27, devoted to my career, but single for years. Is there a change with the upcoming transits? - Disc

Hey guys,

My last relationship ended in 2019 and since I have been trying to date again in 2020, my wish to find love again did not work out - I fell in love a couple of times but continuoulsy met guys who were not what they seemed, which might also relate to my natal venus in aries being squared by neptune. Also my natal 5th house mars in leo squares 8th house pluto in scorpio, and power struggles have been present in my dating history a couple of times. I try to work on my part in this. I also feel like a couple transits like Saturn opposing my Mars in the 5th house, kind of held me back from finding romance again. Also, I became kind of withdrawn and more introvert especially during 2022, with Neptune in my 12th and Saturn and Pluto in a quincunx to my mars in leo.

Recently, people from my past came back when Venus transitted my 12th house and the south node is still in transit in my 7th house, but it was more like I saw them for who they were rather than a new start.

The last couple of years seemed to be more about finding my place in society, also I lost some friends- which was painful at first but with Saturn being done in my 11th house (aquarius) I now find myself surrounded by more stable and reliable people and see it was actually for the best. It was also very centralized on career and climbing up the ladder with a very difficult start in 2020. Now I still need to devote lots of my time to growing that, but I know I am on the right track and my path in healthcare is something I am deeply devoted to. And I know it will be even more rewarding when I finished my training, and financially secure.

I also see progress in the sense that my idea about who I am become much clearer - and I don´t fall for certain appearances as easily as I used to, I don´t get carried away that much anymore.

But even with the success I made, I deeply long for finding a partner again (while also not having much time). And I am 27 now and see some folks being with their partner for years around that age, and I sometimes fear that my life will be only devoted to work and therefore I have to stay "the lone wolf" forever. I kind of have the fear that when I reached my 30ies, I will have climbed the top of my career at the exchange of my private life, and that my wish for having a partner and kids someday will not work out...

Soon Jupiter will conjunct my venus in aries (April 23), and I hope that I might find love again around that time. But the south node will still be in my 7th house. And with my solar arc, a venus = sun conjunction is approaching and my 2023 upcoming solar return also indicates a new love interest. And with me reading my own transits and chart, I am also probably biased in that regard.

So, from your unbiased perspective on my astrology: Is my concern for not finding love again valid? With my solar arc venus = sun, and Jupiter conjuncting my venus in April for instance, what do you think I can expect in the coming months to happen ? And if there is something going to change for the better, around which time could that be? And do you maybe have advice on how to approach this issue and dating in general, and how I could meet someone that I can build a longterm relationship and a life with?

This is kind of bugging me since a while, thank you so much in advance :)