What about this synastry? - Discussions, questions

fishscales » Sunnyshadow "She´s engaged 😭"

What a bitch.



Still like that synastry though... I guess the house overlays aren´t that great though, now that I look at it again...but still...good aspects...

rohini moon » Leo Moon I like looking at it on here just because I´m curious, Its interesting to look at for friendship purposes ;)

Leo Moon I always wonder about using synastry for potential relationships.

I won’t at all.

I feel that frictions can create growth. Obviously too much friction in a relationship and it won’t work.

Perhaps a certain amount of conflict is needed for a good relationship.

It’s difficult to avoid knowing the Sun sign of a partner, but I don’t want to know any more details.


I trust my instincts and intellect.

This has been extremely satisfying on all levels in my life.

Sunnyshadow » rohini moon Hey, that´s not too bad

Yeah, I want to find my arch nemesis and try to make out

To be continued...

rohini moon » Sunnyshadow Check it out

...playing off of what you said...

This is actually a funny idea, try to find the best and worst synastry we each have with the regular posters around here, hahaha.

I remember ram telling me I had the worst synastry with *omitted* once, lol

Sunnyshadow » Sunnyshadow https://youtu.be/gvXswl1il_0

I was picking up a suit from the dry cleaners
Which was standard for me
Thursday, 12:30, I gotta pretty solid routine these days
I don´t know it just works for me
Anyway, I was leaving I was getting in my car
And I went to adjust the rear view mirror, but in its reflection
Just for a second, I saw a figure, started to trigger
Memories of what I had learned, stopped me in my tracks
Who was that? It was my lover, my lover, from a past life

From a past life (feel like I saw a ghost)
From a past life (not what I expected)
From a past life (it´s transfixed)
From a past life

Well somewhere between a lover and a friend
It was different back then, surreal
Poetic so I´d say, like a bizarre shape or a confusing image
But I shot it down, closed it off
The sounds and smells I made myself forget
A cheap solution to block out a friend, but it was real
It just feels like a past life

From a past life (crazy)
From a past life (it takes a lot to trip me out)
From a past life
In the long time

So I go about my day as normal
But I can´t seem to pass it off as just a random event
It consumes me, I thought I was moving on
But I guess I was just switching off
And now I see my life as the banal slog it suddenly became
And I don´t know if I can go on the same
But I don´t wanna dig up old bones
I mean, I don´t even know if she has the same phone number
Who knows? Maybe she does

From a past life
(I guess there´s no harm in trying)
From a past life
From a past life
In the long time
From a past life
From a past life
From a past life
In the long time

Hello?

Sunnyshadow » fishscales Oh you mean this chart


She´s engaged 😭

Yes alot of good synastry in this one

She is quite a bit younger than me, too young really, but I still get this feeling when I see her, or mostly pictures of her on fb anymore. It´s like seeing someone you know from a past life is the only way I know how to explain it. Very haunting, but in the best way possible 🤩

fishscales » Sunnyshadow Whatever happened to that girl whose moon was conjunct your Sun?

I loved that synastry chart!

Sunnyshadow Thanks Dharma and Fish, some good points. I really dont think it would work in the long term either :( although theres always a possibility I suppose. I think squares are funny in the way that they can lead to attraction, but also are one of the hardest aspects. I think we have mars square venus double whammy in there too. And sun square sun. Along with a few others. It´s frustrating to create attraction and friction at the same time.

Havent considered the uranus square moon aspect Fish, thanks for pointing that one out.

Dharma, I think what you said is correct, it may just be a strong physical attraction, that´s mainly what I´m getting from it. I dont do good with conflict though, so not sure I want to pull the pin on this grenade

fishscales Although she has alot of planets in your 4th house, I wouldn´t consider them particularly "beneficial" planets to have there...with the exception of the moon...before we start finger pointing, yes, Saturn "the malefic" is there, but he could (hypothetically) lead to a stable home life, but then you have Uranus and Neptune there, working against even that...I wouldn´t consider Uranus or Neptune fantastic 4th house influences in a synastry...especially Uranus...

I know I´m painting with broad strokes here...I didn´t really analyze the aspects...although if I recall correctly, your moon is square her Uranus... That could sure drive you batty...

I don´t put all that much stock in the compatibility ratings at the top of the chart, but they do have some value, in a broad overview, info at a glance type of sense...

And yeah, 7x passion is alot... Holy moly...

But that 17x conflict is troublesome...

I think what´s probably driving this for you is the Venus conjunct ascendant...and maybe the 7x...

Not that I don´t understand that...

I just think that once the passion subsides and the real relationship sets in, it could be messy...

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Hmmm, I looked at everything (her chart, synastry, and composite), and besides a strong physical attraction and a good possible sexual chemistry and the excitement of unpredictability, it doesn´t look that good, really. I would say a 4 or 5 (a 6 at the most, but I don´t think so) on a 1-10 scale.

But if you two don´t have any expectations whatsoever, or any kind of emotional attachments, and are BOTH willing to enjoy a not completely defined, not limited in any way, sexually and intellectually exciting kind of unpredictable dynamic, then I don´t see any problems.

But to the degree that you try to make it a serious long-term committed romantic relationship, I feel it would fail. So I would say to just enjoy it while it last, don´t hold to it, don´t have any expectations, and just have some fun in ways where none is taking advantage of the other.

rohini moon » Sunnyshadow

Oh you!


Hell yeah homie. Check out the Vedic life ;) peak into "into the voids" D9 chart thread ;)

Sunnyshadow » rohini moon Rohini, you know you were my 1st choice, but distance has kept us apart. I hope after my disastrous affair with 17x conflict girl we can finally find our way to each others arms





I´ve been checking out the vedic stuff too, mostly the D9 chart

rohini moon » Sunnyshadow Haha you´re just smitten ain´t ya! Lol.

I´m a Vedic gal, so I´d have to look at the synastry through that lens, but I´m sure you´re gonna get helpful responses soon enough from the western folk ;)

rohini moon » Sunnyshadow I enjoy painful experiences

You know us Saturn 12th - housers!

Sunnyshadow » rohini moon I think it´s the 7x passion is what I´m seeing

Sunnyshadow » rohini moon Lol, for real though, you would think she wouldn´t be so attractive to me then?? 😭

From my track record it seems I enjoy painful experiences

rohini moon 17x conflict.....

Damn homie.