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Aug 15, 2022 - 20:45
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - SagittariusGoldenlionXXXII » Virgo_sun333
Uranus in your chart and Chiron in his is probably creating some kind of painful experience with both of you.

Chiron is his core wounding emotionally, mentally, spiritually, sexually, and financially. I think this is probably the thing he has some water signs that are quite sensitive.

As then you have the South Node right now bringing up things from the bottom up the surface to be healed. The purging and purifying of the soul or subconscious mind. This is emotional triggers.

He´s quite young and the masculine are healing in some ways right now. As you have to put yourself in his shoes as the masculine in a world that teaches different flavors of femininity. He has his own sexuality, gender identity issues, his own questions about himself.

I´m not sure if you realize sex is the deepest wound emotionally of the women and men from multiple variables.

I keep thinking he´s processing some stuff and it´s just not going to be on your terms because it´s all about his masculine journey. About him. Wherever he´s been his journey. What he experienced. And you don´t know what he´s been facing in the world selling him a certain perspective.

He´s growing, maturing, and evolving. I can´t see pushing him to get out of the place he´s in until he´s ready because people move at their own pace.

Not to mention there can be a lot coming up right now with world events since 2020 and about life in many different ways. A lot to process for some people. Especiall, with his chiron being the core wound in that archetype. There can be layers of grief, loss, wondering about what he´s doing with his life, where he´s going in life, what he wants to do. What does his future look like.

Remember, we´re not exactly in the best situation and a lot of things can be on his mind.

Your one person, but he´s another separate from you. He´s a sensitive soul, and needs a lot of tender loving care.

He might be in a lot of pain and suffering and no one´s listening to him in the silence.

Sometimes it´s about hearing without forcing any agenda and expecting anything in return. I don´t think he´s doing anything to hurt you on purpose.

Maybe just need to leave him alone and leave him be for awhile. Sometimes when you give people heal and have their space great things can come out of it whatever that may be.
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Aug 15, 2022 - 17:41
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - VirgoVirgo_sun333 » Virgo_sun333
Could someone take a look at his chart or our synastry transits and please let me know if you can see what is blocking this energy… possibly we’re not sexually compatible anymore or there is a blockage and how to work with that energy to help him come around? What I can do… say… focus on to help if there is hope left? We have a 2 year old and 5 years in… I have family, time and love invested but perhaps there’s a solution? What’s he into what can I do to try..? Too much mixed energy… is he always going to be distant non physical? Is it a phase? Is it permanent? Is he into something I can bring in to open the door? Is it hopeless? Do I have no game to compete with his porn or imagination or online options? Should I call it quits? Any hope? I’d ask him but he won’t say and it would turn into an argument or a dead end… 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ There’s been times he’s hot and on fire so I know he has it in him..?
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Aug 15, 2022 - 16:44
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - ScorpioYRashawn » Virgo_sun333
Moon in Cancer in the 7th, yup you need a lot of attention from your partner. It nurturs you.  The Sun represents your partner and in Virgo Square Uranus in Scorpio. That is the "bi-polar" aspect as it manifest as extreme supsets, anxiety triggers, mental illness in general. He could be detached and medication will do that you unfortunately.
This is also a betreayal aspect so do not rule that out. The moon is at the anarertic degree of 29....there could be a 3rd party that is a woman that interferes with your relationship. She forms an opposition with your ascendant so she could "oppose" you. There could be a stand off especially because Mars is with the moon. My solution to your problem is a bit unorthodox but you need two lovers. Gemini on the 5th: one person for the mental stimulating and the other for fucking. Or you could get into erotica novels.
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Aug 14, 2022 - 21:43
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - GeminiFOWL » Virgo_sun333
It´s not his kink... he´s literally telling you to go see another man so that he can level up his Pokemon score!
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Aug 14, 2022 - 14:16
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - AquariusRamKrishn108 » Virgo_sun333
I haven´t yet checked your charts but I think you should give him time. Secondly you have repeatedly mentioned about his addiction. Here it goes he gets from what he likes and you on the other addicted? to touch and sensual pleasure. He has option where as you don´t.

What i suggest you is this is the best time to both of you enjoy in other areas of life like sitting together, sharing ideas, recreational activities, educating the child, social services etc. Don´t think sexual energy only be satisfied with physical union you can take it to mental level and stimulate higher forces which will help both of you in future life. Especially when you get older.

We should think also about reality apart from chart.

However you can see 5 and 8th (2 nd aspect?) house current transits from his lagna and moon sign. Also 3 rd house and 9 th aspects.


Saturn probably has some effect as someone mentioned his Mars is in Gemini to which Saturn Transit is 8th of obstacles.


Take care.
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Aug 11, 2022 - 16:37
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - VirgoAstrooo » Virgo_sun333
Hello,

The map at the end of the message is of course caricatural, because one cannot summarize the psychology of a person in a few words.
This card is deliberately provocative, because I think your questions about your partner are projections of YOUR questions:

- Questions about your body (Chiron Taurus IC)
- Questions about your level of desirability (H6 -> H8) on the Cancer mode (Emotional blackmail) / Leo (Pride) / Virgo (Anguish imperfection) / Libra (Manipulation and Shame)
- Questions about the purpose of your life (Uranus Conj Lilith Scorpio H10 = "revolutionary" affirmation by the power of Lilith scorpio / sexual instinct) and your place in society (H11) / Neptune Retrograde Sag = Dissolution in the group to find in the deep waters of the unconscious (Jupiter, ruler Sag in H8) =
The porn addiction that you mention several times in your partner looks like a psychological projection on your part of YOUR sexual fantasies and your attraction to pornography (assumed or repressed)
Similarly, the evocation of your partner´s flirtation with other people seems to be an evocation of fantasies that lie dormant in you.

I invite you to think about what sexuality means to you beyond appearance:
- Physical / energetic (orgasms / release of psychic tensions)
- Egotic (affirmation of one´s degree of desirability)

sexuality can be much more than that.
especially with a life path number 8
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Aug 11, 2022 - 08:46
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Sun Sign - Leostayathomewife » Virgo_sun333
And to Mrs. OP, I use Whole Sign house. Your Lilith is in 10th house, you can read it here it will tell you what Lilith in 10th house means: https://advanced-astrology.com/lili…

I would not say your Lilith is that sexual though (certainly not in 10th house), the house MATTER alot, as each house is a theme of your life, and the house is where that Lilith energy will manifest. That why we have 12 houses in our wheel, the planets that landed in that house will manifest it energy and carry the theme out.
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Aug 11, 2022 - 05:59
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Sun Sign - TaurusMorena_Lu » Virgo_sun333
Some men are just more into porn..not into real females, sad..but true. You can be hot as fuck...it is just in their heads. I don´t say that your partner is 💯 like that...but a lot of men today are lost in virtual world.

My recommendation to buy for him/yourself ( Erectile dysfunction is main problem..but just one of them)
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Aug 11, 2022 - 03:43
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Sun Sign - PiscesAragatito » Virgo_sun333
You have Lilith in Scorpio, which makes you very intense sexually, you have Venus in the 8th house, the house of transformation, and she is also very sexual, intense and possessive, I stopped at your graph,it is very difficult for someone to please you sexually, I know because I also have Lilith in scorpio and believe me I know the intensity, but regardless of that, you have the need to carry his bipolarity, your son and you deserve that? You say it yourself, you are too attractive to beg for affection, he is not going to fill you up, they are of different natures and as much as you like dissatisfaction weighs, because one day your self-esteem will be it affects because Lilith in scorpio needs to be adored, desired and possessed, that is the essence that with nothing else to change, but it seems to me that his essence is in something else, you know before I also I liked boys to feel young, but maybe one day you will find someone mature who will give you the stability and intensity that you are looking for, no matter how mature a child is, he is not capable of meeting your expectations.my advice would be better to free yourself and find someone who if he gives you what he is definitely not willing, and if it is because of his illness it sounds cruel, but you are willing to carry it, in the best stage of your life, where there is no time to lose, think about your son deserves your dissatisfaction and his illness? If what I told you is very strong and I´m not subtle at all, but even if you don´t believe it, I understand you We are the same age and I think you are wasting your valuable time trying to be the savior, I know this story and it does not end well you are beautiful no one deserves to make you feel bad
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Aug 11, 2022 - 02:49
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Sun Sign - Capricornboyakasha the guru » Virgo_sun333
Your story is reminding of the movie Don Jon, your fiance is acting like him.
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Aug 11, 2022 - 00:34
Synastry & Relationship: Depressed… but too far in…
Sun Sign - SagittariusGoldenlionXXXII » Virgo_sun333
Just an Idea but depression, anxiety, stress is all Sensory Room. Using your five senses of touch, taste, smell, sound, and sight. If you notice when you go out to the bars or night clubs they use music (sound therapy), Light therapy, Water therapy, Art Therapy.

Laser lights, strobe lights, Christmas light, neon lights, black light, liquid lava lamps, electricity lights, aquariums, and it gives the ambiance to the environment.

You just create it in your own environment.

Taste (Flavors) Touch (Textures), Sight (Visual), and Scents (Smell) and pretty much nothing new.

I love the Spencer Store for example.
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Aug 10, 2022 - 21:45
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Sun Sign - Virgorohini moon » Virgo_sun333
"I’m clean… I shave.."

Spoken like a true Virgo.
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Aug 10, 2022 - 21:22
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Sun Sign - SagittariusGoldenlionXXXII » Virgo_sun333
I think that´s the answer right there looking at the chart. You have brain wizard, on the quest, the adventure, the hunt. You have a gamer. :61:
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Aug 10, 2022 - 21:16
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Sun Sign - SagittariusGoldenlionXXXII » Virgo_sun333
In most relationships you will go through times where you have sex and other times you don´t. Mars being the way we bounce on the earth. How we fight and argue. How we work, create, and it´s all about where he´s focused. You can be in the zone and be building something with whatever job or education. Then you also have recreational activities or physical fitness.

1. Can be self-worth, self-love, self-respect, self-dignity. (How one sees themselves) whether your a woman or man.

2. Can be Medical/Mental Health issues.

3. Can be Entertainment.

4. Can be third parties.

5. Stress/Work Related.

6. "Words" how you talk and communicate. The "Words" you use. I know most of us can be sensitive and emotionally triggered about certain things. Maybe even the approach of what your saying here. That if your making it sound like it´s a problem then it may be projecting the idea that he´s doing something wrong. Then getting defensive about whatever occurs between you on the subject. Are you negative with criticism, or what words are you using and the meaning, the intention, the motivation, frustration, desperation, or what is the force behind it?

7. Usually, when your trying to get attention from a guy, there´s something you learning about the subject. Virgo in the 8th house is a perfectionist about sex. And it might be noteworthy to reflect on the whole process of what you do with your words and actions. I know it sounds kind of funny, but if your a perfectionist it can can come with measurements, length, depth, height, width, precision, accuracy, cleanliness.

For example: Say a women or man says that you have to where white clothes, the sheets have to be straightened, folded a certain way like a nurse for example at a hospital folds them around the corners. The pillows in a certain place, sheets folded over a certain way.

Another example: It has to be with bright lights on over the bed so you can see everything.

Another example: You have to kiss a certain way. You have to position a certain way. I don´t want to get to personal, but it´s kind of where you might have some kind of way that is irritating to them. Only you know what that is. As every Virgo is different.

Then you have dominance, control, and how the whole dynamics can be. I´m more Taurus Signature so it´s more using the five senses of sight, touch, smell, taste, and sound, and Venus.

I would look at your Signature and his and that would give you the clues what is dominate in the experience.

It´s not just about your needs, desires, and wants, but his too. It has to be balanced give and take.

And then your two different ages as you mentioned. The more you push it, force it, bug, the more he´ll probably go the opposite direction. It´s kind of where if you too needy, too desperate acting, men typically don´t care for this all the time.

Then it just depends on whether Mars in Gemini is into something different since it´s Air and deals with Mercury as Virgo does, but it´s the throat chakra and all about "Words" and maybe this is a key as well because some individuals like all that talking involved or even hands. Action with the arms, hands, and chest. Kissing.

Thinking might come in a lot as well. It might be boring maybe. Gemini is more intellectual, genius, and might be more about doing things differently. It´s where if Gemini´s are bored, they go do something else.

I don´t even have Mars in Gemini and I get bored with 11th house of Gemini and Uranus in Libra in 3rd house Gemini with people in general on any subject in conversation. It´s if it´s not stimulating, captivating my attention, then you just go do something else.

It might be noteworthy to be more creative, innovative, more interesting.

I haven´t looked at his chart, but i can say that if your dealing with someone that has an intelligent brain it´s really where attention isn´t going to be there if your not sparking the experience.
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Aug 10, 2022 - 21:14
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Sun Sign - TaurusMorena_Lu » Virgo_sun333
Well, you need that part of relationship... badly. I know life path 8...I dated them.. But I hope you will find some solution and be happy with him. :3: :1:
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Aug 10, 2022 - 21:07
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Sun Sign - TaurusMorena_Lu » Virgo_sun333
You are 718, he is 797... Your sex drive is .... bigger, he will probably never match it way you want it. You are very passionate woman.. Together you are 516, there is ok communication and emotion..
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Aug 10, 2022 - 20:50
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Sun Sign - GeminiFOWL » Virgo_sun333
Bi-Polar meds can absutely decimate sex drive, even if that wasn´t a problem before. I would assume that is a huge part of what´s going on.
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Aug 10, 2022 - 20:17
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Sun Sign - Leostayathomewife » Virgo_sun333
He not cheating, he has Mars in Gemini, Mars in Gemini has low sex drive, they can go for weeks, even months without sex.

I know this because my childhood best friend she married a Mars in Gemini man, and she was the one told me, her husband has low sex drive, but he not cheating, all his time spend is at work, with her or with their children.
Physical sex was not just the top priority with him, his Mars in Gemini has low sex drive. It not like he Scorpio Mars, lol. (this I know, I married a Scorpio Mars man, it 90 degree different from Gemini Mars though).
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Aug 10, 2022 - 20:14
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Sun Sign - Virgorohini moon » Virgo_sun333
almost a 20 year age gap.. woo.

I think that might the best answer.. but of course, I don´t know you and I don´t know him..

I mean no judgement and I am genuinely curious - how does this major age gap work in the relationship - being you are the woman and you are older here? Do you find yourself playing more of a maternal role to him? Thanks in advance if you decide to answer :74:

I also think it is very difficult to assess someones chart who has not undergone their Saturn Return yet either. There´s a few Vedic astrologers - that I have heard say - and I do agree with - that you can not judge their chart much until their personality has developed fully - which usually does not come about until they are 28-30 years old. SR..

not saying it is useless to look into their charts of course before that.. it´s perfectly fine.. but I don´t truly think a 24 year old has peaked on the maturity meter yet.
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