Does anyone personally have Venus Square Uranus in their natal OR was in a relationship with someone

Anyone else with Venus Square Uranus? I´m curious how this presents in other people´s chart. I´d also like your take if you dated, married or was close friends with someone with this in their natal. I´ve added a YouTube clip below of Jewel discussing the aspect. There are elements of her analysis that are shockingly accurate for me. The cheating part doesn´t apply, even though I understand the drive she´s describing here. Experiences are highly valued over most other things.

It sounds silly and slightly embarrassing, but I´m riddled with contradictions here. There´s a drift towards and need for periods of distance with desperate cravings for autonomy while simultaneously being drawn to raw and reality shattering emotional closeness and exposure with another (Aries Moon in 8th Opposite Pluto is described here). I´ve experienced this once and it was both seriously off putting and yet deeply satisfying. Intellectually, I find this wildly impractical and unlikely to even exist short of delusional assessments of reality driven by hormonal manipulation or fleeting situational context. Even the withholding affection stuff - she´s not exactly right about the motivation, but from external observation, it´s a fair point.

I was only mildly aware of this in my last relationship (lasted 10 years) and couldn´t discern whether it was me or the combined energy of the relationship - it did always feel like it took persistent conscious effort to ensure the other felt loved and cared for as I usually required less attachment. Especially if I get enthralled into some aspect of work, learning or investigation - it´s never half ass. Conscious deliberation began to feel like a chore despite how I felt towards her never wavered. There were times I failed miserably in this balancing act, especially when we hit a tragedy constant year - it felt like the relationship only worked through sacrifice.

I´ll end where I began. Anyone else have this aspect in their chart or was in a relationship with someone with this natal aspect? How does it present for you - if it presents at all? For that matter, how did the other interpret it? Last but not least, if you were in a relationship with someone sporting this natal aspect - what was the relationship like from your pov?