Understanding and healing Chiron

September 11, 2022 at 22:04 (UT/GMT)
(Libra) (Cami)
Understanding and healing Chiron
Hey there, Cami here :)

I have been actively working on my Chiron for a while now. I know it´s something that needs time and patience but I would like to read the experiences of others.

In my case, when my Chiron gets "activated" by some situation, I try to be aware of it and do some reflection but I realise that sometimes it can be quite irrational....

On the other hand, I´m also understanding how to use it as a tool and that´s great :)

How is your relationship with your Chiron, have you healed it, are you in the process? No matter its position, sign or house; I´d love to read your experience :)

Thanks in advance!

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September 17, 2022 at 14:36
(Libra) (Cami) » cierra
Hi! Thank you for writing all this. I liked to read your story, how you see it and feel it. It´s quite interesting indeed because my Chiron literally touches the IC but it´s in the 3rd House and it´s totally different. Very very interesting.

You didn´t ask me, but it seems you´ve got it pretty much figured out... :) I don´t know if you realised that but it´s what I feel from "outside".

Thank you for sharing! I wish you the best with Chiron! :)
September 17, 2022 at 14:25
(Libra) (Cami) » giulio99
This is very interesting, Giulio. Thank you for sharing it!
I wish you the best with your Chiron :)
September 16, 2022 at 19:59
(Leo) KellyTC
My Chiron is Taurus in 8H.

I’m still learning about Chiron, but I’d say my biggest wound to heal is issues is surrounding money. We live pretty much paycheck to paycheck, and when I get money, I spend it pretty much immediately. I obviously sigh a big sigh of relief when we have money in savings for a bit, but then something goes off in my brain like “You do not deserve the peace of mind. Go spend money now.”

Yeah… I’m still working on it. 🙃
September 16, 2022 at 18:07
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » Graham
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In a way, yes. I´ve definitely healed my relationship with my mom, and am fixing a lot of the destructive behaviors I have in myself that caused a lot of our issues. But with the other stuff about ethnicity, yeah I´ve realized that can not be healed. Reconnecting with my ethnic culture and the people doesn´t seem like it will serve me in the way I want to live my life, and I think there will always be a sore spot pertaining to how I was treated by my extended family, and how they treated my mother. It´s awkward more than it is painful, and I figured I wont bother any more. I still try to get better at speaking Spanish verbally, since that is my main issue. But it´s purely out of utility and navigating life a bit easier since I live in a state that has a lot of people that mainly speak it, not because I feel any need to truly connect. If that makes sense lol.

I think harping on the idea that something needs to be healed or fixed can be more destructive than anything else, but this depends on the person. Certainly have seen and heard of people completely ruining themselves trying to do "Shadow work" methods they found on TikTok or someplace else. But that´s a whole other discussion.
September 16, 2022 at 17:12
(Aries) Wolfmoon » (Cami)
"You didn´t ask me for opinion, but I couldn´t avoid it!"

I shared because you asked :1: it´s what we do around here :15:

You get a little. I get a lot more :4:
September 16, 2022 at 15:32
(Scorpio) Graham » cierra
"The way I ´healed´ my Chiron was just recognition of the situation, letting myself feel those emotions, and then moving on. I no longer find it constructive to keep focusing on the past and how to heal my inner child or whatever. There´s always going to be a part of me that will feel like an other amongst people that look like me and come from the same background as me, and that´s okay. I don´t think I will find anything useful by squeezing myself in a community I never felt a part of or welcomed in. I´ll instead find different avenues to discover community. Like online, with people that actually share the same interests as me, similar ideas, etc."
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In other words (?) ... "I have recognised that my Chiron Wound cannot be healed, and now focus upon living with it"
September 16, 2022 at 13:34
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I love talking about Chiron because it was one of the things that really "click" for me about astrology. It felt very validating (hate that word but it´s fitting) to see how my Chiron placement reflected my life and the way I felt about certain things.

I have Chiron in the 4th house in Sag, alongside Pluto and Mars. I don´t think Chiron is considered a malefic, since I haven´t seen anyone use that word specifically for it, but it´s certainly a point of contention in anyone´s chart, especially one like mine where very intense planets occupy the same house, and an angular house nonetheless.

The way I see Chiron specifically reflected in my own life is the shame I feel from my extended family for not fitting in the way they want me to. I don´t speak Spanish well despite trying, and despite understanding it by ear. It is very alienating when I have to be in a room with them. (I also have a Pisces Mercury, so it makes sense why speech in general would be challenging.) I´m the outsider amongst them, and amongst people who share the same ethnic background as me. It didn´t really bother me until I was a little older in elementary school where I would try to speak Spanish and be ignored because I couldn´t do it well, and because of my speech impediment. I´ve gotten comments like, "I´ve never met a Puerto Rican who couldn´t speak Spanish before!" Not to mention how many times I´ve gotten comments on my body for being too thin, or for being too "whitewashed", and being called a Gringa. ("Gringo/a" means outsider or foreigner, for anyone that doesn´t know.)

Thus, I don´t really identify too closely with my ethnic/cultural background, and my extended family as a whole. I don´t know what to identify as, but I don´t focus too much on that because labels tend to be very restricting.

My mother has dealt with the same kind of emotions as me, but a bit differently. She´s a lot darker than I am and experiences a lot of racism and colorism within "our own community." She grew up in PR being called too dark, the N-word, etc... That lead to a different kind of alienation amongst them, but alienation nonetheless. I think this is very fitting that my 4H overall has so much shit going on in it, since the 4H often represents the mother (though this is debated but generally speaking it often represents the nurturing figure.)

My mom and I also have had a very rocky relationship from time to time. I think it´s because we´re so alike that we often reflect back our own bad habits in similar ways. I didn´t learn how to let go until recently, and sometimes it´s hard when I´m reminded of some of the things she´d said and done to me that has gone unchecked because she refuses to see, but at the end of the day I had to realize that things could be a lot worse. My mother is a great person, and my relationship with her has overall been a net positive. People have their faults and I´m willing to accept hers. (I do not use this same mentality for people who have been abused by their parents btw. Sometimes parents are shit and deserve to be cut off.)

>> TL;DR: the way i "healed" my Chiron was just recognition of the situation, letting myself feel those emotions, and then moving on. I no longer find it constructive to keep focusing on the past and how to heal my inner child or whatever. There´s always going to be a part of me that will feel like an other amongst people that look like me and come from the same background as me, and that´s okay. I don´t think I will find anything useful by squeezing myself in a community I never felt a part of or welcomed in. I´ll instead find different avenues to discover community. Like online, with people that actually share the same interests as me, similar ideas, etc.
September 16, 2022 at 11:56
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » (Cami)
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I feel like those aspects make defensive , get offended pretty easily and in some cases over sensitive (chiron conjunct pluto 1st house especially). I do notice a tendency to repress my emotions and sometimes tendency to over catastrophying things, however the more i grow the more i feel those aspects are improving and becoming an advantage. Playing the victim, feeling sorry for yourself, blaming the world are all things i used to do and still do from time to time but i realised It is not the solution. From my perspective the goal is to trasform the pain of chiron and use It to trasform your Life. This is especially true for me having pluto in first and scorpio ascendant, needing constant trasformations and changes.
September 16, 2022 at 07:35
(Libra) (Cami) » m0ldyguacam0le
I´m sorry to read that! Thank you for sharing it.
I´m interested your Chiron because it´s placed on Libra. You´d say your pain comes because the interchange with others or, you feel "bad with yourself" and then you extrapole that to others? I mean, you feel bad with yourself then you feel incomfortable when you are with others, plus you have these situations, etc.
September 16, 2022 at 07:30
(Libra) (Cami) » stellium12
Thank you for sharing this! When you´re alone, you don´t feel a real need (beyond your Chiron) to be or share with people? How do you live that?
September 16, 2022 at 07:26
(Libra) (Cami) » giulio99
Thank you Giulio for sharing your experience! And how do you live these aspects you mention?

"My chiron is also square to moon, venus abd mc. it is sextile neptune and conjunct pluto and ascendant"

I´m curious about it.
September 16, 2022 at 07:24
(Libra) (Cami) » Edy
Thank you, Edy. Yes... I am agree. I meant that you shouldn´t repress your own voice if you feel you want to say something in a discussion or you are afraid to start one. Discussions are sometimes necessary...

This is from my experience, but maybe there´s some attitude of yourself that you can change that will help. I have seen how agressive people changes when one have another attitude. If that´s not the case... Maybe the lesson is to have the strenght to leave these places... I don´t know really, I don´t know you and this is very sensitive...

Anyway, my best "advice" with agressive people is to see what are there, beyond their attitude. There´s something deeper. And to see that will help you too.

I don´t know if it is about telling them the truth, because in the end it is your truth and they will have theirs, but about how to harmonise relationships so that you get the treatment you deserve and if this is a repetitive pattern in your life, I understand, that action will have to come from you.

These are just some thoughts that came to my mind when I read you...

I wish you the best and thank you for sharing your experience!
September 16, 2022 at 07:01
(Libra) (Cami) » Wolfmoon
Oh ok, I got it now, sorry. Before I misunderstood because you said "it never bothered me".

Maybe if you try to "force it" a little bit? I think that with Chiron, the barrier is the ego. So you are not forcing the creative situation, you´d be healing you ego, I guess. You didn´t ask me for opinion, but I couldn´t avoid it!

Thank you for explaining me you experience! I wish you the best and I hope you can develop your creativity :1:
September 15, 2022 at 12:01
(Capricorn) stellium12
Chiron in Aquarius. 3rd house. Not belonging to a group. Feeling out of place. Not knowing what to say. Wanting to escape group settings. Self isolating.

I like Geminis´ because they talk and talk and you don´t have to say anything.
I like Capricorns because you can work beside them in silence and they don´t mind, perhaps prefer it.

Prefer small groups of one to a few people. You can be part of the group but stay quiet.

Don´t know if you can heal. Do have a knack of connecting people. Some even become very good friends or even get married. Once they do, I no longer belong.
September 15, 2022 at 09:09
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com
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chiron in sagittarius first house conjunct ascendant. Don´t know what to say tbh,i feel like i was always excluded and put down by others but right now things are the complete opposite. I also see people come to me always asking for advice, i tend to attract weirdos and strange people, i immediately feel the pain of others and can relate sometimes it is overwhelming but i notice i have a good influence on others while other people don´t always have a good influence on me. Chiron in first house also(this is not just me) is what caused overeating especially growing up as a kid, but maybe this is also explained by other aspects in my chart. My chiron is also square to moon, venus abd mc. it is sextile neptune and conjunct pluto and ascendant.
September 15, 2022 at 07:51
(Gemini) Edy » (Cami)
It´s so much truth in what you say, thanks for sharing your opinion.
And as I told my attitude has changed lately, but not because I was healing myself, I´ve got an external help from my previous boss...I had several bosses but I was no one´s favorite That man really values me for who I am, appreciates my efforts and changed my imagine about myself...
The agressivity usually comes from persons I can´t avoid...my actual boss, some of my colleagues, my family including my mom...and honestly you don´t resolve anything arguing with your boss, or with your mom...they won´t change their way of thinking just because you tell them them the truth...
September 15, 2022 at 00:15
(Gemini) FOWL » Wolfmoon
Ah.. sorry to hear that. Gotta stay true to you!
September 15, 2022 at 00:12
(Aries) Wolfmoon » FOWL
The latter. She´s scorpio rising and was very into her sexuality. Kind of where we conflicted the most. I´m more wholesome. She wasn´t.

I always enjoy doing things for my partner. Leo Moon in 7th. Kind of tortures me into making sure they´re happy even though it goes against my own happiness.
September 15, 2022 at 00:08
(Aries) Wolfmoon » (Cami)
Oh its bothered me. Constantly. I like being creative but just can´t. If I have time I´m lost in thought or something else. Everytime I try to be creative somethong gets in the way.

Thanks for asking :1:
September 14, 2022 at 21:51
(Gemini) FOWL » Wolfmoon
That´s interesting... you´d think that doing it for a woman you loved would be pure in a way no? Or the subject of the narrative was less pure I guess than your feelings for her.
September 14, 2022 at 21:35
(Libra) (Cami) » Wolfmoon
Ok, I wrote something and when I posted it, I had this second answer hahaha

I wonder if all this has some relation to your 2nd chakra... Would be interesting to see that and how it work together (chakra and Chiron). it´s hard to me to think it never bothered you! Amazing hehe

Thank you for sharing your experience!!
September 14, 2022 at 21:17
(Aries) Wolfmoon » rohini moon
They´re R18. Not for public posting.
September 14, 2022 at 21:16
(Aries) Wolfmoon » FOWL
Understanding there is more to sex than just an addictive chase. Sex is sacred and I treat it as such. Writing those stories were going against my own views on the topic.

I wrote them for a woman I love and did them for her. She saw my chart and encouraged me. Makes sense looking back.
September 14, 2022 at 21:07
(Libra) (Cami) » Edy
Thank you Edy for sharing your experience and point of view!

It has sense for me your Chiron in Aries (it´s so cool, another person too in that sign... what I needed to read) and I guess the intercepted sign plays some role there too...

Maybe your Chiron ask you to defend your ideas instead of avoiding discussions? And also I guess this agressive people will appear until you realise something... The usual patterns in our life are there for some reason... (I don´t know why I am saying all this but I felt I had to say it... I´m sorry if I am saying more than I should...).

Thank you also for the extra info you share!! I wish you the best with your Chiron!! :)
September 14, 2022 at 20:59
(Libra) (Cami) » sadiemae100
Ohhh yes!! Thank you for taking a time and explain it! Yes, it´s what I always try to do.

Thank you very much, it was nice what you shared and how you explained it!! :)
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