Very compatible couples

June 23, 2020 at 14:20 (UT/GMT)
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Very compatible couples
Please post Synastry charts, with their birth data visible on the report, of couples you know from real life, your own long-term relationships, couples in your family tree, long-term relationships of celebrities, or any good examples. Add some comments why do you think it worked out well, mention astrological and non-astrological reasonings.

I use preferably Sidereal and Whole signs system. However, Zodiac and house system used isn´t a prerequisite for a posting.

Definition of long-term couple isn´t in question either. For someone is half year, for someone is forty years. If you know a duration of the relationship between the couple you´re posting, please mention it in a comment.

Coming soon. I am working on roughly ten charts and several websites on my phone. I am updating each post gradually. Also waiting for more data from other astroseekers.

Every comment is welcome. I don´t hold grudges towards anyone here.

Enjoy your research and sharing. ;)

Quote: "If I understood you are trying to compare or making analogy between sidereal vs astro.seek synastry right? Or accusing synastry flaws vs real life experience?"

I think that above pretty much summarise it. xD

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July 9, 2020 at 19:44
(Aries) nutelina » MelodicBlu
Marvin is becoming Rector Praenuntiativus Astrologia. Pray that the Gods have mercy, this is going to be hard work!
July 9, 2020 at 19:10
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 038: previous relationship of friends
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 28 (Max:34).
Recommendation: Unknown, OK? Dark Green

Duration: 3,5 years.

But astro-seek giving just this
4x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
2x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
3x Amor Passion - at the beginning, aspect ignites explosive passion.
3x Tears Emotional pain - aspect brings emotional suffering and struggle.
9x Easy Easy - aspect brings harmony and compatibility.
6x Struggle Conflict - aspect brings conflict and incompatibility.
4x Easy Struggle - combination of harmony aspect and conflict aspect.
7x Exact - these aspects are exact and will be more influential.
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July 9, 2020 at 09:43
(Scorpio) MelodicBlu » MarvinReal
I want to understand this. seems very interesting
July 9, 2020 at 09:09
(Virgo) MarvinReal » Haleee
Apart of total birth chart reading, there are specific ways and themes to be read in a chart. One of those topics is ´relationship potential´, sometimes called ´marriage rating´ or in more modern sense ´partner rating´. While the following numbers based on the condition of 7th house doesn´t fully answer all questions, it does answer some of them. Roughly thirty examples, anonymized sampling, unsorted.

8.1 female Very Strong
7.8 male Very Strong
6.4 male Strong
3.7 male On Par
8.1 male Very Strong
4.7 female On Par
8.5 female Very Strong
5.3 female On Par
7.1 female Strong
3.2 female Weak
4.6 male On Par
1.4 male Very Weak
9.8 female Very Strong
4.9 female On Par
4.7 male On Par
13.2 male Exceptionally Strong
4.6 female On Par
8.3 male Very Strong
7.3 female Strong
4.2 female On Par
7.7 male Very Strong
8.1 female Very Strong
5.7 male Strong
4.7 female On Par
5.4 male On Par
3.2 male Weak
7.5 male Very Strong
4.0 female On Par
5.8 female Strong
4.6 female On Par
7.7 female Very Strong
7.7 female Very Strong
5.4 male On Par

Partner, meaning the spouse, but it applies to any sustained relationship. The quality of the relationship, the spouse, how much it benefits you, the longevity of the relationship and so on, can be assessed from more than ten indicators like the Kalatra Bhaava (7th House), Kaaraka (Significator), special partnering combinations (Yogas) and so on. Yogas with the 7th ruler or in the 7th house, are a great indicator for ease and quality of partnering. Venus is signifying partner and marriage, it is a general significator in a natal chart.

In the horoscope marked as Exceptionally strong, sidereal Pisces DSC, The Ruler of 7th is Jupiter, and it is very strongly placed. Venus is exceptionally strong. In this horoscope, 4 yogas in the 7th house, while the 7th house ruler participates in 3 yogas.

On the other hand, in the horoscope marked as Extremely weak, sidereal Libra is the 7th house and the 7th ruler is Venus, which is very weakly positioned. Venus is signifying partner and marriage and it is very weak. There are no yogas in the 7th house and the 7th ruler participates in no yoga.

What´s your thoughts?
June 29, 2020 at 20:57
(Virgo) MarvinReal » Sus
So far it is a mixed result for both systems, while extreme high doesn´t guarantee a success and extreme low does guarantee a failure. Most couples are in between. Birth time is a crucial information for a calculation. But the main problem is insufficient amount and also a quality of examples. I hope to get more from others to properly grasp on understanding. Thanks for your contribution, as well as to many others. Each piece can be important in the end.
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June 29, 2020 at 20:07
(Sagittarius) Sus » MarvinReal
So far what´s your conclusions? Can a bad rate relationship be enduring? Or a good one end fast? What about sidereal/astro.seek rate?
June 29, 2020 at 11:27
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 037: Partnership of a friend
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 26 (Max:34)
Recommendation: Unknow? OK? Dark Green

Duration: 1,5 year and ongoing

But astro-seek giving just this
4x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
4x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
3x Amor Passion - at the beginning, aspect ignites explosive passion.
3x Tears Emotional pain - aspect brings emotional suffering and struggle.
13x Easy Easy - aspect brings harmony and compatibility.
8x Struggle Conflict - aspect brings conflict and incompatibility.
11x Easy Struggle - combination of harmony aspect and conflict aspect.
12x Exact - these aspects are exact and will be more influential.
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June 29, 2020 at 11:27
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 036: Previous partnership of a friend
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 29 (Max:34)
Recommendation: Unknow? OK? Dark Green

Duration: LDR, twinflame, 8 months

But astro-seek giving just this
4x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
3x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
2x Amor Passion - at the beginning, aspect ignites explosive passion.
1x Tears Emotional pain - aspect brings emotional suffering and struggle.
15x Easy Easy - aspect brings harmony and compatibility.
6x Struggle Conflict - aspect brings conflict and incompatibility.
5x Easy Struggle - combination of harmony aspect and conflict aspect.
7x Exact - these aspects are exact and will be more influential.
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June 29, 2020 at 11:26
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 035: Previous partnership of a friend
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 20 (Max:34)
Recommendation: Unknow? OK? Light Green

Duration: 6 year relationship

But astro-seek giving just this
2x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
3x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
2x Amor Passion - at the beginning, aspect ignites explosive passion.
6x Tears Emotional pain - aspect brings emotional suffering and struggle.
8x Easy Easy - aspect brings harmony and compatibility.
13x Struggle Conflict - aspect brings conflict and incompatibility.
5x Easy Struggle - combination of harmony aspect and conflict aspect.
12x Exact - these aspects are exact and will be more influential.
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June 29, 2020 at 10:54
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 034: Parents of a friend
Score: Unknown, cannot be determined without time of birth
Recommendation: Unknow? OK? cannot be determined without time of birth

16 September 1936, unknow time, Belarus, Minsk
18 March 1947, unknown time, Russia, Kurgan

sidereal chart, no houses.

Duration: Married in 1977. It lasted until death (2012) for 35 years.

But astro-seek giving just this
4x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
3x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
2x Amor Passion - at the beginning, aspect ignites explosive passion.
2x Tears Emotional pain - aspect brings emotional suffering and struggle.
16x Easy Easy - aspect brings harmony and compatibility.
13x Struggle Conflict - aspect brings conflict and incompatibility.
5x Easy Struggle - combination of harmony aspect and conflict aspect.
15x Exact - these aspects are exact and will be more influential.
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June 27, 2020 at 09:14
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 033: great and long friendship between women
Score: nothing romantic, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 24 (Max:34)
Recommendation: nothing romantic, OK? Dark Green

Duration: friends for 20 years and ongoing. Pluto trine Moon was mentioned as important part of their friendship.

But astro-seek giving just this
2x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
1x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
6x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
3x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
15x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
11x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
3x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
11x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 27, 2020 at 08:10
(Virgo) MarvinReal
I just noticed patterns between the two Moons :152: in examples 031 and 032.

In example 031:
Moon in sidereal :152: :174: sextile :198:
Moon in sidereal :152: :172: "by sign", but lunar nakshatras were rather incompatible.

In example 032:
Moon in sidereal :152: :174: trine :193:
Moon in sidereal :152: :182: "by sign", but lunar nakshatras were also rather incompatible.

This blows my mind tbh, and all those findings on this entire topic thoroughly changing my previously held convictions in astrology. And that´s just a beginning.

After all, the power of love takes a rule.
I am glad that it´s working for you. It´s the power of love, and free will, which astrology cannot predict. Very important is spiritual maturity, acceptance of imperfections, tolerance, compromise and mutual listening and giving.

EDIT: example 032 benefits from trine "by signs," plus trine "by orbs" between the two Moons, which is adding harmonious nature. This synastry has several harmonious aspects between personal planets and the Ascendant. Example 031 had only Venus conjunct ASC, and Sun-Saturn square "by orbs" plus square "by signs" to Moon-Saturn. Moon square ASC, Sun square ASC. However, both synastries have heavy karmic stuff, which is okay in a medium dosage, I believe.
June 27, 2020 at 07:37
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 032: relationship of astro-seek member
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 9 (Max:34)
Recommendation: Unknown, OK? Red

Duration: 7 months and ongoing. "In Vedic and here [astro-seek] things are not wonderful [score is low]. 7 months together, a lot of understanding, love and acceptance of the other. Strange connection. We will see."

... explanatory brackets added by Marvin to the quote.

Of course, every synastry is a mixed package. While it has some similarities with previous man, overall picture is better.

But astro-seek giving just this
5x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
1x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
2x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
2x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
14x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
10x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
4x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
8x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 26, 2020 at 23:15
(Virgo) MarvinReal » Haleee
Yes, I think that synastry formula on astro-seek is missing lot of important synastry points from modern western alike from traditional synastry, and some vedic methods.

But the calculation is still pretty decent compared to elsewhere.

There is also a development version of the calculator. Ask Petr9 for the link. I forgot where it is.

Experienced astrologer, with good knowledge of human behaviour, can determine whether it will be livable relationship, or not.

I think that this relationship was simply too much to bear, even though it had some awesome stuff too.

However, I appreciate that she shared the information and I encourage others to support our science too, so we can learn.
June 26, 2020 at 22:58
(Virgo) MarvinReal » Haleee
They have had ultra low lunar compatibility.

Among other atrocities of their chart.
June 26, 2020 at 22:53
(Pisces) Haleee » MarvinReal
Does it approve that the data that the website giving is not correct? Or it cannot predict what will be happened in the relationship?
June 26, 2020 at 22:17
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 031: marriage of astro-seek member
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 11 (Max:34).
Recommendation: Unknown, OK? Orange (11 should be rather Red)

Duration: It lasted 13 years, "we have a child, many scandals. It wasn´t a good relationship, neither of us was feeling well."

But astro-seek giving just this
2x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
1x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
7x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
4x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
11x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
13x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
4x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
13x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 26, 2020 at 09:53
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Later on I will add more real marriages and long-term relationships.

I need others to contribute as well. It´s best to message me in private with birth data and I will post anonymous charts.
June 26, 2020 at 09:45
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 030: another unusual competitive friendship with male, some hate and help scenarios, often we like the same women, generally some cooperation and help. Quite weird stuff in total, but alright.
Score: nothing romantic, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 19 (Max:34)
Recommendation: nothing romantic, OK? Light Green

Duration: 2 years netizens

"Synastry" of this weird friendship is very positive and beneficial overall. Almost no conflicts, hahaha.

But astro-seek giving just this
3x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
3x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
4x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
1x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
12x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
2x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
8x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
10x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 26, 2020 at 09:36
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 029: spiritual friendship with astro-seek member, older woman, big mutual learning
Score: nothing romantic, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 24 (Max:34)
Recommendation: nothing romantic, OK? Dark Green

Duration: two years netizens friends

But astro-seek giving just this
5x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
4x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
4x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
3x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
18x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
4x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
7x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
12x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 26, 2020 at 09:16
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 028: friendship with male (guy) lasting entire life
Score: nothing romantic, just for a reference Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 29 (Max:34)
Recommendation: nothing romantic, OK? Dark Green

Duration: friendship for 25 years and ongoing, although much less, A great philosopher, spiritual and mental growth learner, long talks, progress, new ideas, surprising musical artist, board games, competitive sports.

But astro-seek giving just this
1x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
4x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
3x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
2x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
10x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
10x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
10x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
9x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 25, 2020 at 11:32
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 027: relationship of other astro-seek member.
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 23 (Max:34)
Recommendation: Unknown, OK? Light Green

Duration: Met in 2008 and ongoing.

This synastry has several easy and supporting aspects of "smile" nature, which are valued by having no score, like if they would have no impact on partnership experience. Additionally, an advanced age, wisdom and spiritual maturity contributing with living together quite satisfying life. Ashtakoot has good compatibility of the moons by score of 23.

But astro-seek giving just this
0x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
0x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
5x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
2x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
8x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
7x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
6x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
10x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 25, 2020 at 11:18
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Example 026: marriage of other astro-seek member
Score: Unknown, Ashtakoot Guna Milan is about 15 (Max:34).
Recommendation: OK? Light Green

Duration: Met in 1997. Married 1999-2007. It lasted 10 years.

Unknown birth time of one spouse (outer circle houses need to be ignored, set up default as noon time).

Quite low vedic score of 15, for a marriage, while western synastry looks better.

But astro-seek giving just this
2x Loving Loving - tender and loving aspect.
4x Key aspect Key - crucial aspect in your life.
3x Amor Passion - ignites explosive passion.
3x Tears Emotional pain - emotional suffering.
8x Easy Easy - harmony and compatibility.
10x Struggle Conflict - conflict and incompatibility.
5x Easy Struggle - combination of easy/conflict aspect
8x Exact - exact, more influential aspect.
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June 24, 2020 at 21:34
(Virgo) MarvinReal
It´s starting to be a big project. :75:
June 24, 2020 at 21:30
(Virgo) MarvinReal
Travelguy35´s relationship is one of the best so far.

Amdash´s one is also good.

So far all marriages were compatible, except of RowanBun´s parents.

I will continue working tomorrow I guess. I didn´t reviewed all data yet, and I am awaiting another charts coming. Plus, I have lot of backups.
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