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polareyezd » EarthsGoddess Neptune is staring at a beautiful meteor shower under the milky way in the quiet cool desert on the darkest evening. Neptune is sipping the best wine while snuggled under a blanket by a campfire with your lover while you listen to Jimi Hendrix jams amidst crashing waves of the sea while you´re hiding to successfully escape something responsible.. hahaha that´s so Neptune , correct me if I´m wrong.

Leo Moon » EarthsGoddess Neptune is both delusion, illusion but also creativity.

Like all planets and aspects, it is neither good nor bad.

Inspiration is good! Delusion is bad.

Proclaymation » EarthsGoddess So, I can´t put my finger on it, but I like to imagine the planets as individuals. Take Andy from Park and Rec and, to me, that´s Jupiter (expansive, philosophical, joyful, and eager to be around others, benefit, and help)

But, in this 1-to-1 of mine, Neptune is more or less . . . not a person, or a character. They have no body. They are, essentially, a feeling that the others feel, and share a feeling of, but don´t see or witness or interact with in such explicit terms.

If people are in a hot tub, Neptune is the tub. I like to think its ability is to go collect and connect us through emotions and experiences, and what we bring to it can float around and brush against others.

There´s a Russian film called "SOLARIS," and I believe that is a very Neptune film - astronauts on a remote space station in an alien planet that´s nothing but water find their dreams and their past loves from Earth appearing within the space station, with no explanation as to how this is possible. In actuality, these figments of personal imagination made real for others to see are in fact created by the planet, in some alien way of trying to understand the people that are inhabiting it (hot tub)

It can bring up pretty uncomfortable things, or pleasant things, but you can bet it´s full of feelings and emotion.

Neptune is . . . a hot tub. I guess, in my view.

IIyyaarr13 » EarthsGoddess The exaltation roster mean the planets always threaten to turn the rulership ladder upside down!
is the other negative mutable sign and so even though threatens to take some authority from and , remains the closest to Piscean!

ZynCitrus » EarthsGoddess your Neptune placement gives you illusions when it comes to love matters, but on the other side, it makes your life much more easier, because you see reality as more positive than it is...and this is good in my opinion off-course, you will have less worries, less fixations on material and consumerism, more spiritual insight, more dreams, more wishes... like being on drugs without being sick... in the long run, your psyche will thank you, you have way to protect yourself

nutelina » EarthsGoddess a sweet drug dealer.

Astro-Seek.com » EarthsGoddess This is definitely the planet I least understand. I only know it´s about imagination, idealizations, etc..

fishscales » EarthsGoddess This is a great and interesting question

I´m out the door, but will try to come back to it later, and try to give a somewhat quality response...I don´t know how much I´ll be able to "answer" though...

For now, bumping the thread, because I´m curious about what others have to say...

Iceblu333 » EarthsGoddess I´m still figuring out Neptune myself. Maybe it´s spiritual enlightenment.

Astrologically, you are not an Adult until after your Saturn Return around age 27/30 so even if you don´t know yourself right now, trust me he´ll put you right where you are supposed to be.

That´s all the advise I have.

MelodicBlu » EarthsGoddess Hell fakking yea, im a venus libra and i am a pro in staying in relationships that exhaust the fuk out of me. Its indeed bc u tend to compromise, and seek balance for the sake of harmony whether u r happy or not. Its a challenge for sure to have sich placement. Eventho u know damn well the person is not yor ideal fit, u just want the relationship to succeed bc u desire love so much and so deeply. Venus im libra, from my experience it means that a relationship must work out, bc u dont want to go through breakup, u dont want yet another relationship, u dont want to give your body again to another partner bla bla..

Nadya Lavand » EarthsGoddess Hello!

in can´t damage your relationship. It´s very strong and benefic planet. You are quite a romantic person in love and you often idealize your partners. But Venus is not related to the 7th house and husband significator.

When we analyze love life the most important to select the marriage significators. These planets describe your partners and the quality of relationships.

In your chart:

1) will affect the most as the planet in the 7th house.
2) Then - as the ruler of the 7.
3) Then - as the general significator of husband.

The main astrological reason why you don´t leave toxic relationship is ! The fixed signs ( ) act very often like that. In general is the most damaged significator. It´s peregrine, in the 8 house.

is in fall in It can attract difficult partners with toxic behaviors. Also Mars provokes quarrels and conflicts. Planets in fall feel like they are not taken seriously, not listened to, disrespected, so they can crave attention, or act in ways to pull the spotlight onto them.

is the best significator here. There is of course, but anyway Sun is better than Moon and Mars! it means if you want to improve your love life, choose a partner according to your Sun!

For example - , or (ASC or Sun sign), with good Sun in the 1 house. Sun in the 9th house - so he could be a foreigner or he works as a teacher, priest or lawyer. You can meet him abroad or during the trip. Or in the Internet. And so on.

Also, you can use good transits in your chart to find the auspicious days for dating.

In general this year you have difficult transit (ruler of your marriage house). Uranus makes relationships very unstable. Plus transit your 1 house. It´s not an easy period. You can feel stuck, depressed. But the next year will be better. When enters in your 1 house and gives you some fresh air. Take a chance in January 2020, when

Astro-Seek.com » EarthsGoddess Libra Sun Rising and Libra Venus... which is how I love... naturally our energy is very Goddess essence and Libra is the natural placement of Venus so we are elevated in an exquisite form of love. I think we settle because we are so used to being let down my everything in our life due to the fact that it feel as if others are not as romantically/emotionally/aesthetically in tune as us... like we always had to be the ones to create the vibe of love for others and its just to a point where we want to share love with another human so bad we just compromise...but its really a sign that we need to get more into out power and continue to raise our vibration and BECOME who we want to be with so we attract just that. Good luck, blessings and peace to your heart sister. I´m working on this too

Aiax66 » EarthsGoddess I ´ve got moon and venus in libra. Yes, it´s a torture when I´m not able to leave any sort of relationship... The only "solution" I found is escaping, I´m pretty good at vanishing. It´s a quite stupid and masochistic way to solve the problem, both sides suffer. I still can´t apply this method with some friends who betrayed me.
Have a good day☺

Astro-Seek.com » EarthsGoddess "do any sun libras or libra moon/Venus signs feel they have difficulty leaving a relationship or situation w/ someone who’s so attached to you.?"

As a Virgo Sun with Libra Moon and Venus, I used to convince myself this was true of myself.

The truth I realized is that it was my own attachment, particularly the fear of solitude that rationalized it, that stopped me from rocking my own personal boat of having to come to terms with developing a healthy relationship with myself that kept me in and revisiting long-term relationships that were unfulfilling.


I used to be focused on the potential of someone else wanting to be in a relationship with me when it came to with whom I would approach affectionately.

Another truth I realized is that the pain of rejection lasts extraordinarily shorter than that of a severed attachment. I discovered that, while the end result wasn´t ideal, living with having seen the possibilities of relationships that weren´t meant to be by following my own heart instead of listening to others´ came much easier and was much more fulfilling than chasing pipe-dreams rooted in fantasy and deceit.


If I´m to suffer, it´s better to do so with myself where I can be honest about it with myself and do something about it without anyone else´s approval, rather than to drag someone else into the quandry of my own indecision as to what it is that I truly want out of life and relationships with others.

Leo Moon » EarthsGoddess I have a Libra ascendant and Yes.....I find myself making accommodations too often.

I am pretty simple in my own needs and my Aquarius makes me tolerant and open minded , so I find myself mired in my partners complexities and drama.

I am definitely thinking about how to change this and have more peaceful and satisfying relationships.

So Yes....I get ya!

fishscales » EarthsGoddess "do any sun libras or libra moon/Venus signs feel they have difficulty leaving a relationship or situation w/ someone who’s so attached to you.? All this done in order to not “rock the boat” & hurt their feelings all while you’re suffering inside.???"

Well, how can I put this...

FUCK.

YEAH.

I´m a Libra rising, Venus in Taurus, Venus in the 7th house...with Mars in Taurus to boot.

I can relate to what you´re talking about to no end.

I´ve been in two relationships that lasted way too long because of exactly the things you´re describing: not wanting to hurt the other person or "rock the boat", except in my case it was made even worse because of a generous helping of Pisces romantic idealism and self-delusion.

Now, all of this happened between 15-20 years ago, but the tendencies you´re describing were all there.

Unfortunately, I can´t give you any advice about it, because I don´t think I ever really arrived upon a solution.

Fortunately... Very fortunately... I don´t have this kind of relationship with my wife, and I never did... But that´s not because I learned something or changed something within myself.

I´m not really sure what happened. Maybe I just got lucky.

The only thing I can say is, keep your partners needs in mind, but don´t be afraid to go after what you need in a relationship.

Basic pitfall of Libra: too much is done with the other person in mind while ignoring their own needs, leaving the Libra feeling unfulfilled, and eventually resentful.

Does not work out well for either side.

Gotta balance that Aries/Libra polarity between self and other.

N_thecat » EarthsGoddess I like most planets in 1st house - that´s something that makes people different/original/unique>

I am really jealous of your Neptune in 1st house. Uranus there is interesting too.

I think Neptune in 1st house is great for artists and people working in entertainment

Astro-Seek.com » EarthsGoddess Planets being retrograde is not negative. People give far too much importance to Mercury retrograde. It has never affected me in any way, negatively or positively.

fishscales » EarthsGoddess Makes sense to me that if Mercury is your sun sign´s ruling planet, Mercury retrograde would have a more profound effect on you.

Same thing regarding all the other planets/signs.

Don´t know the "official" answer to this though.

Astro-Seek.com » EarthsGoddess I know Leo Mercury Retrograde with Mars in Leo does impact my writing and creativity, since I´ve been writing a lot more since it turned Retrograde. Usually it depends on what archetype. There´s times where it can be where I edit and be a perfectionist. I had that happen in 2017, where I kept re-writing stuff, and editing, and it was quite funny.

I remember I think it was that year, I was talking to a professor who said they had a high rate that year, of dropping classes, and they just could not study, get there work done, and my child did the same thing that year with a Mid Heaven in Virgo and Gemini in Mercury in the 7th house.

I tend to write more whenever there is a Gemini Moon and Virgo Moon. I´ll talk more as well and not stop talking about intellectual subjects.

Pisces Mercury at the beginning of the year, I tend to write poetry a lot in Pisces transits in opposition of my Virgo Pluto.

Cancer Mercury in opposition of Capricorn Mercury can slow me down in writing. I´ll write, but not like I do with Leo Mercury.