What´s the Issue with Twin Flames? - Discussions, questions

rohini moon » fishscales Bored of the topic too.

fishscales » erickaf "From what I have researched I wouldn´t want a TF, not even for my own worst enemy. It sounds truly painful."

Hence my view that twin flames are a way for people in shitty relationships to feel as if they are having some sort of "spiritual" experience.

A very clever marketing ploy. There are lots of people in shitty relationships looking for hope or meaning in esoteric (or pseudo-esoteric) materials.

The concept is also not rooted in any traditional spuritual/esoteric teaching.

In essence, new age bullshit.

New age bs is always easy to spot. It´s prevailing theories are always what people want to hear.

Lsinsocal I think we have people that we have soul connections to, for sure. Can we really label those here? No.

I think a lot of people think Twin Flames are bs because they see lots of stories or are witness to friends or relatives who buy into the idea. They hang on to unrequited love or stick in bad relationships because they claim this person is their twin flame. It can and often does turn into obsession. It also makes an awful lot of money for scumbags who are scamming these vulnerable, broken hearted people at their lowest point.

That being said, I do believe we can have some sort of spiritual connection to a person. Personally, I have only had this once and it was really very different from all the others in my life due to the high amount of paranormal stuff that happened. It was nothing like the "twin flame" relationships you hear about so I have never been able to label what it is/was exactly or figure out the purpose. I don´t think we are always meant to know and I definitely DO NOT think astrology is a factor.

All I know is this person changed my life for the better. There was nothing toxic about it. It doesn´t have to be romantic either, that´s another weird misconception about soul connections. TF stuff seems exclusively obsessed with romantic partnering.

Sage111 I honestly think it is complete BS.
Sounds rather delusional.
It a huge money maker I do know that.
Hang that on your door . soul mate specialist. Your phone never stops ringing.

I think bad cause uses astrology to back it.
Vertex is one aspect.
Neptune.

Scams is all.

goldenlion32 » macjr82 I think people should just follow their own navigation system and if it feels right, it feels right, if the chemistry is there it´s there, if it´s not it´s not. It´s quite simple.

I think when we try to have someone else tell us what it is right for us, it ends up being where we´re not really enjoying the relationship or life. The one Twin Flame I know doesn´t even come online, and usually they are aiming for Moksha and Enlightenment. They´re not going to sell products to the masses, because they don´t want to take on that karma when they´re trying to get rid of karma.

That´s why when I see all these people jumping on the bandwagon and claiming to be "Twin Flames" in the drovers, it´s pretty much kind of like a bee hive. They´re might be a few queens in there somewhere or kings, but they´re surrounded by a lot of fake news.

I suppose what the Vedic´s call Kali Yuga. I personally can´t stand listening to it much anymore, because it´s like an allergic reaction after awhile. Ha ha!

I used to want to be a marriage counselor, and sometimes wouldn´t mind doing so, but when you look at that mess it´s beyond healthy emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, sexually, or financially.

All you can do is live your life, love those who are in it, and see what happens.

macjr82 I do think that the whole idea that you are supposed to be romantically involved with a soulmate or life partner, especially long term, is crap. Really the opposite is more true. Even beyond that, none of these interactions should be "toxic", but they may be intense. I have a partner that I don´t think I am either, and I believe she has met both, and gained valuable things from them. The twin flame is her kindred spirit & best friend, the soul mate will be forever her family, but she shouldn´t have dated either. I don´t think I am either, but I do believe we are life partners. The astrology/synastry of our charts pretty much bares this out.

https://foreverconscious.com/the-di…

goldenlion32 The thing is you can be born within the same year or week for that matter and go through the same events at the same time. This is just mirroring of the archetypes different combinations and degrees usually conjunct for example.

I have a lot of people at home, while I´m in the Netherlands going through same thing with house being worked on, with different issues with relationships, and so it´s just showing we´re all connected.

When your teaching about Twin Flames it deceptive since I have tons of masculine who fall in my houses and think they´re my soul mate or twin flame and I usually just tell them no thanks. You watch this for 12 years, you learn how it´s just basically mirroring, and some of them stay for different amounts of time and can just be friends, co-workers, romantic/sexual partners, and it´s all Maya illusion.

They´re selling you a dream in that commercialized world.

You might have karma with all the masculine in your life or feminine you date. They can all be divine appointment, divine order, and divine timing.

I can say Mars, Venus, and Jupiter were those three main characters. I would say Karmic was all of them. Two of them soul mates, and when you talk about Twin Flames, well there are biological Twins on both sides of these two soulmates and there is a lot of things that happen at the same time with both of them.

Fortunately, I was told their both my husbands for a past life.

I think it can really get the masculine and feminine really messed up and do some karmic damage to relationships just because they follow that whole thing and keep wounding marriage and families in the process.

I don´t really associate with it, because it´s not original teachings and it´s basically just everyone jumping on a Trend and believing their karmic relationships are twin flames and therefore, believing something that might not be true and ending up in this mess of four generations spilling out their experiences of dating, marriage, and you notice they never talk about children, family, or divorce.

It is chaos and confusion!

Not saying you can´t have soulmates or kindred spirits, but the way social media betrays things is very distorted and can probably even create mental and emotional distress.

erickaf From what I have researched I wouldn´t want a TF, not even for my own worst enemy. It sounds truly painful. But I believe we still in the era of romanticism, so it makes sense there are so many who want or believe there are in a TF relationship. I just recently watched this: https://www.youtube.com/watch/…

I like this video because she sounds practical.

macjr82 See my understanding of twin flames largely mirrors this: https://foreverconscious.com/the-tw…

From what you posted, it doesn´t seem to mesh with what you are saying, which must be the popular interpretation, and why people are so averse to it.

ZynCitrus problem with TF is that people made up theory which helps them cope with crappy love life... People live and stay in crappy relationship which is hard to accept that you allow someone treat you like garbage than someone comes up with theory about chaser (the desperate one) and runner (person non interested in chaser whatsoever but balless to admit it, so they say I love you but I have to go, screw others, grow up...) and chaser eats it with cherry on top and dreams that one day, that one day....

so, if you are treated like crap go away, think why did this happened and how to avoid it next time... no need for TF story