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Would relationships with women be a better match for me
May 16, 2021 at 15:14 (UT/GMT)

Would relationships with women be a better match for me
I notice that men are not attracted to me at all. I also notice my chart has a lot of mars....Even if i try to pursue men they don´t like me at all. So i´m wondering is it because i´m meant to be with women instead? If some one can kindly help me out here. So I can quit wasting time with trying to get men interested in me. Thanks

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May 18, 2021 at 18:40



May 18, 2021 at 18:22

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May 18, 2021 at 10:17

Your 7 th house cusp is sag. Sag parter could be long term. but then try to use your gemini side more with those man since noone can ever cage a sag man.
Maybe a leo is a good match for you to build a family for you. 4 h house cusp.
You are asking this question because you have mars in first house. You are going on a war with yourself. Try to embrace gemini side of you for the first house. Understand how mars effects you and control it.
Who doesnt love a gemini rising. The most fun people of all. Let it go a bit.

May 18, 2021 at 06:29

I agree that the conversation should not go in that direction, but for her to ask herself the question privately. The same thought passed through your mind, so this is evidence that this is an important factor in dating.
We don´t have to talk about it more, I´m cool with that.
All the best to you and the OP.

May 17, 2021 at 18:50


May 17, 2021 at 18:46


May 17, 2021 at 18:36

I had relationships with women, thinking that I´m undesirable for men once upon a time. It was a big mistake and waste of time.
With men? It was the same; dishonest, loser, selfish, too coward to name a relationship... but they were not as disappointing as the decision of being with women.
What you think now may bring worse than what you´ve experienced before and it can be better not to receive any interest and affection from any gender than becoming completely disaffected towards love and finding everything repellent about it.
In my case, it is too late but you can give yourself some time instead of doing something that may cause regret.

May 17, 2021 at 00:17

Probably not, since by your own admission you´re not into that...
What do you mean men don´t like you at all? I´m so confused.

May 16, 2021 at 22:01

May 16, 2021 at 17:14

"A foreigner or someone living abroad or with a different background could match perfectly your chacteristics!"
Hmm. I´m in a bit of a similar boat with Venus(and Merc, and Mars) in 9, ruler of DC. Different background is required to sustain my interest, otherwise I get bored if there isn´t anything "different" than my cultural default. Another culture is nearly endless learning.
Different background doesn´t have to be as drastic as another country with its culture though.
Could be another ethos within the home country. Could be somebody from another city that is on the opposite side of the country.
Or from another not-so-far-away place that happens to have somewhat substantial differences compared to the home city/town.
Here is something I noticed that might be result of that. Whenever I´ve lived in not-so-great neighborhoods I´d get along with people from the opposite side of the city, the better/fancier ones. Whenever I´ve lived in fancier, I´d get along with the opposite. Sagg/9th house prefers non-default, out there stuff I guess.
Perhaps this is relatable, perhaps not.
"You have complete freedom of choice so even if it doesn´t come as easily as you´d like you shouldn´t think with this logic !! In this case do what you LIKE, listen to you HEART not bad luck."
Yup.
I think she is just saying that stuff about women.. it´s a bit for dramatic amusement is how I take it.

May 16, 2021 at 16:29

---> Ok, so if I understand well your logic : you should be with women because you don´t have luck with men so EVEN IF you´re not attracted by women you should be in relationships with women ?
In this case it´s not a matter of being meant or not you just choose what you want to do. You have complete freedom of choice so even if it doesn´t come as easily as you´d like you shouldn´t think with this logic !! In this case do what you LIKE, listen to you HEART not bad luck.

May 16, 2021 at 15:49

Thank you for your response! I´m not attracted to women. I try to be as kind as i can be and Go about my day. But maaaan!! You may be right about going aboard!! 90 day fiancee anyone.lol I just notice I have more mars in my chart than most men!! and have mars in my first house too!! I said..´Ah, that sucks! no wonder.

May 16, 2021 at 15:28

Your 7th house in Sagittarius with neptune close to its cusp and your jupiter (7th house ruler) square saturn in cancer could lead you to emotional disappointments and delays but it doesn´t mean that men don´t find you attractive!!!!
There are quite a few men who love a fiery and feisty attitude in women! I´ve got lots of mars too and badly aspected stuff, but it doesn´t need to be negative, you could be really attractive just because you´re different!
My question is, do you find women attractive, too? Because if you do, go ahead, then!!

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