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Apr 23, 2022 - 06:27
Sun Sign - TaurusRosincvist » Omnom
Anaretic :157:, you are going to just let it roll over you for your :157: return!
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Jan 10, 2021 - 22:03
Sun Sign - TaurusIIyyaarr13 » Omnom
The better people I saw in childcare were obsessive-compulsive maniacs, I don´t expect others to have the same experience, how eager are you to have children living in a "Road Warrior" movie!? A lot more women are getting their ovaries tampered with unbeknownst to themselves!
You have a fertile chart, it is surprising you haven´t started a family young!
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Jul 6, 2020 - 09:47
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - ScorpioCrowleys Disciple » Omnom
I would make a decision and go with it, if it´s the wrong decision well you always can get divorced later.

Both my marriages I honestly put very little thought into it and had no fear at all of marriage. I just rushed into it, got married, and didn´t think twice about it. Both my marriage to my ex-wife and my marriage to my current wife were great marriages and I don´t regret them at all.

From birth information you posted you two look like you would be somewhat compatible so that is great.


your always going to have differences in marriage and things you don´t agree about. Marriage to me is never about perfection or finding the perfect compatible soulmate. It is about commitment and two becoming one. I choose to disagree with my wife on almost everything, but we love each other to death.
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Jun 26, 2020 - 10:05
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
You are most welcome! And I wish you the best of luck!

This is the link for Jewel, the Relationships astrologer that I mentioned:

https://www.truthinaspectastrology.com/…

She has been doing this for a few decades, and she is the real deal. After having seen and consulted hundreds of couples, she knows exactly how a certain compatibility chart actually manifests in real life.

What I know about Relationships Astrology, I learned from her videos (I have watched them all and actually put them to the "test" in my research into composites/synastries), from Robert Hand (his works) the creator of the composite technique, and from Steven Forrest (his works), one of the top astrologer in the world.

And I have put their works to the test by having analyzed lots and lots of compatibility charts while confirming my analysis and predictions with the individuals ("clients") I am doing the analysis for. So what I know about compatibility analysis, has been the result of extensive research. That´s why I am completely certain of the accuracy of composite in describing the actual dynamics of a relationship.

But I have not been doing this for decades as Jewel has been doing. That´s why I seriously recommend that you consider getting a consultation from her (OR from another astrologer). The decision you are about to make isn´t an easy one. We are talking here about relocating to another city/country with someone you have (and apparently for quite some time) doubts as to whether or not is the one you need as a husband.

Sometimes the individual can be "nice" and "good" for us, and everything. But if that "spark", that chemistry is lacking, we end up being in an unfulfilling relationship where romantic love turns into a desire to "not hurt the other" and to show gratitude to him/her for what he/she has done for us. A noble feeling/attitude, yes, but a romantic relationship is about a lot more than that.

A romantic relationship is about really "getting" the other; about being capable of "seeing" the other, understanding his/her emotional needs, and understanding where the individual is coming from. It is about having butterflies in our stomach, even years after we have been together. It is about not being able to take that individual from our minds because it feels so comfortable, so "right" to have him/her "up there".

Many couples stay together for the wrong reasons; emotional and/or financial security, not being alone, not hurting the other by breaking-up, etc, etc.

I was married for 12 years with a woman who was not compatible with me (and I wasn´t for her as well). And we BOTH suffered a lot because of that, because we really loved (still do but not in romantic ways) each other a lot, and didn´t want to hurt the other by leaving. But at the end, we just hurt each other even more.

I would give my life for her a million times over; her pain becomes my own; her suffering feels like my own, and I can´t even sleep when she is not doing well in life. I love her with such an intensity that it would be able to keep the universe lit forever. But it isn´t in romantic ways; it is more like the love one has for a sister or for a daughter. She is the mother of my princess daughter, and I beg God to allow me to die first, because it would be unbearable for me otherwise.

Sometimes one can love someone to death, but a relationship isn´t just possible because of the incompatibility factors. As friends, she and I do just great! But as partners it is literally a disaster!!!

I am telling you my own story, because I would not want the same things happening to you. I know nothing about you two, so I can´t possibly know whether or not it is the same scenario; perhaps it is very different. All I know is that you have a tough decision to make, and that you have doubts about it. So do yourself (and HIM) a favor and do ask for a 2nd opinion from a professional who does this all the time; and just make sure that you are doing what is best for both of you.

Best of luck!!
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Jun 26, 2020 - 05:07
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
Ok, let´s take a look at the composite.

Just with a quick look into it (without any analysis), we see a big red square in the middle of it. Even though this is not always the case, I worry when I see a big red square in a composite. Because generally speaking, it represents too many challenges.


1. Chiron (wounds) is conjunct Jupiter and the South Node. This might play out positively, meaning that perhaps, Jupiter would "heal" some old wounds (Chiron) from the past (the South Node). But many times it could mean wounds (Chiron) in the area of "expansion" and freedom (Jupiter) in the relationship, especially at home (the 4th house); and having had mutual wounds in a past life (the South Node). And more so because Jupiter is opposite to Saturn, which in turn is conjunct the North Node (future of the relationship).

There might be some astrologers (especially Vedic astrologers) who consider this conjunction of Saturn and the North Node (Rahu) as a "good" one to have a "binding" (Saturn) marriage. I just happen to disagree with that very, very much. Rahu with Saturn is definitely not a good combination to have in any compatibility chart.

2. Saturn square the Moon - One of the most challenging and "emotionally sad" aspects to have in a composite. Because it can become very emotionally cold, distant, and judgemental.

3. Pluto exactly conjunct the Descendant - A very passionate aspect to have, yes; it can make two individuals to feel so "connected", that it can even feel obsessive. Letting go with this aspect, becomes very hard indeed! Because it can transform two individuals in very deep and intense ways. And the sexual/sensual passion it can create, is even very addictive to say the least!

BUT, it can also cause (and most of the time do) many power struggles, efforts to dominate each other through subtle manipulations, extreme jealousy and possessiveness, etc. Definitely not an aspect to be taken lightly.

And from the Descendant, Pluto is opposite the Ascendant, and square the MC and the IC (home).

4. Moon opposite Mercury - Can create in one of you (or in the two of you), a sensation of not being understood (Mercury), especially when it comes to our feelings (Moon). One or the other is always trying to "intellectualize" the feelings of the other instead not just having enough empathy to "get it". And this can become very frustrating. "You never understand me!!!", is something that can be heard very frequently with this aspect.

5. The North Node square the Moon - could create some emotional tension, but it isn´t that bad or challenging.

6. Venus is in the 5th - a great position for Venus, yes - but it is debilitated in Virgo, and unaspected (it doesn´t receive "help" from any planets), except for a "trine" that isn´t really a trine as the orb is just too wide (around 10 degrees). So this could feel a bit emotionally empty.

7. Sun square Uranus - Not exactly the best aspect to have for a traditional marriage, because this aspect requires lots of freedom and independence in the relationship. And most people just doesn´t like that. Especially a Cancer individual like you. And this aspect can create a certain nervousness or tension between you; like it isn´t easy to relax. But it can also make the relationship exciting. It depends on everything else on the chart.

8. Chrion square the Moon - I don´t really like this one. Because the Moon in a composite is about how you two "feel" in the relationship, and is square to a planet that represents wounds.

9. The squares between Mercury and Jupiter, and Moon and Jupiter, usually manifest in very positive ways.

So overall - even though I think that composites DO need some challenges to keep it alive and not boring - I feel this composite feels a bit too cold and distant; bit too detached. Definitely not what I would consider a composite for a traditional marriage.


But this is just my opinion as an astrologer, of course. You should (and that´s my recommendation) consult a professional astrologer who specializes in relationships and get a 2nd opinion. Jewel from "Truth in Aspects" is definitely the best one. It might be a good idea to spend that money is something that is your future.

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck!! :27:
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Jun 26, 2020 - 04:22
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
Hi! Sorry for the delay! I got stuck doing a few things.

If I were you, I would not rush it at all. I really don´t like what I see in the composite. Definitely not one of the best composites I´ve seen. And something tells that your "intuition" is telling you to not rush it, and perhaps you are even in doubt whether or not you are meant to be together.

Throw away synastries; they are only useful to see the general "feel" about how 2 charts might interact. But synastries miss so many important things. And anyway, the synastry chart is "average" at the most; perhaps a 5 or 6 out of 10.

Yes, you do have many binding energies due to the principle that opposites attracts: you are a Cancer individual and he is a Capricorn (the opposite sign) by astrological signature; you are a Gemini Venus and he is a Sagittarius Sun and Venus; you are a Pisces Moon and he is a Virgo (the opposite) South Node; you are a Sagittarius North Node and he is a Sagittarius Sun; he is a Leo Descendant and you are a Leo Ascendant; you are a Virgo Mars and he is a Virgo South Node.

So yes; you two have many opposite energies that do attract and pull in. Opposites usually blend well together, even though they are also very different in nature, as I feel you two are.

I am just not so sure of it when I look at the composite chart (see chart attached). I´ll explain the chart in my next message. But I would say to not rush it. You two should live together BEFORE any decisions about getting married. That would be my best advice.
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Jun 25, 2020 - 16:58
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
Ok, information received, thank you. I´ll get back to you on that as soon as I can (before the day ends), after I look at everything from all angles.
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Jun 25, 2020 - 16:52
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
lots of good binding saturn aspects but sat sq venus and sat inconjunct venus, make sure you are on the right page when it comes to financial decisions or you could sabotage each others decisions. sounds weird to think about now, but you want a good solid foundation for love and finances (venus). but with the amount of saturn and pluto aspects, its very binding. so its good you ask about the synastry because once youre in it, youre in it and its hard to break.
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Jun 25, 2020 - 10:38
Synastry & Relationship: I´m struggling to make a decision.
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Omnom
If you post his birth information, it would be easier to counsel you, as we would be able to also look at his chart, the composite (a lot more important than the synastry, and more so for a marriage), and the transits from all charts.

Sorry for being too Aries blunt about it - my intention is only to help - but are these "circumstances" related to unplanned pregnancy?
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