography and had a "small" circle of loyal readers if he so chose!
The TNO list & the SDO list involve some dirty snowballs that are way outside of the ecliptic where conjunctions and parallels are less frequent!
June 22, 2021 at 07:26
(Virgo) rohini moon
Taurus is my descendant and it´s also where my Moon is.

Yes, I get along well with Taurus ascendants... with my Moon over their asc, I feel almost understood and accepted by them...unconditionally. Hard to explain
June 22, 2021 at 09:17
(Taurus) nutelina
I know two people that have their Sun as descendant and one is my daughter who is also Cancer rising like me and my mom but that´s another thread.

I wonder about that a lot, it seems both of them need publicity in their lives. My daughter was very popular as a small child but she also was 1st in the family.
June 22, 2021 at 13:02
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » nutelina
Interesting...in my case Capricorns and Virgos are attracted to me. Online and outside. Mars and ascendant I´ve seen is the eye catching reason why one wants to approach you, or is curious about you. I had a friend whose sun was conjunct my ascendant and we had a good friendship, he would reach out alot first and wanted to be around me often, good times!

As far as Pisces go, Mars there makes one submissive and non confrontational. My Jupiter in Pisces I believe makes me intuitive.

I´ve seen moon in Scorpios to make online accounts or pages where they post alot of romantic or breakup posts! Scorpio dominants wear dark colors alot and their hair is dark too more than often.

I get along with my sister well compared to others in family. My moon trines her venus 0´40 and I´m able to be myself more around her, such a relief.
June 22, 2021 at 13:33
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » JayJayAstrology
Thank you :62:

It´s quarantine here and I was at home. Cancer rules 4th house of home, nurturing and family so maybe going by that reasoning I had this experience. I´ll start talking to some cancerians sometime later to get an idea :3:
June 22, 2021 at 13:37
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » astreo
Hahah check the puppy´s chart, I had a cat that was born in Novemember. His eyes would light up around me :61: It was a love hate relation, alot of scratches.
June 22, 2021 at 13:41
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » JessSezItSoftly
Sorry I didn´t understand
June 22, 2021 at 14:49
(Taurus) nutelina » boyakasha the guru
>I had a friend whose sun was conjunct my ascendant and we had a good friendship, he would reach out alot first and wanted to be around me often, good times!

Yeah, I got the feeling the Sun wants to be you, the asc. but sees you as a little kid who can´t take 2 steps back and see things objectively but you are really living it. I had a few Cancers do that to me, very annoying, since they themselves were not very developed. I somehow see more others than there really is. I must have probably expected a lot from my own experience about myself and project that onto others.

>As far as Pisces go, Mars there makes one submissive and non confrontational.

For sure I hate violence and drama. But my brother with Mars in Pisces would beat up kids but never initiate. Leo rising makes a difference.

>I´ve seen moon in Scorpios to make online accounts or pages where they post alot of romantic or breakup posts! Scorpio dominants wear dark colors alot and their hair is dark too more than often.

There´s the color thread saying exactly that haha

Venus Sun > Venus Moon what do you think?
June 22, 2021 at 16:28
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » nutelina
Exactly, I had to give him advice and keep him in check. He would act clumsy and forget to read the room. Usually you´re seen as the grown up one. Worth mentioning, we both were Capricorns, one expects a serious poised theme to it but it felt quite opposite for us. We used to crack jokes and laugh alot together. Also the sun person is more willing to pay for outings and trusts you enough to introduce to his/her family and involve you in their personal lives! Too long; didn´t read, we used to hangout way too much.

Not seen combust venus in relationships but natally I have this. It makes you a hopeless romantic, I´ve been in one-sided relationships and it leaves you with a sweet pain. High expectations when it comes to relationships, missing the red flags. Very loving and feminine. Love is a like drug an addiction. I sometimes think it makes me a people pleaser too.
June 22, 2021 at 16:31
(Scorpio) JessSezItSoftly » boyakasha the guru
Its okay... Nevermind 🙂
June 22, 2021 at 16:51
(Capricorn) boyakasha the guru » moonlike07
The sign Cancer is ruled by moon, moon is a sensitive planet it shows why we care, "vibes", a very "feely" type.

Sounds like an Aquarius to me tbh :2:

You liked his rudeness to you???
June 22, 2021 at 17:40
(Aries) JayJayAstrology » boyakasha the guru
4th house is the house of home and family (as you know) - but the IC is also the most inward, private self. I think you´re right to consider house instead of sign. And I have no reason to think that one cannot experience 7th house as a place to come home (as you have) - especially someone prominent in relational signs. Signs are different than houses - the houses being places, arenas of experience. I also think that perhaps, you may experience something similar in other houses at different times. Who knows? But, it´ll be interesting what you find out, regardless of how you research this.
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