Am I an anomaly or Are There others with the same mars like me? - Discussions, questions

I see a lot of people who have the same mars as me (mars in cancer) complain about how they feel weak and non assertive and I don’t have that problem lol if I feel like someone is threatening me or trying to dominate me I handle it immediately. I do not let others get in my way and if somebody insists on pushing my buttons, then things will get bad. I was shocked when I learned my mars sign cause I just didn’t relate to it aside from doing things when I’m in the mood, It’s interesting to me because I have so much water in my chart and I read that too much water in a chart can indicate someone who’s passive. Which brings me to my next question does my chart suck? Lol